ive never had a gf and can only speculate that it was bc i was too shy. what are your experiences with girls? did u have a hard time to get girls to make out with you? was it hard for you to find a relationship?discuss

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She and I have been dating for a while and though she’s a bit more on the shy side, she’s always been very loving and telling me how I’m too perfect and we have had some truly wonderful moments. However, earlier today after she admitted to me about a sexual dream she had the night before, a bit later she told me she doesn’t think she’s ready for a committing relationship yet, and yes, I was seriously hurt in the process, it was one of the most painful things my heart has ever experienced to be honest… But I talked about it with her.

She tells me she hasn’t lost her feelings at all and is more in love with me than ever, but even though I tell her she’s more than good enough for me, she herself doesn’t believe it and wants to make herself good enough. She is about three years younger than me and I am her first real relationship (she had others before this, but not serious). She says she wants to break up to get some more experience in dating so that when she gets older she will be good enough for me and we could have a future together.

She and I are going to be good friends no matter what, and I have dated several girls but I honestly haven’t loved any more than her… She says she understands if I date any girls during the time also, but I am not the type of guy, and as I warned her we don’t know what happened, and in exchange she needs to be completely open about how she really feels and must not play me and if she looses interest, she must tell me, since I don’t want to be toyed with.

Am I doing the right thing in letting her do this though she has her mind set and sticking by with her since I really do want to be with her, should I just leave this mess and try to put away my feelings, should I try to make her come back to me… I know what I think I’m going to do, but is what I’m doing the right thing? Thoughts?

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I noticed that its easy for some women to get climax. But others its different. I start dating this girl and she love to please and make me go first. I usually lost control because it feel so good and its a new relationship. I know I want to make her feel the same and make the relationship last.

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I have problems with my dad’s wife, and her two kids. But, because we decided to make the effort to get along, my relationship with both my brother and sister has grown and been very good.

My brother, however, has a girlfriend, who I was once good friends with. When I got engaged, I asked her to be a bridesmaid, and she said yes. We spent A LOT of time together and hung out a lot while my husband was away in basic training.

Well, out of the blue, I couldn’t get in contact with her anymore. Any text or call I tried to make came back saying the number was invalid. Then, my car got wrecked, and I have not gotten a new one yet. So it’s not like I could just go to her house and talk to her.

I saw her once at my dad’s, but her and my brother went into his bedroom, and I had enough sense not to interrupt, and they weren’t out by the time I left.

NONE of my family likes her. My dad HATES her, his wife hates her, my sister is annoyed with her anytime she is near, and even all the grandparents barely tolerate her. I was her only friend for a very long time, because I felt awful that she was so unliked in the family. I had no problems with her. She could just get annoying. I can get past that.

I had my wedding, without her or my brother, because I could not contact them. I sent an invitation to her house. I sent an invitation to my entire immediate family at my dad’s.

Then, I start hearing from friends that she is talking bad about me behind my back. I live in a small town. It’s what happens. Anything you say is heard by the whole town.

So, I make the extra effort and catch her online, and send her an IM. Here’s the convo:

me:hey. i need to talk to you.

her:k.

me:i keep hearing youre mad at me bc you think you didn’t get an invite to my wedding or that i didn’t want you to be a bridesmaid. hun, i sent an invite to you and your mom and kevin. idk, maybe i had the address wrong or something, but i copied it down from the fedex thing with the pics we did in Oklahoma. and i did try to send you texts asking you if you still wanted to be a bridesmaid, but they kept coming back saying invalid number.

her: look not to be mean but no i didnt get an invite it was just so rude when you told me to be a brides mad you cange your colors then you dont tell me when the wedding was and you kno where i was living you could have came to my house if you couldnt get me on the fone but you didnt try so…..idk wat to tell you im hurt and a simple appology isnt goin to cut it. you really hurt my feelings. ive been living at dustins and you saw me at mrs denas house like 3 times since then and you didnt even say a simple sorry or nothing.
ive got to go ive been stayin in the trailer at dustins you want me to forgive you come appoligies to me in person not through a text or im.

me:excuse me, but there is nothing to apologize about. i did nothing out of meaness to you. i only saw you ONE TIME at my dads, and you and dustin went into the bedroom, so i let you be. so you can continue to be bitter about this if you want, but my conscious is clean, bc i know i never did anything wrong or anything that was out of meaness. and by the way, I HAVE NO CAR. so, NO, i could not have come to your house, THANK YOU.

My conscious is clean, but now I’m so angry! I have the right to change my own wedding colors, first of all. That’s a minor thing in this dispute. My main thing is that now I don’t know what to do, because I KNOW she is the reason my brother won’t talk to me anymore, and I have no idea what to do. I’m at my wits end, and I’d love to just beat the hell out of her, but she would win, no doubt.

What do I do!? I can’t talk to her or him!

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I’ve been dating this amazing, beautiful girl for 4 months and we are taking it slow. But we are coming to that point in the relationship. We’ve told each other that we love each other, but I’m feeling really insecure about this anatomy problem. what do I do?

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i don’t understand why she can’t make me cum. i mean yeah before me she has been with a shit load of guys and her vagina is kinda loose but shouldn’t she still be able to make me cum. i do masterbate alot like three twice a day and i have no problem making myself cum but when we have sex she can’t we have probaby had sex over 200 times in our 1 year relationship and she had never made me come or even make me come close to come. what can i do to be able to cum for her? please help!!!! she feels really bad about it.

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we broke up because we both lied to her ex boyfriend/myex roommate but i was mad at her one day and told him and so now she doesnt trust me and we broke up and she doesnt want to talk to me again and she says that maybe when..if she could ever forgive me…that she will try to be friends but she said dont count on it. what can I do to make her want me more. SHe did tell me to just drop the drama and to not talk about her at all to anyone. So besides that what else can i do to better myself and make her want me back and to make her love me again whether she is single or is in a relationship?

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I know normally 3 or 4 months into the relationship a couple has sex with each other for the first time.

But, how did the first time you had sex with your girlfriend or boyfriend come about ?

Did you just get really passionate with each other and then you eventually went into the bedroom ?

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My bestfriend has a serious crush on her extremely handsome and highly intellectual gay neighbor. She even told me that she wants to have sex with him.

He’s openly gay but he’s not promiscusous at all. He’s not in a relationship right now, however he does have "male company" every now and then, if you know what I mean…

Despite it all, she still craves to sleep with him. She claims he’s bi but he never has women coming over just men.

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i need some help to help make my girlfriend orgasm. we’ve been together for over a year and i want to spice up our relationship by making her satisfied in bed. can somebody help please?!!!!!

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It seems like I’m meant to be with a woman. How come I always am hooking up with guys? I don’t like having a boyfriend. I like having a girlfriend. I find guys as really hot but it doesn’t make me want to be in a relationship with them. I just want to hook up or do nothing but look. So doesn’t it seem like I am meant to be with a girl? Then why am I always doing this?

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My friend is bi. She had three relationships with men and on her second relationship with a woman. She claims to be holding back in bed when it comes to s*x with women but is a bit more expressive with men.

How should she enjoy s*x with women more?

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After all, if the definition is to procreate, would any man who has sex with a woman have to get married to her by definition? In addition, if it is "natural law" that a woman and man hook up, then whats the big deal with one nights stands? Isn’t that god’s law?
Or, is the whole point that ONLY a man and woman together as a single unit have a meaniful relationship and all others are just banthar podder?

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Basically I’ve been with my girlfriend for around 17 months and while we’ve had our ups and downs, overall we’re really happy together.

But during that time, there have been problems getting her to orgasm.

I would say that 50% of the time I have managed to get her to orgasm. I achieve this either through using my hands or oral - but it’s fair to say it’s hit and miss.

The problem is I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I read up a lot on it and in my mind at least I am doing the same things but the results are very inconsistent. When we have our good patches, things are great but there are times where no matter how often we try we just can’t get there. Every time we are together I try and get her to orgasm.

Recently though, it has been miss after miss and it’s got to a point where it’s effecting our relationship. We’ve probably had around 4 or 5 disappointing times in a row now, and obviously she is getting frustrated and I just feel like I’m letting her down.

Is there any way to increase the chances of achieving orgasm? I just want to give my girlfriend what she deserves.

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I need help, i have tried everything, we have been together and still can not get her off. I feel like this is seriously causing strain on our relationship. I have been with other women and never had a problem close to this. Any suggestions or tips. She gets, like dry after like 10 min, she says she still really wants to keep going but it hurts. We tried using lube already.
I need help, i have tried everything, we have been together and still can not get her off. I feel like this is seriously causing strain on our relationship. I have been with other women and never had a problem close to this. Any suggestions or tips. She gets, like dry after like 10 min, she says she still really wants to keep going but it hurts. We tried using lube already.

I dont think it is a size issue, i have been told i am bigger than avereage, shes 22 years old and im 20.
I dont think it is a size issue, i have been told i am bigger than avereage, shes 22 years old and im 20.

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i have a small penis in my opinion. i feel like i do not please my sexual partners and that is why i can not maintain a relationship. what are some tips for me that i could do to make up for my penis. like oral tips or other i could do to please a girl… FYI my penis is about 5 and a half inches long when fully erect and about 1 and a half inches in diameter

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My girlfriend comes from an Orthodox Jewish family, originally from Israel, and her parents really dislike that I’m having a relationship with their daughter and they wish I would leave her. I cannot seem to do anything that will make them accept me being with her. They are really against the fact that I’m not Jewish and told me I couldn’t convert just for the sake of being with their daughter. How could I make them come to accept me? What should I do about my situation? Do any Jews have any suggestions for me?
My girlfriend does not want to give up her religion/heritage, but she wants to be with me too.

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like my mind tells me to do it and we always end of arguing and she does it back to me and we get into stupid fights so we ended the relationship. but the funny thing is i was in love with her and i even cryed in the bathroom for like 5 min and my dad called me a girl lol. but she broke my heart anyways how can i fix this for my future relationships?!!?!

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I am 15 and about to turn 16 and my penis is 4.5 inches long. Plus i am dating this girl and she wants to go further into our relationship, but I’m afraid she will think it is small. Please help me out because she is really pushing for this.

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This is totally hypothical question. Its in no relation to me.

But I was wondering if a women wants to be in a relationship, why she depend so much on her girl friends.

I know her friends opinion is important, but there are nice guys out there who are totally looked over because their friends tell them he’s not good enough for her, or he’s no tall enough, or doesn’t drive the nicest car.

It seems alot of times these superfical things come out and doesn’t allow the person to make her own decision, without their girls friend say "I told you so"
For instance years ago I was dating this girl and her sister had such distain for me for no reason and when we broke up , I tried to rebuild our relationship. But I couldn’t help to think that her friends and sister advised her other wise.

I don’t mean to rant, but give me your opionion. Remember this my own observation and is in no relation to me.

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Me and my girlfriend have been sexually active for some time now. We used to, well just go at it all the time. And some things in our relationship got kinda hard. And after all that stuff happened then she kinda slowed stuf down.. And now that she did that Sex has been more difacult. Well I’m not pleasing her as much as I used to and that wories me. I just want to please her real well.

Thanks.

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