The great thing about seducing women is that they are HARD WIRED to follow their emotional thoughts and feelings that are the same across ALL women… They cannot help it. That’s why so many women fall for the same “ass hole” guys. Read more...

How come guys always try to make me feel bad for waiting for a commitment before having sex? Men act like women are supposed to just hoe themselves out to find a man. It is so irritating! Why does it make me a bad person for having expectations of a man and standards for myself. So annoyed right now! Do men just not believe in being in a relationship before sex anymore or what?

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Lately I have been having problems keeping friends. I guess its maybe because. I make bad choices When it come to making friends and then. I found out later what kind of person they are then I end up
closing the door in their face because they are very strange or they have issues I can’t deal with or come to find out its a person that is trashing me behind my back to other people or stealing from me etc. Lately for me its been really hard to trust people anymore and it seems like the more time goes on in this world the less people I find that I can trust and its only getting worse but. when ever I do find someone I wanted to be friends with they always end up not liking me later. I don’t know if its because I’m a strange person or what?
I feel there is times though even I think I’m a strange person in some of the things I like to do but. Some of the stuff I do.

I don’t think are strange. People I guess maybe take me the wrong way and I’m misunderstood and a lot of people treat me like. I’m special as in mental but in ways.I don’t feel mental. I feel I’m really intelligent. I build computers, play electric guitar,when ever I take a test I always ace it. People in a lot of ways start to like me then they shy away like they feel there is something wrong with me and then they slowly stop talking to me to the point of ignoring me and I haven’t done or said anything to make them feel bad or make them mad or hate me.

Trying to find a gf now that’s another story. I find it lately I can’t even say hi to a women with out creeping them out. I said hi to this women at my work one day and she got her husband after me.

LOL When all I did was said hi and good morning. I wasn’t coming on to her or anything. It was just a friendly hello. Anyways how can I break this ice that has been plaguing me for years. It seems like no matter what I do in the beginning of any friendship or relationship with a women they end up hating me or just not talking to me anymore. I want nice and good friends. People that I can truly
trust but lately that hasn’t been happening. I want to get married and have a good life. It seems like when ever I get involved with a women here comes a jealous guy or one of her friends that don’t like me and then they start feeding her mind with garbage and trashing me and they brain wash her to the point of her leaving me. .That happened between me and my x-wife but still even though that did happen me and my x-wife still have remained friends over it. My question is what am I doing wrong? Anytime I’m with a women I treat them with respect and I treat them well.
I don’t believe in sex before marriage and I let them know that when I’m with them. I treat all my friends with respect. I have a friend I have been friends with for over 25 years now. Since I was a kid and we are still good friends. They have never had any problems with me. I have another friend that I have been friends with going on 10 years. They have never had any problems with me. So if any of you out there could tell me how I can solve this problem and start making good friends and keep them. I’m tired of not having very many friends. I can tell you this most of the time the reason the friendship ends its because something they did to me. Can anyone help me out with this problem I’m having. Thanks I want to eventually start a relationship with a women and have a wife and a family. That is something I desire very much as a man. Thanks Sorry such a long question. I will leave my feed back when you guys are done answering the question. Thank you!!!!!

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How can you tell your boyfriend will be abusive, or is abusive…is there something in his behavior that would make you know. What comes in to the mind of a man when he is being abusive, does he become a whole different person or is he in a phase he is not aware about.Some men can be very calm then all of sudden they are abusive.
i know someone who is abusive and he has a strong relationship with his mother, is that usual.?

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But like the children produced from such a relationship? They will make fun of a black guy from going with a white girl, but like mixed buys because they have "good hair" and light skin?

I know this does not apply to all black women, and in no way am I generalizing. I am just wondering why some black women are like this?

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my girlfriend recently told me that the size of my penis is becoming an issue when i asked her to marry me.. she suggested penis enlargement surgery.. she said that if i’m not willing to do this for her then she’s going to leave me because she feels that the relationship will end badly.. the doctor told me there’s a chance that my penis may not work after surgery.. i told her about it and asked her if the surgery doesn’t go well and i can’t use my penis then what? she said she’l leave me.. i really love her… are there any other options because i don’t want to lose the one person i really care about…

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How come people will want to cuddle or be close with someone at times? What makes a woman want to cuddle with a man, but not a woman? How come some guys I watch movies with, I want to cuddle with? I don’t understand this need or want for it and why with certain people if I don’t necessarily like them or want a relationship with them. Why do we get this urge for physical closeness at times?

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i’m in my early 20’s and sometimes i’ll see a young pretty woman (mid teens) looking at me and it seems clear they are checking me out (i catch them lookin at me.. they look away really fast all shy and stuff.. body language) and tho they are to young for me i still find them physically attractive.. not only that but i find myself feeling more feelings for younger women, deeper feelings.. when i catch a good lookin younger woman checking me out with the innocent way they are and the way they look at me, it drives me nuts… not in a lustful way.. more like a caring puppy love way, i guess… and i don’t mean "in love" i just mean more love potential and it makes me feel more "alive".. and i do not do any creepy stuff like wink or anything like that, i just go about my business because i feel guilty about it to the point i don’t even want to look at them.. because i shouldn’t even think of young women in a more than friends way, nor do i want to.. but it’s not like i can help what i feel.. i’ve had an attractive under age woman physically come on to me and i ignored it so she’d stop and to spare her feelings, so don’t worry it’s not like i’m some sick sexual predator trying to take advantage of young woman or anything.. it’s really just the feelings that have me confused.. what does this mean about me? does it make me a bad person to feel this way? could it just be them liking older guys more because they hit puberty sooner than the boys around their age thus reflecting their feelings on older guys like me?
yeahh.. but what about the way i feel about it?

well thanks snowball… as if i’m not already confused about why i feel this way.. and no you’re wrong.. honestly if i got in any relationship with an under age girl i’d take time to get to know her until she was of age

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so i am a freshman guy in high school (15) and i have been going out with this girl for like 4 months. we make out and hug a lot and i have been to her house like 3 times and her parents are "right there" a lot of the time and i always ask her to come over to my house and she says her parents will never let her and i really love her. But i really want to physically go further in our relationship so what should i do?

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> Quickie #1
> One day, Jay Dini came home and was greeted by his wife dressed in a
>very sexy nightie.
> "Tie me up," she purred, "and you can do anything you want."
> So he tied her up and went fishing.

> Quickie #2
>
> A woman came home, screeching! her car into the driveway, and ran
>into the house.
> She slammed the door and shouted at the top of her lungs, "Honey,
>pack your bags. I won the damn lottery!"
> The husband said, "Oh my God! What should I pack, beach stuff or
>mountain stuff?"
> "Doesn’t matter," she said. "Just get the hell out."
>
> Quickie #3
>
> Marriage is a relationship in which one person is always right, and
>the other is a husband.
>
> Quickie #4
>
> A Polish immigrant went to the DMV to apply for a driver’s license.
> First, of course, he had to take an eye sight test.
> The optician showed him a card with the letters:
> ‘C Z W I X N O S T A C Z.’
> "Can you read this?" the optician asked.
> "Read it?" the Polish guy replied, "I know the guy."
>
> Quickie #5
>
> Mother Superior called all the nuns together and said to them, "I
>must tell you all
> something. We have a case of gonorrhea in the convent."
> "Thank God," said an elderly nun at the back. "I’m so tired of
>chardonnay."
>
> Quickie #6
>
> A wife was making a breakfast of fried eggs for her husband.
>Suddenly, her husband burst into the kitchen.
> "Careful," he said, "CAREFUL! Put in some more butter! Oh my GOD!
>You’re cooking too many at once. TOO MANY! Turn them! TURN THEM NOW! We
>need more butter. Oh my GOD! WHERE are we going to get MORE BUTTER? They’re
>going to STICK!
> Careful…CAREFUL! I said be CAREFUL! You NEVER listen to me when
>you’re cooking! Never! Turn them! Hurry up! Are you CRAZY? Have you LOST
>your mind?
> Don’t forget to salt them. You know you always forget to salt them.
>Use the salt. USE THE SALT! THE SALT!!! THE SALT!!!"
> The wife stared at him. "What in the world is wrong with you? You
>think I don’t know how to fry a couple of eggs?"
> The husband calmly replied, "I wanted to show you what it feels like
>when I’m driving."
>
> Quickie #7
>
> Fifty-one years ago, Herman James, a North
> Carolina mountain man, was drafted by the Army.
> On his first day in basic training, the Army issued him a comb.
> That afternoon the Army barber sheared off all his hair.
> On his second day, the Army issued Herman a toothbrush.
> That afternoon the Army dentist yanked seven of his teeth.
> On the third day, the Army issued him a jock strap.
> The Army has been looking for Herman for 51 years

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My girlfriend has told me she will never visit my family that lives about 1300 miles away (in the northeast) because that part of the country is too full of a@#holes. My GF and nuclear family had a bad first meeting and my sister insulted her, so I understand how hard it may be for her. But, I have a huge extended Italian family that I love and am proud of, and would love to show off our relationship to them. We have dated for over 2 years and her opinion does not seem to be changing. We may have recently come to a tenuous agreement that I am allowed to visit, but she will never go with me. Does anyone have a suggestion on how to give her the choice to make an effort to meet my family? How long should I wait to ask her to go up north? Should I never ask, and just let her come around on her own?

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Pride and an obsession with power is what holds her back yet she tries to tell me all kinds of excuses when we both know the truth. The point is she tells me she loves me but I don’t see her risking all for me and trying to save our relationship.She is waiting for me to come to her like I did in the past many times but it is one sided so being smart, now I’am waiting for her to make the move so I can take her seriosly and have a smooth 2008 it has been one year. I am determined to wait and see if she loves me enough like she always says. On the other hand I think I should move on and find a real woman who will put love above power and pride and appriciate me. Advice from men and woman with a serious response would be appriciated. Thank-you

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theres a guy I’ve been close to since new years, he told me that he has a girlfriend now even though he still likes me and he was dreading to tell me. he wants to be friends but he still likes me?

i really like him, but I don’t want lose him as a friend but it seems too hard to keep him as a friend while seeing him with someone else..

he even told me that I deserve better than him and was naming a bunch of reasons almost as if he isn’t good enough for me…

i told him I needed time, and he was like ok but please don’t take long because I’m going to go crazy without talking to you

what should I do? and why would he say I deserve better than him?

he was never seeing her before me, it was just recently..

he told me today he didn’t hardly sleep, and that his whole day was horrible and told my best guy friend about it. but then we talked about maybe hanging out he got weird and said maybe his girlfriend should come even though he wants to be with me? while he said his girlfriend wouldn’t care if he and I hunged out or talked but then today he claims she might get jealous..

plus his girlfriend lives like an hour away, and she’s 3 years younger than he and i? PLUS HE HAS NOT SEEN HER SINCE SUMMER! he even told me he is unsure about being in a relationship with her due to the distance.
plus he said I can’t flirt but he flirts with me saying that he likes the cold because you can make body heat with another person…?

did he ever really like me?
why does he care and feel like a complete jerk and crap..

he went to go to the mall with his gf, but continued to text me. then he only was with her for barely an hour, he claims his friend was flirting with her so he and his friend left?

im so confused. he told me before he was going to see her that ‘im not happy, if you’re not happy’

he’d text me every day, up till 1-3am

he got jealous when he found out about me and my best guy friend going to prom together, he told me if i dated other guys he’ll get jealous.

he tells me how boring his girlfriend is, and is already making plans to come see me teach and dance pretty much all day. and wants to hug me and such.

he told me he likes me more than her, but he didnt know how i felt. hes made plans to see me twice next week, and he flirts with me and such.

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d party. I told him right away, he forgave me. At least he said he had. We continued our relationship but it ended because of some poor decisions made by the both of us. I still wanted him back, but he said it was too much stress and he couldn’t come back. He has a new girlfriend and I find out that during our relationship he had sex with other girls behind my back. I still care about him alot but I was furious! She confronted me about why I was mad at him, I told her what he had done. This meant nothing to her and she continued to date him. She also knew i still wanted him back. She has made many mistakes in their relationship or so he tells me, and he calls me daily now to catch up and i thought it was great i was so HAPPY! But he has to hide this from her, because she has said if we talk she WILL hurt me so he isn’t going to tell her. We met up and ended up kissing which led to other things. And he an i both want to make a weekly thing out of it, i know its wrong – but i did warn her.

But after thinking about it long and hard, i realize its wrong and if she were to find out she would feel the same way I did when it happened to me. I dont know what to do should i let him get away with it and move on (EVEN THOUGH he was my first "serious" boyfriend) and i still care about him and want him but i know its wrong!

do i tell her and face MY OWN consequences, and lose him.
and ruin their relationship.

or just continue to talk and see him, without her knowing and keep it our little secret?

I AM NOT A HOE, i just have VERY strong feelings for him and i dont know what to do now…i want to do the right thing and still be happy but i dont know?…HELP!?

* 5 minutes ago
* – 3 days left to answer.

i do not just want him for SEX… i think he wants me for just that but I DONT KNOW!

we almost had a baby together, but it did die during our relationship

he says he misses me…he knows i miss him.
he knows how i feel NOW, but he didnt know before*
(when we dated, i was not as open as i am now)

wat do i do?

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I am a decent guy who is generally well liked by people. however,i cheated on my pregnant wife. i misread all the signs. ever since she was preggers, she has been soo mean and uncaring. anyways, i found another relationship with another woman. this other woman come on to me and ill admit, i like when people jus listen to me and care for me. i have also had sex with her and chat daily. she knows i am married too. this other woman is also very good looking for an older woman.

this is my second marriage and i am 22 years old. my first marriage ended because my ex found out i was a member of a dating site. lol, she said i abused her even though i only punched her after she slaped me several times.

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I’m almost convinced that there’s always a struggle in a relationship, that there’s always something that we’re not doing right in your eyes at any given time. Can one man REALLY satisfy a woman?
I’m going to have to put this one to a vote.. I really appreciate those who contributed. I don’t know that a man can really satisfy all of a woman’s needs, but I think if we are loving, positive, and supportive, and give you our all, that you are happy with us regardless. Sometimes I think women don’t know what they need, and having that supportive partner in their life to help them figure it out and get through it brings an even deeper love and understanding. I’m no Dr.Phil or Oprah, and don’t always understand what my lady is going through, but she knows I’m here for her no matter what. I know she is for me just the same, and that satisfies me. I hope you’re all having a wonderful day, and wish nothing but the best for you in your lives. Peace and love y’all!

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My ex and I broke up about 4 weeks ago and he got a girlfriend and it’s bugging me so bad & I want him back so bad. Today he & I hung out all day. Everyone was asking if we were back together. He gave me his jacket & flirted with me, & I did back. We had a deep conversation about what we missed about our relationship & I just can’t take not having him anymore. How do I deal with it or how can I try and tell him that I want him back?

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ive never had a gf and can only speculate that it was bc i was too shy. what are your experiences with girls? did u have a hard time to get girls to make out with you? was it hard for you to find a relationship?discuss

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She and I have been dating for a while and though she’s a bit more on the shy side, she’s always been very loving and telling me how I’m too perfect and we have had some truly wonderful moments. However, earlier today after she admitted to me about a sexual dream she had the night before, a bit later she told me she doesn’t think she’s ready for a committing relationship yet, and yes, I was seriously hurt in the process, it was one of the most painful things my heart has ever experienced to be honest… But I talked about it with her.

She tells me she hasn’t lost her feelings at all and is more in love with me than ever, but even though I tell her she’s more than good enough for me, she herself doesn’t believe it and wants to make herself good enough. She is about three years younger than me and I am her first real relationship (she had others before this, but not serious). She says she wants to break up to get some more experience in dating so that when she gets older she will be good enough for me and we could have a future together.

She and I are going to be good friends no matter what, and I have dated several girls but I honestly haven’t loved any more than her… She says she understands if I date any girls during the time also, but I am not the type of guy, and as I warned her we don’t know what happened, and in exchange she needs to be completely open about how she really feels and must not play me and if she looses interest, she must tell me, since I don’t want to be toyed with.

Am I doing the right thing in letting her do this though she has her mind set and sticking by with her since I really do want to be with her, should I just leave this mess and try to put away my feelings, should I try to make her come back to me… I know what I think I’m going to do, but is what I’m doing the right thing? Thoughts?

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I noticed that its easy for some women to get climax. But others its different. I start dating this girl and she love to please and make me go first. I usually lost control because it feel so good and its a new relationship. I know I want to make her feel the same and make the relationship last.

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I have problems with my dad’s wife, and her two kids. But, because we decided to make the effort to get along, my relationship with both my brother and sister has grown and been very good.

My brother, however, has a girlfriend, who I was once good friends with. When I got engaged, I asked her to be a bridesmaid, and she said yes. We spent A LOT of time together and hung out a lot while my husband was away in basic training.

Well, out of the blue, I couldn’t get in contact with her anymore. Any text or call I tried to make came back saying the number was invalid. Then, my car got wrecked, and I have not gotten a new one yet. So it’s not like I could just go to her house and talk to her.

I saw her once at my dad’s, but her and my brother went into his bedroom, and I had enough sense not to interrupt, and they weren’t out by the time I left.

NONE of my family likes her. My dad HATES her, his wife hates her, my sister is annoyed with her anytime she is near, and even all the grandparents barely tolerate her. I was her only friend for a very long time, because I felt awful that she was so unliked in the family. I had no problems with her. She could just get annoying. I can get past that.

I had my wedding, without her or my brother, because I could not contact them. I sent an invitation to her house. I sent an invitation to my entire immediate family at my dad’s.

Then, I start hearing from friends that she is talking bad about me behind my back. I live in a small town. It’s what happens. Anything you say is heard by the whole town.

So, I make the extra effort and catch her online, and send her an IM. Here’s the convo:

me:hey. i need to talk to you.

her:k.

me:i keep hearing youre mad at me bc you think you didn’t get an invite to my wedding or that i didn’t want you to be a bridesmaid. hun, i sent an invite to you and your mom and kevin. idk, maybe i had the address wrong or something, but i copied it down from the fedex thing with the pics we did in Oklahoma. and i did try to send you texts asking you if you still wanted to be a bridesmaid, but they kept coming back saying invalid number.

her: look not to be mean but no i didnt get an invite it was just so rude when you told me to be a brides mad you cange your colors then you dont tell me when the wedding was and you kno where i was living you could have came to my house if you couldnt get me on the fone but you didnt try so…..idk wat to tell you im hurt and a simple appology isnt goin to cut it. you really hurt my feelings. ive been living at dustins and you saw me at mrs denas house like 3 times since then and you didnt even say a simple sorry or nothing.
ive got to go ive been stayin in the trailer at dustins you want me to forgive you come appoligies to me in person not through a text or im.

me:excuse me, but there is nothing to apologize about. i did nothing out of meaness to you. i only saw you ONE TIME at my dads, and you and dustin went into the bedroom, so i let you be. so you can continue to be bitter about this if you want, but my conscious is clean, bc i know i never did anything wrong or anything that was out of meaness. and by the way, I HAVE NO CAR. so, NO, i could not have come to your house, THANK YOU.

My conscious is clean, but now I’m so angry! I have the right to change my own wedding colors, first of all. That’s a minor thing in this dispute. My main thing is that now I don’t know what to do, because I KNOW she is the reason my brother won’t talk to me anymore, and I have no idea what to do. I’m at my wits end, and I’d love to just beat the hell out of her, but she would win, no doubt.

What do I do!? I can’t talk to her or him!

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I’ve been dating this amazing, beautiful girl for 4 months and we are taking it slow. But we are coming to that point in the relationship. We’ve told each other that we love each other, but I’m feeling really insecure about this anatomy problem. what do I do?

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i don’t understand why she can’t make me cum. i mean yeah before me she has been with a shit load of guys and her vagina is kinda loose but shouldn’t she still be able to make me cum. i do masterbate alot like three twice a day and i have no problem making myself cum but when we have sex she can’t we have probaby had sex over 200 times in our 1 year relationship and she had never made me come or even make me come close to come. what can i do to be able to cum for her? please help!!!! she feels really bad about it.

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we broke up because we both lied to her ex boyfriend/myex roommate but i was mad at her one day and told him and so now she doesnt trust me and we broke up and she doesnt want to talk to me again and she says that maybe when..if she could ever forgive me…that she will try to be friends but she said dont count on it. what can I do to make her want me more. SHe did tell me to just drop the drama and to not talk about her at all to anyone. So besides that what else can i do to better myself and make her want me back and to make her love me again whether she is single or is in a relationship?

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I know normally 3 or 4 months into the relationship a couple has sex with each other for the first time.

But, how did the first time you had sex with your girlfriend or boyfriend come about ?

Did you just get really passionate with each other and then you eventually went into the bedroom ?

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My bestfriend has a serious crush on her extremely handsome and highly intellectual gay neighbor. She even told me that she wants to have sex with him.

He’s openly gay but he’s not promiscusous at all. He’s not in a relationship right now, however he does have "male company" every now and then, if you know what I mean…

Despite it all, she still craves to sleep with him. She claims he’s bi but he never has women coming over just men.

…

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i need some help to help make my girlfriend orgasm. we’ve been together for over a year and i want to spice up our relationship by making her satisfied in bed. can somebody help please?!!!!!

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It seems like I’m meant to be with a woman. How come I always am hooking up with guys? I don’t like having a boyfriend. I like having a girlfriend. I find guys as really hot but it doesn’t make me want to be in a relationship with them. I just want to hook up or do nothing but look. So doesn’t it seem like I am meant to be with a girl? Then why am I always doing this?

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My friend is bi. She had three relationships with men and on her second relationship with a woman. She claims to be holding back in bed when it comes to s*x with women but is a bit more expressive with men.

How should she enjoy s*x with women more?

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After all, if the definition is to procreate, would any man who has sex with a woman have to get married to her by definition? In addition, if it is "natural law" that a woman and man hook up, then whats the big deal with one nights stands? Isn’t that god’s law?
Or, is the whole point that ONLY a man and woman together as a single unit have a meaniful relationship and all others are just banthar podder?

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Basically I’ve been with my girlfriend for around 17 months and while we’ve had our ups and downs, overall we’re really happy together.

But during that time, there have been problems getting her to orgasm.

I would say that 50% of the time I have managed to get her to orgasm. I achieve this either through using my hands or oral – but it’s fair to say it’s hit and miss.

The problem is I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I read up a lot on it and in my mind at least I am doing the same things but the results are very inconsistent. When we have our good patches, things are great but there are times where no matter how often we try we just can’t get there. Every time we are together I try and get her to orgasm.

Recently though, it has been miss after miss and it’s got to a point where it’s effecting our relationship. We’ve probably had around 4 or 5 disappointing times in a row now, and obviously she is getting frustrated and I just feel like I’m letting her down.

Is there any way to increase the chances of achieving orgasm? I just want to give my girlfriend what she deserves.

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I need help, i have tried everything, we have been together and still can not get her off. I feel like this is seriously causing strain on our relationship. I have been with other women and never had a problem close to this. Any suggestions or tips. She gets, like dry after like 10 min, she says she still really wants to keep going but it hurts. We tried using lube already.
I need help, i have tried everything, we have been together and still can not get her off. I feel like this is seriously causing strain on our relationship. I have been with other women and never had a problem close to this. Any suggestions or tips. She gets, like dry after like 10 min, she says she still really wants to keep going but it hurts. We tried using lube already.

I dont think it is a size issue, i have been told i am bigger than avereage, shes 22 years old and im 20.
I dont think it is a size issue, i have been told i am bigger than avereage, shes 22 years old and im 20.

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i have a small penis in my opinion. i feel like i do not please my sexual partners and that is why i can not maintain a relationship. what are some tips for me that i could do to make up for my penis. like oral tips or other i could do to please a girl… FYI my penis is about 5 and a half inches long when fully erect and about 1 and a half inches in diameter

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My girlfriend comes from an Orthodox Jewish family, originally from Israel, and her parents really dislike that I’m having a relationship with their daughter and they wish I would leave her. I cannot seem to do anything that will make them accept me being with her. They are really against the fact that I’m not Jewish and told me I couldn’t convert just for the sake of being with their daughter. How could I make them come to accept me? What should I do about my situation? Do any Jews have any suggestions for me?
My girlfriend does not want to give up her religion/heritage, but she wants to be with me too.

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like my mind tells me to do it and we always end of arguing and she does it back to me and we get into stupid fights so we ended the relationship. but the funny thing is i was in love with her and i even cryed in the bathroom for like 5 min and my dad called me a girl lol. but she broke my heart anyways how can i fix this for my future relationships?!!?!

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I am 15 and about to turn 16 and my penis is 4.5 inches long. Plus i am dating this girl and she wants to go further into our relationship, but I’m afraid she will think it is small. Please help me out because she is really pushing for this.

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This is totally hypothical question. Its in no relation to me.

But I was wondering if a women wants to be in a relationship, why she depend so much on her girl friends.

I know her friends opinion is important, but there are nice guys out there who are totally looked over because their friends tell them he’s not good enough for her, or he’s no tall enough, or doesn’t drive the nicest car.

It seems alot of times these superfical things come out and doesn’t allow the person to make her own decision, without their girls friend say "I told you so"
For instance years ago I was dating this girl and her sister had such distain for me for no reason and when we broke up , I tried to rebuild our relationship. But I couldn’t help to think that her friends and sister advised her other wise.

I don’t mean to rant, but give me your opionion. Remember this my own observation and is in no relation to me.

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Me and my girlfriend have been sexually active for some time now. We used to, well just go at it all the time. And some things in our relationship got kinda hard. And after all that stuff happened then she kinda slowed stuf down.. And now that she did that Sex has been more difacult. Well I’m not pleasing her as much as I used to and that wories me. I just want to please her real well.

Thanks.

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My girlfriend and I have added something new to our relationship, but we only perform it intermittenly. We like anal, but she can only do it like once a week–strangely she comes really well that way, but can only take it once a week. I’m not entirely huge, but I’m not small either. When will she "loosen up" and be able to take it more regularly. We’ve only been doing it "back there" for about a month.

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Do you think that a woman who is sexually attracted to both sexes, but only romantically attracted to the opposite sex is a true bisexual? She can only be in a real relationship with, fall in love with, be romantically/affectionately attracted to the opposite sex only. She is only attracted to women sexually and has no real romantic or affectionate attraction to women. You could say she’s sexually bi, but romantically straight. Do you think such a woman is a real bisexual? There’s one site on the internet that refers to such a woman as a bisexual straight woman and doesn’t consider such a woman to be a true bisexual. Although, it doesn’t describe her quite the same way I do, but that’s basically what she is. Do you think to be bisexual a person has to be sexually and romantically attracted to both sexes; or sexually attracted to both sexes, but not necessarily romantically attracted to both sexes?

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I’m sexually frustrated; I am a woman. I am in a relationship, and I don’t need any suggestions like, "Leave him," or "Cheat on him," because I will be with this man for the rest of my life (love at first sight).

But I mean, we’re only 20!!! Why has the wild jungle sex stopped? It’s always me trying to start things up with him but he just doesn’t seem interested. We used to go every other night, now it’s maybe once a week. Sometimes I feel so shot down after trying that I feel like never trying to make love with him again. Last night, I was kissing him and he said, "I am so tired!" like this was a perfectly acceptable thing to say. So he rolled over and went to sleep but I had to go out in the living room for a while. I slept really terrible last night.

How can I deal? Should I get a vibrator? Go out for a midnight jog? (I live in a dangerous area of town, that’s not really an option) I need an outlet. Or a way to get that wild jungle sex back!!!!!!

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I have the sweetest boyfriend and i love him to death (im 18)! First let me say there is more to our relationship than just sex…

The thing is he doesn’t make me feel like a woman.. he talks to me like i’m a little girl!! I’ll tell him he’s sexy, hoping for him to make a move, and he’ll respond with "you’re so cute!" and a quick kiss. Whenever we get intimate i have to initiate it. Once we get going we both enjoy it… but i always have to make the first move.

Can you think of a reason why he treats me like this? He tells me i’m beautiful and cute, and thats great, but i also want him to think im sexy and to want me! The whole thing just feels very immature. Any thoughts? Why does he treat me like a little girl?!

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me and my girlfriend plan to take our relationship to the final level.this is my first time.i want advice how can i satisfy her best.i want her to remem ber this experience forever.
this is not her first time i think.

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I’m not bisexual, or at least I don’t think that I am. I know that I am not looking for a relationship. I have a boyfriend that I love that wants to marry me, and he actually encourages my curiousity. (Who would have guessed..) I’m just scared to approach anyone I know. I don’t want to lose a friendship over a stupid idea. But I can’t even drink around my friends, because I start to get these cravings, and I don’t know how to satisfy them. And I think I am too shy for a stranger… I don’t know. HELP!

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but don’t want ANY other connections with her – friends or relationship or whatever, just a hit it & quit it kind of thing, does that make me bi?

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My guy says that I’m the best because I am a freak. I love to give him bjs! I will attack him in the shower….on the couch in the car..while he’s asleep…I’m just good at what I do and he knows it. I’m not a whore because I actually learned how to give a good bj from a website after I met him….I just get so turned on in blowng his mind…he says that he doesn’t need a threesome because I am more than enough woman…so gys am I perfect or would you view me as slutty……honest opinions and why please?
okay okay wait a minute..I’m good at everything I do…how many chicks can make a dude cum 3 times in one sexual session….and all without and mouth to cock action….I have skills. I also have other qualities…I never trip if he wants to go out with his friends…even if he goes out of town on overnight trips….I don’t get mad over stupid stuff like porn and talking to ex girlfriends because i know he’s mine..I just enjoy sucking him…..btw we are in a very stron commited relationship.
He’s a good guy and not an ass like most guys…he says he loves me because I’m intellegent,beautiful,sincere, caring, honest and loyal.

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I have and have had over the years many female friends and yes these include some sexual and loving relationships. However, when it comes down to it I cannot help but be attracted sexually to Pro-Femdoms. I would like to investigate why this ‘craving’ is there and why and what I can do about it to instead allow myself to have a normal, (whatever that is), relationship with a woman.

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I mean what is consider too be right to the woman in the relationship because they are not ever wrong.

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I’m writing a story on male and female relationship and I need to know

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Im not talking about in a relationship, just talking to people at work, or school. I think it’s different behavior for a man and woman.

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I am in a relationship with a wonderful woman who goes through cycles of a healthy normal love to distance and mistrust. She opens up for awhile and loves fully and completely, then she gradually closes and retreats in her own world. Because of her sexual abuse as a child. I realize she has problems and needs help.She knows she needs help. How can I HELP HER AND ENCOURAGE HER TO OVERCOME HER PATTERNS OF INSTABILITY. She is currently in therapy, but free therapy does not seem to help .She has changed with some medication.still tends to cycle from great to worse back to a wonderful relationship

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Do you think that a woman who is sexually attracted to both sexes, but only romantically attracted to the opposite sex is a true bisexual? She can only be in a real relationship with, fall in love with, be romantically/affectionately attracted to the opposite sex only. She is only attracted to women sexually and has no real romantic or affectionate attraction to women. You could say she’s sexually bi, but romantically straight. Do you think such a woman is a real bisexual? There’s one site on the internet that refers to such a woman as a bisexual straight woman and doesn’t consider such a woman to be a true bisexual. Although, it doesn’t describe her quite the same way I do, but that’s basically what she is. Do you think to be bisexual a person has to be sexually and romantically attracted to both sexes; or sexually attracted to both sexes, but not necessarily romantically attracted to both sexes?

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pressures you and you are attracted to? Could be a co-worker, friend, or past relationship girl. You choose the senerio? For the women answering, what would you recommend?

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I am not sexually aggressive at all. I would like to know if anyone has any tips on becoming more sexually aggressive. I have never initiated sex. I was in a bad relationship a long time ago and was abused sexually by him. I love my partner now and I want to please him, but I am not sure how. I know he gets frustrated with me, but I am so self-conscious that I sort of freeze up when he wants me to start something. Any ideas or tips? Please!

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Women, my member is a couple inches smaller than the average size reported, and is very thin. Besides oral and vibrators, how do I please my wife while having sex? I know people say it’s the motion, not the size, but my wife often asks if I’m still erect when I’m inside of her and always asks me to f#$k her harder.She often shares her fantasy of her getting it on with an ex or a stranger. Besides the sex, our relationship is wonderful. We have 2 kids and are in our mid-30s. When I asked if she thinks she may be looser after the kids, she said the sex has always been this way, but insists she loves me. I know she uses a vibrator a lot since it is often moved. What’s the secret to the motion that women always talk about?My wife’s fantasies seem to revolve around size when talking about ex’s or strangers, not their motion.

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I have noticed that here on YA, both men and women have concluded that a male with an unpopular viewpoint has a small penis. Is this just silly talk or is there some evidence of this?
Luka, can you tell me the orign of this expression and why one would think having a small brain would result in having a small penis?
Dr. Bob, why would having a small penis result in being a comformist?
Sorry, Luka, I misread your answer. I understand now.
Rose Mari, I can not see any relationship either. Do you have an opinion as to why men and women say this?

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There’s this woman I just got out of a relationship of 7 years with. I was always suspicious that her step dad might of sexually abused her as a child.

When I’d ask her about it she’d just stare off into space and think for a little bit, then come back and say no.

I felt like she always wanted to tell but never had the courage.

Now that I look back at the relatinship I do see some things in her that say yes she was probably abused but I’m not a psycholgist and I’m not sure what I should have been looking for.

I was just wondering what are some signs that an adult woman might show?

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