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men, how much is too much when a woman comes to you when something makes her upset or sad? was just curious? my husband has been very good the past four years of our courtship at putting up with me when i get my feelings hurt by him or if someone at work or my mother makes me upset. he says it don’t bother him when i express my feelings and that he always wants me to come to him anytime i am hurt or upset but at the same time it is like he gets his feelings hurt if i say something he said or did hurt my feelings. he is quick to apologize too if something he said hurt my feelings. i also get to feeling bad because when i tell him he hurt my feelings he thinks that it is me saying he is mean to me when i’m not. i make sure to tell him i do get my feelings hurt from time to time and that i don’t think he is a jerk when i get my feelings hurt and i make sure he knows i do love him even though i may get my feelings hurt from time to time. i probably have a day where i feel like this maybe once every month or two. is this normal or annoying to men when we come to them crying when things bother us? in other words how much is too much? is once every month or two annoying?
thanks for thinking i am not crazy.
my husband and i both are great about making sure that each other know we’re loved every day. we are always cuddling and talking cute talk whenever we’re together. we say i love you and write love notes to each other all the time.
whenever i do get my feelings hurt and i come to him about it i do say, "i hope you don’t think i am being too moody when i come to you." and his response is, "we’re a team, i want you to come to me whenever something bothers you no matter how it may make me feel because we’re not always going to agree about things and that is why we need to be open anytime something bothers us."
the reason i feel i am this way is because all my life before meeting my husband everyone including my parents would always yell at me when i tried to express my feelings to them as if they were saying i didn’t have the right to get upset or get my feelings hurt and that i was being too much of a baby. i was married before and my exhusband would always get on to me if i said anything about him hurting my feelings and would call me names. how can i overcome that and trust that my husband is always going to be there for me and never be judgemental of me when i express my feelings. my husband i have now has never been mean to me or hurt me in anyway. how can i learn to trust again?
i do tend to cry when i talk to my husband because i am afraid if i tell him he hurt my feelings that it will hurt him and plus i do have low self esteem at times because i keep thinking of past relationships both with my parents and exes and how they treated me when i told them my feelings. i make sure to never yell at my husband and to be sure to tell him that i love him very much and that i think he treats me very well anytime i do get my feelings hurt.


