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"not fair." ?

This question is inspired by a few questions I’ve read on here, most recently one in which a user claimed that having to deal with menstruation, child labor, and putting on make-up is proof that nature wanted men to be regarded as superior to women.

The same user then posted in a separate question saying that it is not fair for a woman to be allowed to control whether or not she becomes a mother whilst not allowing a father to decide whether or not to abort a child since he’s not the one carrying it around for 9 months. I’m personally pro-life, but isn’t it a little contradictory to point and laugh at women when nature inconveniences them, yet yell "not fair!" when it poses a disadvantage to males?

I also read where a male user answered a question saying that it’s "not fair" that, no matter how much birth control is used, there’s always a chance that the girl could get pregnant and he could wind up a father financially responsible for a child. Are we forgetting that the very purpose of sex is to make children and not to have orgasms?

Come on now. Drives me absolutely insane when a man will treat a woman as less of a human being because females put up with child labor and such so that he and his future children can be born.
love and orgasms are WHY a lot of people do it a lot of the time, but if making babies wasn’t the primary purpose, semen would not be ejaculated every single time. saying that it’s not fair that you may wind up a father is kind of like saying "I want to eat chocolate cake everyday, but it’s not fair that I may end up fat."
I’m not saying people should have children every time they have sex or that they shouldn’t use birth control; I’m saying it’s kind of ridiculous to complain that it’s not fair that you can’t have sex every other day without the possibility being there. That’s a really self-centered view.
Thank you, Boo. You admitting that gives me hope judging by some of the other things I’ve seen you post on this site in the past.
And Rusty- I agree 150% with you. I’m predicting you getting best answer
Die Tueflin- Exactly. He makes me laugh on a daily basis because he thinks he’s onto something whilst contradicting himself left and right like no tomorrow. "Women have periods..that means I’m better than them!" I think he should at least work on maturing a bit before he tries and argues for his superiority
You’re not "more" than us if we have this "natural" control over you that you just admitted to. These qualities that you claim make you "more" are subjective anyway. You just lost my respect again. Not that you care, I’m just letting you know.
But you just claimed that you were "born ‘more’" which is, like I said, subjective…you’re no more qualified to deem certain biological traits superior than anyone else is. No one’s born more…we’re simply born different.
No, you’re misunderstanding my point. You weren’t born "more" just because you said so and think you were born with all of these fantastic qualities that we didn’t have at birth. Sorry, you just weren’t.

I know plenty of individuals who have accomplished far more than their teachers ever have, by the way. Not that I regard anyone’s teacher as his or her "creator." God is my only creator. And no, I won’t ever be better than Him; neither will any guy be.
Well, your theory is ridiculously flawed and completely unnecessary anyway…I’m not going around trying to prove women’s superiority; what do you have to gain by "proving" that you’re born "more"? What’s so hard about accepting that men are men and women are women, and we have to live together and will always be somewhat dependent on one another whether we like it or not? I’m not arguing with you any further; you obviously have some sort of bully complex where you constantly need to prove your superiority over someone to validate your worth. No one will treat you as if you’re special no matter how much you’d like to try proving that you are, and that’s all that matters to me. Have a nice day.

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My Girlfriend has told me that she has never had a orgasm in her life not with any guy in the past or anything. I would like to be the first to give her one but I just need to know how to help her get one,. Ive had no problems in the past with girls and giving them orgasms. I could be giving her Oral for extended periods of times and shes having a great time but no orgams and even with intercourse no luck. Can there be a way?

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my new girlfriend and i (both 19) have been having sex quite lot recently, but i’m never sure if she’s had an orgasm or not. She moans a lot while doing it then as it gets fatser breathes faster, moans harder and at some point stops the movement of whatever position we’re doing, either by stopping moving herself or by lying down on me/taking me in her arms. I know women are harder ot please than guys so i try to continue even after i’ve come. but she stops it then, does this she has climaxed as well?
basically based on what i decribed is she having orgasms as oposed as just being pleasured for a while?
and how would you describe a female orgasm on the outside?

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im tryin to give my girlfriend an orgasm basically, in the past ive given girls orgasms without even trying but dis new one is almost impossible. Im having trouble finding her clitoris and everything, is there like some sort of rule of thumb i need to kno to actually stroke the clitoris?

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My girlfriend can only have 4 orgasm in a given "sitting," if you will, and then experiences what she describes as "going numb." The "going numb" is actually not numbness, but that tingly feeling a person experiences when their arm or foot is coming out of being asleep. When she starts feeling this, she is no longer able to achieve, so whatever we are doing generally wraps up quickly.

Four orgasms might seem like a fine number to stop at, but we both prefer to keep things fresh, interesting, and non-mundane, so having a limit is an issue. Also foreplay is a big part of our intimacy, so her limit can approach quite quickly, undesirably so… especially considering I like to give more than receive.

If anyone knows why shes experiences this tingling sensation, ways around it etc. (any information at all) would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!

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My girlfriend seems to orgasm very quickly and easily after just a few minutes stimulating her vagina on the outside i.e. on her clit! But not only this she seems to squirt every time without fail and this succession of orgasms and squirts can go on for a long while. She normally needs a few minutes after to relax and regain herself and then the bed sheets need changed. I love it!!! But…

I am confused a little cause I read that female ejaculation is most commonly brought on after G-Spot stimulation and orgasm.

I also start to doubt if what is happening to her is really a [proper] orgasm due to the regular occurrence and the fact that I can still stimulate the clit after each orgasm without it being too sensitive, although the contractions are still there (short but sweet ) and she does assure me they are orgasms.

Does anyone else have this experience?

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My girlfriend enjoys having orgasms and I love helping her reach them. One interesting thing is that she kind of shuts down after her orgasm is done. It’s more like a guy I guess… "OK…. I’m done, now get off…" Now it is not really THAT drastic, however we both joke about how it is very similar to that statement. So I guess I am wondering if that is a common experience. We have thought that maybe there are some unconscience thoughts that occur after orgasm that cause the shut down.

So what do you think. Not like we are stressing out over this situation….more like just interested in what others think here…

Please be nice!

Thanks!

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My girlfriend seems to orgasm very quickly and easily after just a few minutes stimulating her vagina on the outside i.e. on her clit! But not only this she seems to squirt every time without fail and this succession of orgasms and squirts can go on for a long while. She normally needs a few minutes after to relax and regain herself and then the bed sheets need changed. I love it!!! But…

I am confused a little cause I read that female ejaculation is most commonly brought on after G-Spot stimulation and orgasm.

I also start to doubt if what is happening to her is really a [proper] orgasm due to the regular occurrence and the fact that I can still stimulate the clit after each orgasm without it being too sensitive, although the contractions are still there (short but sweet ) and she does assure me they are orgasms.

Does anyone else have this experience?

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If a woman masturbates and will have 5 or more orgasms and will feel temporarily satisfied but an hour later, she’ll do it again and again and will never feel 100% satisfied, could she be a nympho?

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Isn’t it a bit perverted to have a baby suck on your nipples? My breast are so big, they could actually smother a baby. Not to mention, some women actually have very sensitive nipples and orgasms when they are stimulated. Isn’t it a bit weird to have an orgasm from a baby suckling on your nipples? I actually developed an obsession with my mother’s breast. I had to be weaned off and didn’t stop until I was 4 ½ years old! My boyfriend also was breast feed until a late age and as a result has an obsession with women’s breasts. Not only that, but I heard that the milk tastes nasty. So why would God create breast for babies if it would have such weird and incestuous results?
BlueOctag some women do orgasim from breast feeding.

http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/a/orgasm_breastfe.htm

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When I make my boyfriend orgasm he falls straight to sleep and won’t return the favour. I know this is fairly normal and so I’ve excused it in the past but now it has got to the point were he rarely touches me. I have a much higher sex drive than he does, it is always me who instigates sex but it rarely gets as far as intercourse. He always orgasms during foreplay, if I just stopped before he comes in an attempt to ‘tease’ him, he will simply just roll over and forget about it. As a result, we have sex maybe once a week were we both orgasm, yet he gets at least one blowjob/handjob a day, were he always comes and I always feel a bit left out. I tell him before, during and after that he has to make me orgasm but he just won’t. Are guys not supposed to enjoy making their women come? What should I do to fix this? We have "talked" about it but it makes for a very nagging conversation

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when my partner and i have sex, he comes after about 40 mins. if he goes for longer it starts to hurt me abit. but 40 mins is usually his average. anyway, he always says he wishes he could make me come. i have never orgasmed/come during sex, and i think it could be because i dont know the differance.
is there a differance between when a woman comes and when she orgasms, or is it the same thing. i feel realy silly not knowing. he gets upset when he cant make me come but i have never comed so its not his fault right?

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months now and he’s very insecure about the size of his penis (the length and girth). I love having sex with him and I’m totally satisfied with his size and performance in bed. I have orgasms almost every time we have sex and with my previous boyfriend of almost three years (who had a very large penis) I never had orgasms when we had sex! I tell my boyfriend this and that I love him and everything about him, just the way he is but it still doesn’t stop his insecurities about his penis size and performance in bed. SO now he is talking about penis enlargement pills! I’ve told him that I do not want him to take them because I think they are dangerous and could lead to other complications, but he Still insist on finding a solution to his "problem." I don’t know what else to do but to support him in his the decision he wants to make because no matter what I say his insecurities won’t go away and it may start affecting our sex life. I just want to know if anyone out there has had any experience with penis enlargement pills such as Vimax or MaxiRex. If so are there any side effects and are the results permanent? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

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My girlfriend has always had orgasms in the past. But recently she has stopped having orgasms. She has recently started taking some meds from the doctor called Citalopram the other is called clonazepam. We know they do decrease sex drive as a side effect but would that keep her from having an orgasm? Her sex drive is still there just no orgasm. Please help.

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my gal says i do give her orgasms but how do i know if she is not lying?

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What can I do after me and my girlfriend have sex to keep her happy and give her an orgasm? Like what is the best technique after sex. Sex is pretty much ended when the man orgasms but when I am done I want to keep going on her to make sure that she has one too. What is the best way to do that after sex?
EDIT: I know foreplay and fingering before. But I mean even though I climax before her, I still want to get her to climax too. My question is mainly how can I make her climax after sex and after I orgasm.

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My girlfriend orgasms like a guy. She will go at it for a little while (about 5-10 mins), orgasm, and then collapse. After laying there for a few mins, she just get off and say that she is done.
She does this all the time.
I thought girls can have multipule orgasms? She says once she orgasms, she looses sexual drive and feels "finished".and no urge to go on for round two.
Is that normal?
Any suggestions in fixing this, or any other similar experiences?

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I love my girlfriend very much and we have sex at least 4 times a week. She says she cant climax when her legs are apart. As a result all I do is continuously finger ‘do’ her and play with her boobs till she comes.. She does have some great orgasms but she doesn’t think we can use my fingers forever. To make matters worse, I am not that well endowed (5 and a half inches). Not sure if there are any positions that would work for us or what we can do. Shes said that its just a mental block shes got that ’she cant have an orgasm with her legs apart’ but until that block gets outta there, I’m gonna need some help! Please advise!! I really love this girl and want her to enjoy sex to the fullest.. Thanks

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clit piercing may have decreased clitoral sensation. She does not respond to clitoral stimulation like most girls ive been with. I can tell she fakes orgasms. I know its not me because i usually make girls cum.

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I am seeing this woman who is 29. She is horny all the time. Everytime she we make out she get so turned on and wet and tells me not to stop. I know she is enjoying it, but then after she orgasms she can’t stand to be touched. The least sensation even on her arm or check causes her sever abdominal/pelvic pain. She says she enjoys the orgasms tremendously, but I hate to see her in so much pain afterwards. I know it is probably uterine contractions or something, but I wonder if it could be anything more serious. I love to cuddle afterwards but it is hard when you can’t even touch her.
Oh I should add that she said that she has similar pain when she masturbates also but not as severe. Probably because the orgasm is not as intense. The pain occurs whether she orgams from clitoral stimulation alone or intercourse.

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My girlfriend and I are both 20 year old virgins, and recently I gave her, her first orgasm in her life. I did it by giving her oral. She told me she could never even give herself one! Is that normal for girls not being about to give themselves orgasms?

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Is there something (perhaps on ebay that is affordable and could pay with paypal balance) to enlargen, longer intercourse, better orgasms without the side effects.
In the past I used Ex-something and the bark (?) in it caused bad anxiety when mixed with alcohol. Do not want that since I am a typical worryer.
Thanks.

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me and my girlfriend have been together for two years and she and i were virgins when we got together so niether of us knows if she orgasms during sex or foreplay. can someone enlighten me?

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Do guys always give a woman an orgasm with kisses first?

I have heard so many women complain that they were just getting into it with their guy, and he finished leaving her wanting more.

It may take more foreplay to get a woman going, but after she does get going–she needs so much more than a man does to be truly satisfied.

A woman can sometimes have several orgasms in a row and be even hotter. Can’t say that about a guy, lol.

As for myself personally, I will always make sure a woman has an orgasm from "kisses" down there before intercourse even begins. And doing that for a woman is so intimate. It is the most special kiss a man and a woman can share.

Do other guys do this too?

Also, for the women–do most guys make sure you have an orgasm before intercourse starts?

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I know it’s possible and we would like to hypnotize each other to orgasm, but I would like a website or ebook or instructional video or something on how to do it. Watching preexisting videos and trying to mimic it ain’t cutting it unfortunately, I require some instruction here.

Thank you ever so much, your time and help is really appreciated
Tina: We do accomplish orgasms the old fashioned way, but I thought it would be a very erotic, fun, and different experience to hypnotize each other to orgasm.

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