When I make my boyfriend orgasm he falls straight to sleep and won’t return the favour. I know this is fairly normal and so I’ve excused it in the past but now it has got to the point were he rarely touches me. I have a much higher sex drive than he does, it is always me who instigates sex but it rarely gets as far as intercourse. He always orgasms during foreplay, if I just stopped before he comes in an attempt to ‘tease’ him, he will simply just roll over and forget about it. As a result, we have sex maybe once a week were we both orgasm, yet he gets at least one blowjob/handjob a day, were he always comes and I always feel a bit left out. I tell him before, during and after that he has to make me orgasm but he just won’t. Are guys not supposed to enjoy making their women come? What should I do to fix this? We have "talked" about it but it makes for a very nagging conversation

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when my partner and i have sex, he comes after about 40 mins. if he goes for longer it starts to hurt me abit. but 40 mins is usually his average. anyway, he always says he wishes he could make me come. i have never orgasmed/come during sex, and i think it could be because i dont know the differance.
is there a differance between when a woman comes and when she orgasms, or is it the same thing. i feel realy silly not knowing. he gets upset when he cant make me come but i have never comed so its not his fault right?

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months now and he’s very insecure about the size of his penis (the length and girth). I love having sex with him and I’m totally satisfied with his size and performance in bed. I have orgasms almost every time we have sex and with my previous boyfriend of almost three years (who had a very large penis) I never had orgasms when we had sex! I tell my boyfriend this and that I love him and everything about him, just the way he is but it still doesn’t stop his insecurities about his penis size and performance in bed. SO now he is talking about penis enlargement pills! I’ve told him that I do not want him to take them because I think they are dangerous and could lead to other complications, but he Still insist on finding a solution to his "problem." I don’t know what else to do but to support him in his the decision he wants to make because no matter what I say his insecurities won’t go away and it may start affecting our sex life. I just want to know if anyone out there has had any experience with penis enlargement pills such as Vimax or MaxiRex. If so are there any side effects and are the results permanent? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

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My girlfriend has always had orgasms in the past. But recently she has stopped having orgasms. She has recently started taking some meds from the doctor called Citalopram the other is called clonazepam. We know they do decrease sex drive as a side effect but would that keep her from having an orgasm? Her sex drive is still there just no orgasm. Please help.

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my gal says i do give her orgasms but how do i know if she is not lying?

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What can I do after me and my girlfriend have sex to keep her happy and give her an orgasm? Like what is the best technique after sex. Sex is pretty much ended when the man orgasms but when I am done I want to keep going on her to make sure that she has one too. What is the best way to do that after sex?
EDIT: I know foreplay and fingering before. But I mean even though I climax before her, I still want to get her to climax too. My question is mainly how can I make her climax after sex and after I orgasm.

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My girlfriend orgasms like a guy. She will go at it for a little while (about 5-10 mins), orgasm, and then collapse. After laying there for a few mins, she just get off and say that she is done.
She does this all the time.
I thought girls can have multipule orgasms? She says once she orgasms, she looses sexual drive and feels "finished".and no urge to go on for round two.
Is that normal?
Any suggestions in fixing this, or any other similar experiences?

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I love my girlfriend very much and we have sex at least 4 times a week. She says she cant climax when her legs are apart. As a result all I do is continuously finger ‘do’ her and play with her boobs till she comes.. She does have some great orgasms but she doesn’t think we can use my fingers forever. To make matters worse, I am not that well endowed (5 and a half inches). Not sure if there are any positions that would work for us or what we can do. Shes said that its just a mental block shes got that ’she cant have an orgasm with her legs apart’ but until that block gets outta there, I’m gonna need some help! Please advise!! I really love this girl and want her to enjoy sex to the fullest.. Thanks

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clit piercing may have decreased clitoral sensation. She does not respond to clitoral stimulation like most girls ive been with. I can tell she fakes orgasms. I know its not me because i usually make girls cum.

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I am seeing this woman who is 29. She is horny all the time. Everytime she we make out she get so turned on and wet and tells me not to stop. I know she is enjoying it, but then after she orgasms she can’t stand to be touched. The least sensation even on her arm or check causes her sever abdominal/pelvic pain. She says she enjoys the orgasms tremendously, but I hate to see her in so much pain afterwards. I know it is probably uterine contractions or something, but I wonder if it could be anything more serious. I love to cuddle afterwards but it is hard when you can’t even touch her.
Oh I should add that she said that she has similar pain when she masturbates also but not as severe. Probably because the orgasm is not as intense. The pain occurs whether she orgams from clitoral stimulation alone or intercourse.

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My girlfriend and I are both 20 year old virgins, and recently I gave her, her first orgasm in her life. I did it by giving her oral. She told me she could never even give herself one! Is that normal for girls not being about to give themselves orgasms?

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Is there something (perhaps on ebay that is affordable and could pay with paypal balance) to enlargen, longer intercourse, better orgasms without the side effects.
In the past I used Ex-something and the bark (?) in it caused bad anxiety when mixed with alcohol. Do not want that since I am a typical worryer.
Thanks.

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me and my girlfriend have been together for two years and she and i were virgins when we got together so niether of us knows if she orgasms during sex or foreplay. can someone enlighten me?

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Do guys always give a woman an orgasm with kisses first?

I have heard so many women complain that they were just getting into it with their guy, and he finished leaving her wanting more.

It may take more foreplay to get a woman going, but after she does get going–she needs so much more than a man does to be truly satisfied.

A woman can sometimes have several orgasms in a row and be even hotter. Can’t say that about a guy, lol.

As for myself personally, I will always make sure a woman has an orgasm from "kisses" down there before intercourse even begins. And doing that for a woman is so intimate. It is the most special kiss a man and a woman can share.

Do other guys do this too?

Also, for the women–do most guys make sure you have an orgasm before intercourse starts?

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I know it’s possible and we would like to hypnotize each other to orgasm, but I would like a website or ebook or instructional video or something on how to do it. Watching preexisting videos and trying to mimic it ain’t cutting it unfortunately, I require some instruction here.

Thank you ever so much, your time and help is really appreciated
Tina: We do accomplish orgasms the old fashioned way, but I thought it would be a very erotic, fun, and different experience to hypnotize each other to orgasm.

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