OK, we’ll start with the basics. Let’s call this a ‘crash course in Yahoo Answers Pregnancy’

*If you have started to ovulate, even if you have never had a period, it’s still possible to get pregnant.
*If you have sex with a male, and you have a vagina, it is possible to concieve. Even if it is ‘put in there’ only once.. prec u m is uncontrollable, hardly noticeable and full of the little tigers.
*Little tigers means sperm. Not stripey cubs from Africa.
*You do not need to orgasm to concieve. Neither does he.
*It doesn’t matter what position you ‘do it’ in. It’s always possible. Unless it’s anal or oral sex. Which won’t make babies
*You are pregnant if a Home Pregnancy Test shows positive. No matter how faint the line. Or if a Dr tells you you are
*If your test shows a negative and you are still suspicious, take another test in three to five days.
* Only take a test if you have had sex. Not if you have sat on a toilet a boy has sat on before you…
*If you do not know how babies are made, continue playing with your Barbie for another 10 years.
*If you are 13 or 14 or 15 and do not know how to tell your parents, practice before you get pregnant by telling them you are sexually active. Carefully observe their reaction. It could be a good indicator of what it will be.
*Sexually active means you ‘do it’, or ‘have sex’, which means his penis has entered your vagina.
*Observe means ‘take note’
*C ummed is not a word. The technical word for this is ‘ejaculation’
*The earliest you can take a home pregnancy test is generally 14 days after you have had sex. Which is when your period is generally due.
*We are not pee sticks. They can generally be found at a pharmacy near you!
*You do not get the symptoms of needing to pee, nausea, cravings, heartburn or enlarged stomach the day or week after you had sex. You cannot feel a baby moving or kicking before 16wks (there are some exceptions here, like multiple pregnancy or subsequent pregnancies)
*You cannot tell if it is more than 1 baby from the ‘brightness’ of the control line on the home pregnancy test.
*This also means you cannot tell if it is a boy or a girl from the ‘brightness’ of the test.

My official Yahoo Answers question is,

Have I missed something?
LOL @ Wil, lmao!! Gold :D

i just got a busty girlfriend, but realize that she seldom reaches orgasm whenever we make love.

I Just lost my virginity to my boyfriend about two months ago.

and the Sex is great…it feels really good…weve had sex many times,but the problem is ..ive not once reached an orgasm from it.

Is this my boyfriends fault or mine? I was thinking maybe its because its much easier for me to have an orgasm from Clitoral stimulation…he has made me come from fingering my clitoris, but not from Sex.

also he comes all the time ..and it seems like maybe i was getting close before,but then he came and wanted to stop.

Im just getting a little tired of this…i dont wanna leave him,but i just want to have an orgasm!

it would make things soo much better!!

also my question is does this happen to ALOT of women or is it just me?
any tips.or answers would be greatly appreciated..and thanx ahead of time for answering!

When I make my boyfriend orgasm he falls straight to sleep and won’t return the favour. I know this is fairly normal and so I’ve excused it in the past but now it has got to the point were he rarely touches me. I have a much higher sex drive than he does, it is always me who instigates sex but it rarely gets as far as intercourse. He always orgasms during foreplay, if I just stopped before he comes in an attempt to ‘tease’ him, he will simply just roll over and forget about it. As a result, we have sex maybe once a week were we both orgasm, yet he gets at least one blowjob/handjob a day, were he always comes and I always feel a bit left out. I tell him before, during and after that he has to make me orgasm but he just won’t. Are guys not supposed to enjoy making their women come? What should I do to fix this? We have "talked" about it but it makes for a very nagging conversation :(

We were having sex, she’d came twice, and we were approaching the 25 minute mark and it’d been like 8+ minutes since her last orgasm and then I came and at the same time she had two… Do you have any idea how I managed this? Have you ever managed it? Because I’d love to know how to do it again because obviously she said it was the most intense thing she’d felt in her life and she could hardly walk after lol.

Thanks :D

AcharyA.

OK, we’ll start with the basics. Let’s call this a ‘crash course in Yahoo Answers Pregnancy’

*If you have started to ovulate, even if you have never had a period, it’s still possible to get pregnant.
*If you have sex with a male, and you have a vagina, it is possible to concieve. Even if it is ‘put in there’ only once.. prec u m is uncontrollable, hardly noticeable and full of the little tigers.
*Little tigers means sperm. Not stripey cubs from Africa.
*You do not need to orgasm to concieve. Neither does he.
*It doesn’t matter what position you ‘do it’ in. It’s always possible. Unless it’s anal or oral sex. Which won’t make babies
*You are pregnant if a Home Pregnancy Test shows positive. No matter how faint the line. Or if a Dr tells you you are
*If your test shows a negative and you are still suspicious, take another test in three to five days.
* Only take a test if you have had sex. Not if you have sat on a toilet a boy has sat on before you…
*If you do not know how babies are made, continue playing with your Barbie for another 10 years.
*If you are 13 or 14 or 15 and do not know how to tell your parents, practice before you get pregnant by telling them you are sexually active. Carefully observe their reaction. It could be a good indicator of what it will be.
*Sexually active means you ‘do it’, or ‘have sex’, which means his penis has entered your vagina.
*Observe means ‘take note’
*C ummed is not a word. The technical word for this is ‘ejaculation’
*The earliest you can take a home pregnancy test is generally 14 days after you have had sex. Which is when your period is generally due.
*We are not pee sticks. They can generally be found at a pharmacy near you!
*You do not get the symptoms of needing to pee, nausea, cravings, heartburn or enlarged stomach the day or week after you had sex. You cannot feel a baby moving or kicking before 16wks (there are some exceptions here, like multiple pregnancy or subsequent pregnancies)
*You cannot tell if it is more than 1 baby from the ‘brightness’ of the control line on the home pregnancy test.
*This also means you cannot tell if it is a boy or a girl from the ‘brightness’ of the test.

My official Yahoo Answers question is,

Have I missed something?

my girlfriend pulled my hair really hard, stopped breathing a bit, and moaned at the highest pitch ive ever heard her before , but she never seemed to release or want to stop. she just wanted to keep going. did she have an orgasm? she said shes pretty sure she did but im not sure.

Hi. Me and my gf are together for over 1.5 years now and we are having lots of sex (up to almost 10 times some weeks) but I can’t make her orgasm frequent enough. I’d say 1 in 10 times or maybe less. We are totally in love and have been practically living together for a year now. I truly care for her and her happiness and want her to have pleasure as much as me and maybe more.

Prior to me, I know (I asked several times) that she was having vaginal orgasms with her ex partners so I feel really really sad and think that she sees me as an amateur. When we talk she says that the sex is great and it’s okay for her not reaching an orgasm, but I sense that she’s lying not to hurt me. In a sense, we have a great sex life: always try new things, oral stimulation, dirty talk and all but this orgasm number 2 thing is really bothering me.
Any advices?

when my girlfriend and i have sex i always try to make sure she enjoys it as much as i but when it gets to the point were she is about to orgasm she screams no and pushes me away , she says she doesnt really understand why it just gets to much for her, i suggested using restraints but she starts to cry if we push it to much, anyone else experienced anything like this

please no horrible comments

Whenever my girlfriend and I are trying to get her to reach orgasm we always fall short. Whether it be by fingers or intercourse, it seems as she gets closer and closer to climax she gets louder and louder and wiggles more and more, but it’s as if once she’s just about to she pulls away. Usually she says something along the lines of "it feels too good" or that "she can’t handle it".

Of course we continue until I reach my climax, but this leaves me wondering whether it was something I did wrong and feeling inadequate. Plus it makes me feel selfish, as if I receive of the pleasure while she gets none.

Anybody have any comments//suggestions?

I have been with my girlfriend for about 6 months
now, and she can only peak orgasm when I give
her oral. She has had one time in her life when she
had a orgasm during intercourse years ago. She is
in her 40’s and has never had a surgery for female
problems. Can anyone help us out there on what
we could do to help her out with this.
thanks,
Andy and Jill

ok shes a virgin
(we are in love)
and we still haven’t had sex.

but we do mess around alittle and rub up on each other with very thin cloth

sometimes we are at it for a while and she starts to moan, and grabs the bed sheets hard, and her breathing changes

after it happens she tells me her legs are weak
did she have an orgasm?

i asked her and she says no

when we make love i can tell she gets really aroused and starts moaning and what not but then she tells me to stop cuz she cant take it anymore like im making her feel too good. (this doesnt mean we stop making love it just means that i slow down) does that mean i made her orgasm even if theres no female ejaculation? ive been with 2 other women before her but ive never made them come . ive been with my current girlfriend for 8 months now were both 18 and i used to think that at first she did this because she was holding back on me but then again i know i should be more understanding because shes never had an orgasm before and she told me she wouldnt know if she has had one with me or not because im her first and she doesnt know what one is supposed to feel like.
she did tell me she feels like shes gonna pee . in fact thats exactly what came out of her mouth. so i must be on the right path then. =] thanks for your help people.

Is my girlfriend’s orgasm normal? we have a Great sex life, always trying new things and new positions, but something has always…bothered me: She does not Contract during her Orgasm.

When asked about this she just replies that " it just feels better when i just relax throughout the whole thing". Ive asked her to try to "Bear Down" during her next orgasm, but i still Did Not feel anything.

I know she isnt faking it by her Flushed Face and Chest, Shortness of Breath, and her increased DONTTOUCHME!!! Sensitivity after her "O".However, there is not any Physical evidence of it at all! Weither it be from Oral, Digital, or Actual Intercourse its always the same; she doesnt tighten, contract or anything.

Are there many women who orgasm like this? or is there somthing that we can do to let Me recieve some pleasure for pleasing Her?

I can’t give my girlfriend an orgasm anymore. I realized this after my girlfriend started to stop saying things like "Yes!" and all that dirty talk. Though I know that’s not what turns me on about her but ever since she stopped that I can’t give her an orgasm! Maybe it’s… my member? I’m 7 1/4 inches, but I changed my diet to allow more meats and started working out more. So maybe my member gets less blood now? I don’t know… EVERY TIME we have sex I can give her an orgasm. EVERY time. Does anybody have any insight/advice?
I’m more of the "romance over sex" type. Our romance is pretty passionate. And we only turn to sex as a release from all the romancing. Hmmm… Maybe because of the position. I’ll try a different position this time.

Me and my girlfriend are both virgins, we’ve never had intercource, but we’ve done oral quite a few times, but not too too many, mabe about 5 times to her anyways. So my problem is I cant seem to make her orgasm. Fingering her realllllly gets her going and she seem like she gets to that point, but it never happens. Even with oral she says it feels amazing but I cant seem to make her orgasim, even though we’ve only done it a few times. She normally just stops, or gets so worked up she says she just needs a breather. She told me that when she stops its because it feels best as I finish, but today I did oral on her for about a good 15-20 minutes and she really got into it, bucking, tensening, heavy breathing, it seemed like she was almost there but then it would just kinda stop and then a second or two later it would start up again but never get to an orgasm… is there anything I can do to pleasure her even more than she says I already am?

Hi, I’m very confused lately. It might be obsessive toughts due to a huge lack of confidence or self listening but 3 months ago while I was working, I started to ask myself a million of questions including questions about my sexual orientation. I dug in the past to find the answers and I just couldn’t figure out what was wrong. I did masturbate once in my life while I was thinking about a guy as far as I remember but it wasn’t sexual … it was some kind of challenge-fantasy towards the same sex … I have a girlfriend and I love her to death. I would never break her heart. I quit my job because everyday I would come in start looking at mens in a different way and even check them out. But when I have a good day and I keep myself busy, I don’t think about those things same when I’m with my gf … But lately, I would have weak orgasm … less libido … less confidence … I would find myself stupid to everything I do wrong … it’s unbelievable how low I am :s … I ordered those enlarge-your-penis-pills cuz I feel like I’m not horny enough. My head is a real mess. I’m curious, unsatisfied even tho I got the best I always deserved. I use to be 200pds and girls would push me away. My ex never gave me a lot of pleasure either so maybe I’m sexualy frustrated … I don’t know what’s going on anymore. I use to go to gay clubs with my gay and lesbian friends without being uncomfortable but now just being around my gay friend makes me feel like I need to think I’m gay too … Could it be just a phase ? I’m 21 and pre-matured so I think I’m having my period of questionning. HELP ! I have these weird questions lately uh … I hate hanging around guys …
-I often imagine myself doing it with a guy but I don’t know if I’d feel confortable doing it …
-I’m very paranoid in general

ok to start off me and my girlfriend both lost our virginity to eachother and yes i deff know this for a fact, but everytime we have sex even then she still wont orgasm or if she does its not alot so is there anything i can do about that because weve tried 3 diff. positions me on top, spoon, and her on top… we both agree that her on top gives both of us the most pleasure, but like i said she still wont orgasm or if she does its not alot so what can i do?

How do i make my Girlfriend have the best orgasm possible?

What should i do and when and in what order? Thanks in Advance !

I am my girlfriend’s first time sexual partner and despite my best efforts she cant seem to get an orgasm, please help!
She’s 18, and I’m 20, we’ve been having sex for a few months, and I try to communicate with her as much as possible. She told me she’s never had an orgasm, and while I think I’ve gotten her veryclose, she seems toreach a point when she’s on the verge of orgasm, but instead goes limp, and tells me to stop.

I have tried oral, finger stimulation, different possitions etc. We always do foreplay, I explore her body, let her know how gorgeous she is, and listen for every sign of pleasure from her, and yet whenever she gets close she just stops.

I am her first partner, but we both know are care for each other, and I really want her to fully enjoy love making, so I need some advice as to what I’m doing wrong, or what I could do to help her achieve orgasm.

And it’s not size that’s the problem, if you know what I mean; she tells me she’sfully satisfied every time, and last time she was out if breath for 5 minutes, and unable to move from how good it felt, but still no orgasm. She did say she felt pinprick all over her body though.

Any experience and advce will be much appreciated.

Thank you all. :)

When I think of it , men can achieve orgasm so early , but women rarely get it through sex. Can someone find out reason ? I think one reason may be that the one who designed woman body never wanted woman to get satisfied too quickly and reduce the chance of pregnancy, therefore in earlier days when women would have intercourse with multiple men , the chance factor of their remaining pregnant would be high. Well this is best guess I could make ! What are your views ?

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