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When I get aroused and me and my partner are involved in foreplay or intercourse quite a lot of fluid comes out when I orgasm. Is this pee, know it sounds gross but it doesnt smell like it! It just makes me feel like a bit of a freak, my partner doesnt seem to mind but I still dont like it! Help!

I am seeing this guy who is well endowed (10-11 inches). Every time we have sex it’s painful and when he wants to try different positions other than just missionary, it feels like he’s hitting my uterus, bladder, or the back of my asshole ! I love the foreplay, but the actual sex does not make me orgasm or come close to it. I’ve only had sex with him about three times so I am not sure if it’ll get better or stay the same. Will my vagina get used to his size , if so how long or many times does it take? Will his penis just be something nice to look at, and that’s it?

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Woody Allen’s late 1970s film Love and Death was eerily prophetic, if in name alone, about the Viagra dilemma. The drug enables many men to achieve an erection and regain lost sexual function, but it can also exact a stiff penalty from users. The Food and Drug Administration has reported dozens of deaths among Viagra users. This seems an unnecessarily severe side effect. Concerns about the drug have spurred interest in effective, natural aphrodisiacs without deleterious side effects. Responding to this interest, I set off for the Amazon rain forest in search of sex-enhancing plants. I traveled in the company of a Brazilian shaman named Bernie Peixoto, a man skilled in tribal wisdom and the use of plant medicines. There in the world’s greatest jungle, we encountered two potent sex-boosting plants with a long history of safe use.

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Premature Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation (PE) is the most common sexual dysfunction in men younger than 40 years. Most professionals who treat premature ejaculation define this condition as the occurrence of ejaculation prior to the wishes of both sexual partners. This broad definition thus avoids specifying a precise duration for sexual relations and reaching a climax, which is variable and depends on many factors specific to the individuals engaging in intimate relations. An occasional instance of premature ejaculation might not be cause for concern, but, if the problem occurs with more than 50% of attempted sexual relations, a dysfunctional pattern usually exists for which treatment may be appropriate.

To clarify, a male may reach climax after 8 minutes of sexual intercourse, but this is not premature ejaculation if his partner regularly climaxes in 5 minutes and both are satisfied with the timing. Another male might delay his ejaculation for a maximum of 20 minutes, yet he may consider this premature if his partner, even with foreplay, requires 35 minutes of stimulation before reaching climax. If intercourse is the method of sexual stimulation for the second example and the male climaxes after 20 minutes of intercourse and then loses his erection, satisfying his partner (at least with intercourse), who needs 35 minutes to climax, is impossible.

Because many females are unable to reach climax at all with vaginal intercourse (no matter how prolonged), this situation may actually represent delayed orgasm for the female partner rather than premature ejaculation for the male; the problem can be either or both, depending on the point of view. This highlights the importance of obtaining a thorough sexual history from the patient (and preferably from the couple).

The human sexual response can be divided into 3 phases: desire (libido), excitement (arousal), and orgasm. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition (DSM-IV) classifies sexual disorders into 4 categories: (1) primary, (2) general medical condition–related, (3) substance-induced, and (4) not otherwise specified. Each of the 4 DSM-IV categories has disorders in all 3 sexual phases.

Premature ejaculation may be primary or secondary. Primary applies to individuals who have had the condition since they became capable of functioning sexually (ie, postpuberty). Secondary indicates that the condition began in an individual who previously experienced an acceptable level of ejaculatory control, and, for unknown reasons, he began experiencing premature ejaculation later in life. With secondary premature ejaculation, the problem does not relate to a general medical disorder, and it is usually not related to substance inducement, although, rarely, hyperexcitability might relate to a psychotropic drug and resolves when the drug is withdrawn. Premature ejaculation fits best into the category of not otherwise specified because no one really knows what causes it, although psychological factors are suggested in most cases.

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My girlfriend wants to have an orgasm. We have tried everything. I don’t know what else to try. Please help me.

i was fingering my girlfriend and things were going good. after some time she started to get the feeling, she would get so close but wouldn’t reach an orgasm. idk what to do and i feel bad that i cant pleasure her, dose any1 have any tips?

So today I was fingering my girlfriend while eating her out, and she seemed to enjoy it A LOT more than usual (more moans, arching back, longer). After a while a noticed her vagina was very very wet all of the sudden (more than usual). By the time we stopped, I noticed a white-like fluid/substance on the ground in a couple spots where her vagina was. So I assume she came. She also says she didn’t have an orgasm, however she has never had one before to tell. When I asked her what that stuff was, she said she didn’t know. Usually she never reacts like how she did today, so I think I might have given her maybe a mini orgasm without her knowing. Is this possible? Did she have one or not? If she came does that mean she had one? Thanks!
She now says it’s discharge and it was nothing. But she’s never done that before while being fingered. Is she right? And if she is right, any tips on making her orgasm?

ok so my girlfriend and me have been having sex for over 5 months and i still haven’t been able to give her an orgasm unless she is on top. She says she never has been able to have one unless she is on top but she says im the best so far pleasing her sexually. So how can i give her an orgasm without me being on top or fingering her because she doesnt like it?

My Girlfriend has told me that she has never had a orgasm in her life not with any guy in the past or anything. I would like to be the first to give her one but I just need to know how to help her get one,. Ive had no problems in the past with girls and giving them orgasms. I could be giving her Oral for extended periods of times and shes having a great time but no orgams and even with intercourse no luck. Can there be a way?

any hints to what might be going on ? weve been together for 6 months now im 27 and shes 25 . im the first guy shes had sex with . is it experiance shes lacks and confidence ? im completely lost as to why her sex drive is almost non exsistant and why would someone be affriad to orgasm ???

im tryin to give my girlfriend an orgasm basically, in the past ive given girls orgasms without even trying but dis new one is almost impossible. Im having trouble finding her clitoris and everything, is there like some sort of rule of thumb i need to kno to actually stroke the clitoris?

i feel that women are all the way acting as if they’re at their orgasm, but they actullay dont
How can i make sure that my girlfriend isnt doning it

My girlfriend can only have 4 orgasm in a given "sitting," if you will, and then experiences what she describes as "going numb." The "going numb" is actually not numbness, but that tingly feeling a person experiences when their arm or foot is coming out of being asleep. When she starts feeling this, she is no longer able to achieve, so whatever we are doing generally wraps up quickly.

Four orgasms might seem like a fine number to stop at, but we both prefer to keep things fresh, interesting, and non-mundane, so having a limit is an issue. Also foreplay is a big part of our intimacy, so her limit can approach quite quickly, undesirably so… especially considering I like to give more than receive.

If anyone knows why shes experiences this tingling sensation, ways around it etc. (any information at all) would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!

it eats at me daily..

first of all, i cant get over the fact that my girlfriend lost her virginity to one of her exs(a couple of years back) i know full, detailed descriptions of what happened, i know what the guy looks like, the couch that it happened on, the floor that it happened on(it happened twice) and i cant stop thinking about it..i can tell that the guy used her, he would try and get her to all the time (kissing her, asking her, just trying all the time)and finally she gave in one day..well she said that they went for about 2 hours(just an estimate)..well she said that she had an orgasm(i asked her how she knew and she said she could just tell)the second time they did it, she was at his house(and again she didnt want to)she told me that he asked her again but this time when she said no he asked "wat, am i not important enough?" and she said no. he said "but you already let me before" and he also told her to take down her her and when she replied "why?" he said "it gets on my nerves(these are just little details that make me believe he never cared for her)but she eventually let him that day(on the floor) and she said that they went for about 15 minutes(again, an estimate.no orgasm)

well that was about 2 years ago, she was 12, she is now 14..we have had sex THIRTEEN times now and i have yet to make her cum..i dont like to think that he was better than me because it hurts, and she tells me all of the time that I AM better..but i cant put it together because i HAVNT made her cum..and the longest we’ve gone is around an hour(estimate)..we have been together for awhile now and I LOVE HER TO DEATH..and i know i should be able to get over this small thing but i just cant..i cant stop thinking about that..i love her and just want to put it in the past and be able to satisfy her..please if anybody has any answers that are REALLY trying to help, please help me..if you’re going to be rude, then dont bother, please..i just want to know if there is any reasons WHY i cant make her..other than it JUST being me whenever she SWEARS that im better..

(and i know that i SHOULDNT know all of those details, but i had to literally beg them out of her because i was uncomfortable for some reason NOT knowing)

problem is when having sex i alwas ‘go off’ before she does so she never gets an orgasm… not unless i do oral on her… is there n e thing i can take or do or try for me not to come so quickly?
the saddest part is this has always been an issue not just recently… ive only been with her.. but its happend over the last 4 years..
i do remember lasting longer with condoms… we never wear them now though, especially because it hurts her

this last time brought this question to my head cause she really wasclenching and shaking and pulling my hair and telling me she loved me and her vagina got so tight i thought it disapeared for asecond cause i couldnt get my finger back in. but like im not sure if it was an orgasm or just it felt good? i think she was close because she says okay thats enough and i ask her why and she says it feels too good. so if i kept going i think she would come????

My girlfriend can’t have an orgasm. She claims that she has never been able to get off during sex. The only time she can get off is if she masturbates. Is there anything different we can try? I wanted to know if anyone else has encountered this experience and what they did to fix it? I have tried to get her to open up to me and let me know what I can do to help, she finds this to be embarassing. I don’t believe it to be my duration or size. Are there other positions, toys, or lube that we could try? I find this to be frustrating for me considering after sex I am fulfilled, yet she is not… I need some suggestions please.
We have tried oral and she keeps telling me how it tickles and she pushes my head away.
To answer the age question, she is 22.

My girlfriend seems to orgasm very quickly and easily after just a few minutes stimulating her vagina on the outside i.e. on her clit! But not only this she seems to squirt every time without fail and this succession of orgasms and squirts can go on for a long while. She normally needs a few minutes after to relax and regain herself and then the bed sheets need changed. I love it!!! But…

I am confused a little cause I read that female ejaculation is most commonly brought on after G-Spot stimulation and orgasm.

I also start to doubt if what is happening to her is really a [proper] orgasm due to the regular occurrence and the fact that I can still stimulate the clit after each orgasm without it being too sensitive, although the contractions are still there (short but sweet ;-) ) and she does assure me they are orgasms.

Does anyone else have this experience?

My girlfriend enjoys having orgasms and I love helping her reach them. One interesting thing is that she kind of shuts down after her orgasm is done. It’s more like a guy I guess… "OK…. I’m done, now get off…" Now it is not really THAT drastic, however we both joke about how it is very similar to that statement. So I guess I am wondering if that is a common experience. We have thought that maybe there are some unconscience thoughts that occur after orgasm that cause the shut down.

So what do you think. Not like we are stressing out over this situation….more like just interested in what others think here…

Please be nice!

Thanks!

My girlfriend seems to orgasm very quickly and easily after just a few minutes stimulating her vagina on the outside i.e. on her clit! But not only this she seems to squirt every time without fail and this succession of orgasms and squirts can go on for a long while. She normally needs a few minutes after to relax and regain herself and then the bed sheets need changed. I love it!!! But…

I am confused a little cause I read that female ejaculation is most commonly brought on after G-Spot stimulation and orgasm.

I also start to doubt if what is happening to her is really a [proper] orgasm due to the regular occurrence and the fact that I can still stimulate the clit after each orgasm without it being too sensitive, although the contractions are still there (short but sweet ;-) ) and she does assure me they are orgasms.

Does anyone else have this experience?

So my girlfriend is bi-polar…she has gone through different medications since she was diagnosed…she is 21 years old…the problem is weve been together for about a month and for some reason she cant reach orgasm when we have sex.. she has told me in the past she hasnt had a problem while on other medication and she thinks it might have something to do with the tegretol… now at first i thought it was just me not being good in bed but ive never had a problem before with any other girl and i dont have a small penis…weve talked about it and the more it seems like it has to do with the medication..we are both not doctors and she never asked her doctor when she started taking the medication if it would affect her that way…also since she started taking this medication she says she hasnt had an orgasm since…which also makes me believe its the medication and not me..weve tried many different sexual things and nothing works..she just cant finish..is anyone familar with this med??

My Girlfriend and I have been having sex for a little over a month now. The problem is that every time we do she winds up having to get herself off after we’re done. I’ve tried everything from straight intercourse to oral, anal, fingering, toys, etc, but nothing works for her except her own touch. I’ve never had problems in the bedroom before, and she has told me that this is the way it’s always been for her. None of her other lovers have ever been able to give her an orgasm either. At first I thought it was just a matter of time, and that as we got more comfortable things would get better. But that hasn’t happened and we’re both getting really frustrated. Tonight we got in a big fight because she didn’t want to have sex, saying "it’s not worth it, you can’t get me off anyway". What can I do???

Isn’t it a bit perverted to have a baby suck on your nipples? My breast are so big, they could actually smother a baby. Not to mention, some women actually have very sensitive nipples and orgasms when they are stimulated. Isn’t it a bit weird to have an orgasm from a baby suckling on your nipples? I actually developed an obsession with my mother’s breast. I had to be weaned off and didn’t stop until I was 4 ½ years old! My boyfriend also was breast feed until a late age and as a result has an obsession with women’s breasts. Not only that, but I heard that the milk tastes nasty. So why would God create breast for babies if it would have such weird and incestuous results?
BlueOctag some women do orgasim from breast feeding.

http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/a/orgasm_breastfe.htm

Ok I went down on my girlfriend and she I mad her have a orgasm once before and she said she never came that much. Well i went down on her again and nothing happend help me out

OK, we’ll start with the basics. Let’s call this a ‘crash course in Yahoo Answers Pregnancy’

*If you have started to ovulate, even if you have never had a period, it’s still possible to get pregnant.
*If you have sex with a male, and you have a vagina, it is possible to concieve. Even if it is ‘put in there’ only once.. prec u m is uncontrollable, hardly noticeable and full of the little tigers.
*Little tigers means sperm. Not stripey cubs from Africa.
*You do not need to orgasm to concieve. Neither does he.
*It doesn’t matter what position you ‘do it’ in. It’s always possible. Unless it’s anal or oral sex. Which won’t make babies
*You are pregnant if a Home Pregnancy Test shows positive. No matter how faint the line. Or if a Dr tells you you are
*If your test shows a negative and you are still suspicious, take another test in three to five days.
* Only take a test if you have had sex. Not if you have sat on a toilet a boy has sat on before you…
*If you do not know how babies are made, continue playing with your Barbie for another 10 years.
*If you are 13 or 14 or 15 and do not know how to tell your parents, practice before you get pregnant by telling them you are sexually active. Carefully observe their reaction. It could be a good indicator of what it will be.
*Sexually active means you ‘do it’, or ‘have sex’, which means his penis has entered your vagina.
*Observe means ‘take note’
*C ummed is not a word. The technical word for this is ‘ejaculation’
*The earliest you can take a home pregnancy test is generally 14 days after you have had sex. Which is when your period is generally due.
*We are not pee sticks. They can generally be found at a pharmacy near you!
*You do not get the symptoms of needing to pee, nausea, cravings, heartburn or enlarged stomach the day or week after you had sex. You cannot feel a baby moving or kicking before 16wks (there are some exceptions here, like multiple pregnancy or subsequent pregnancies)
*You cannot tell if it is more than 1 baby from the ‘brightness’ of the control line on the home pregnancy test.
*This also means you cannot tell if it is a boy or a girl from the ‘brightness’ of the test.

My official Yahoo Answers question is,

Have I missed something?
LOL @ Wil, lmao!! Gold :D

i just got a busty girlfriend, but realize that she seldom reaches orgasm whenever we make love.

I Just lost my virginity to my boyfriend about two months ago.

and the Sex is great…it feels really good…weve had sex many times,but the problem is ..ive not once reached an orgasm from it.

Is this my boyfriends fault or mine? I was thinking maybe its because its much easier for me to have an orgasm from Clitoral stimulation…he has made me come from fingering my clitoris, but not from Sex.

also he comes all the time ..and it seems like maybe i was getting close before,but then he came and wanted to stop.

Im just getting a little tired of this…i dont wanna leave him,but i just want to have an orgasm!

it would make things soo much better!!

also my question is does this happen to ALOT of women or is it just me?
any tips.or answers would be greatly appreciated..and thanx ahead of time for answering!

When I make my boyfriend orgasm he falls straight to sleep and won’t return the favour. I know this is fairly normal and so I’ve excused it in the past but now it has got to the point were he rarely touches me. I have a much higher sex drive than he does, it is always me who instigates sex but it rarely gets as far as intercourse. He always orgasms during foreplay, if I just stopped before he comes in an attempt to ‘tease’ him, he will simply just roll over and forget about it. As a result, we have sex maybe once a week were we both orgasm, yet he gets at least one blowjob/handjob a day, were he always comes and I always feel a bit left out. I tell him before, during and after that he has to make me orgasm but he just won’t. Are guys not supposed to enjoy making their women come? What should I do to fix this? We have "talked" about it but it makes for a very nagging conversation :(

We were having sex, she’d came twice, and we were approaching the 25 minute mark and it’d been like 8+ minutes since her last orgasm and then I came and at the same time she had two… Do you have any idea how I managed this? Have you ever managed it? Because I’d love to know how to do it again because obviously she said it was the most intense thing she’d felt in her life and she could hardly walk after lol.

Thanks :D

AcharyA.

OK, we’ll start with the basics. Let’s call this a ‘crash course in Yahoo Answers Pregnancy’

*If you have started to ovulate, even if you have never had a period, it’s still possible to get pregnant.
*If you have sex with a male, and you have a vagina, it is possible to concieve. Even if it is ‘put in there’ only once.. prec u m is uncontrollable, hardly noticeable and full of the little tigers.
*Little tigers means sperm. Not stripey cubs from Africa.
*You do not need to orgasm to concieve. Neither does he.
*It doesn’t matter what position you ‘do it’ in. It’s always possible. Unless it’s anal or oral sex. Which won’t make babies
*You are pregnant if a Home Pregnancy Test shows positive. No matter how faint the line. Or if a Dr tells you you are
*If your test shows a negative and you are still suspicious, take another test in three to five days.
* Only take a test if you have had sex. Not if you have sat on a toilet a boy has sat on before you…
*If you do not know how babies are made, continue playing with your Barbie for another 10 years.
*If you are 13 or 14 or 15 and do not know how to tell your parents, practice before you get pregnant by telling them you are sexually active. Carefully observe their reaction. It could be a good indicator of what it will be.
*Sexually active means you ‘do it’, or ‘have sex’, which means his penis has entered your vagina.
*Observe means ‘take note’
*C ummed is not a word. The technical word for this is ‘ejaculation’
*The earliest you can take a home pregnancy test is generally 14 days after you have had sex. Which is when your period is generally due.
*We are not pee sticks. They can generally be found at a pharmacy near you!
*You do not get the symptoms of needing to pee, nausea, cravings, heartburn or enlarged stomach the day or week after you had sex. You cannot feel a baby moving or kicking before 16wks (there are some exceptions here, like multiple pregnancy or subsequent pregnancies)
*You cannot tell if it is more than 1 baby from the ‘brightness’ of the control line on the home pregnancy test.
*This also means you cannot tell if it is a boy or a girl from the ‘brightness’ of the test.

My official Yahoo Answers question is,

Have I missed something?

my girlfriend pulled my hair really hard, stopped breathing a bit, and moaned at the highest pitch ive ever heard her before , but she never seemed to release or want to stop. she just wanted to keep going. did she have an orgasm? she said shes pretty sure she did but im not sure.

Hi. Me and my gf are together for over 1.5 years now and we are having lots of sex (up to almost 10 times some weeks) but I can’t make her orgasm frequent enough. I’d say 1 in 10 times or maybe less. We are totally in love and have been practically living together for a year now. I truly care for her and her happiness and want her to have pleasure as much as me and maybe more.

Prior to me, I know (I asked several times) that she was having vaginal orgasms with her ex partners so I feel really really sad and think that she sees me as an amateur. When we talk she says that the sex is great and it’s okay for her not reaching an orgasm, but I sense that she’s lying not to hurt me. In a sense, we have a great sex life: always try new things, oral stimulation, dirty talk and all but this orgasm number 2 thing is really bothering me.
Any advices?

when my girlfriend and i have sex i always try to make sure she enjoys it as much as i but when it gets to the point were she is about to orgasm she screams no and pushes me away , she says she doesnt really understand why it just gets to much for her, i suggested using restraints but she starts to cry if we push it to much, anyone else experienced anything like this

please no horrible comments

Whenever my girlfriend and I are trying to get her to reach orgasm we always fall short. Whether it be by fingers or intercourse, it seems as she gets closer and closer to climax she gets louder and louder and wiggles more and more, but it’s as if once she’s just about to she pulls away. Usually she says something along the lines of "it feels too good" or that "she can’t handle it".

Of course we continue until I reach my climax, but this leaves me wondering whether it was something I did wrong and feeling inadequate. Plus it makes me feel selfish, as if I receive of the pleasure while she gets none.

Anybody have any comments//suggestions?

I have been with my girlfriend for about 6 months
now, and she can only peak orgasm when I give
her oral. She has had one time in her life when she
had a orgasm during intercourse years ago. She is
in her 40’s and has never had a surgery for female
problems. Can anyone help us out there on what
we could do to help her out with this.
thanks,
Andy and Jill

ok shes a virgin
(we are in love)
and we still haven’t had sex.

but we do mess around alittle and rub up on each other with very thin cloth

sometimes we are at it for a while and she starts to moan, and grabs the bed sheets hard, and her breathing changes

after it happens she tells me her legs are weak
did she have an orgasm?

i asked her and she says no

when we make love i can tell she gets really aroused and starts moaning and what not but then she tells me to stop cuz she cant take it anymore like im making her feel too good. (this doesnt mean we stop making love it just means that i slow down) does that mean i made her orgasm even if theres no female ejaculation? ive been with 2 other women before her but ive never made them come . ive been with my current girlfriend for 8 months now were both 18 and i used to think that at first she did this because she was holding back on me but then again i know i should be more understanding because shes never had an orgasm before and she told me she wouldnt know if she has had one with me or not because im her first and she doesnt know what one is supposed to feel like.
she did tell me she feels like shes gonna pee . in fact thats exactly what came out of her mouth. so i must be on the right path then. =] thanks for your help people.

Is my girlfriend’s orgasm normal? we have a Great sex life, always trying new things and new positions, but something has always…bothered me: She does not Contract during her Orgasm.

When asked about this she just replies that " it just feels better when i just relax throughout the whole thing". Ive asked her to try to "Bear Down" during her next orgasm, but i still Did Not feel anything.

I know she isnt faking it by her Flushed Face and Chest, Shortness of Breath, and her increased DONTTOUCHME!!! Sensitivity after her "O".However, there is not any Physical evidence of it at all! Weither it be from Oral, Digital, or Actual Intercourse its always the same; she doesnt tighten, contract or anything.

Are there many women who orgasm like this? or is there somthing that we can do to let Me recieve some pleasure for pleasing Her?

I can’t give my girlfriend an orgasm anymore. I realized this after my girlfriend started to stop saying things like "Yes!" and all that dirty talk. Though I know that’s not what turns me on about her but ever since she stopped that I can’t give her an orgasm! Maybe it’s… my member? I’m 7 1/4 inches, but I changed my diet to allow more meats and started working out more. So maybe my member gets less blood now? I don’t know… EVERY TIME we have sex I can give her an orgasm. EVERY time. Does anybody have any insight/advice?
I’m more of the "romance over sex" type. Our romance is pretty passionate. And we only turn to sex as a release from all the romancing. Hmmm… Maybe because of the position. I’ll try a different position this time.

Me and my girlfriend are both virgins, we’ve never had intercource, but we’ve done oral quite a few times, but not too too many, mabe about 5 times to her anyways. So my problem is I cant seem to make her orgasm. Fingering her realllllly gets her going and she seem like she gets to that point, but it never happens. Even with oral she says it feels amazing but I cant seem to make her orgasim, even though we’ve only done it a few times. She normally just stops, or gets so worked up she says she just needs a breather. She told me that when she stops its because it feels best as I finish, but today I did oral on her for about a good 15-20 minutes and she really got into it, bucking, tensening, heavy breathing, it seemed like she was almost there but then it would just kinda stop and then a second or two later it would start up again but never get to an orgasm… is there anything I can do to pleasure her even more than she says I already am?

Hi, I’m very confused lately. It might be obsessive toughts due to a huge lack of confidence or self listening but 3 months ago while I was working, I started to ask myself a million of questions including questions about my sexual orientation. I dug in the past to find the answers and I just couldn’t figure out what was wrong. I did masturbate once in my life while I was thinking about a guy as far as I remember but it wasn’t sexual … it was some kind of challenge-fantasy towards the same sex … I have a girlfriend and I love her to death. I would never break her heart. I quit my job because everyday I would come in start looking at mens in a different way and even check them out. But when I have a good day and I keep myself busy, I don’t think about those things same when I’m with my gf … But lately, I would have weak orgasm … less libido … less confidence … I would find myself stupid to everything I do wrong … it’s unbelievable how low I am :s … I ordered those enlarge-your-penis-pills cuz I feel like I’m not horny enough. My head is a real mess. I’m curious, unsatisfied even tho I got the best I always deserved. I use to be 200pds and girls would push me away. My ex never gave me a lot of pleasure either so maybe I’m sexualy frustrated … I don’t know what’s going on anymore. I use to go to gay clubs with my gay and lesbian friends without being uncomfortable but now just being around my gay friend makes me feel like I need to think I’m gay too … Could it be just a phase ? I’m 21 and pre-matured so I think I’m having my period of questionning. HELP ! I have these weird questions lately uh … I hate hanging around guys …
-I often imagine myself doing it with a guy but I don’t know if I’d feel confortable doing it …
-I’m very paranoid in general

ok to start off me and my girlfriend both lost our virginity to eachother and yes i deff know this for a fact, but everytime we have sex even then she still wont orgasm or if she does its not alot so is there anything i can do about that because weve tried 3 diff. positions me on top, spoon, and her on top… we both agree that her on top gives both of us the most pleasure, but like i said she still wont orgasm or if she does its not alot so what can i do?

How do i make my Girlfriend have the best orgasm possible?

What should i do and when and in what order? Thanks in Advance !

I am my girlfriend’s first time sexual partner and despite my best efforts she cant seem to get an orgasm, please help!
She’s 18, and I’m 20, we’ve been having sex for a few months, and I try to communicate with her as much as possible. She told me she’s never had an orgasm, and while I think I’ve gotten her veryclose, she seems toreach a point when she’s on the verge of orgasm, but instead goes limp, and tells me to stop.

I have tried oral, finger stimulation, different possitions etc. We always do foreplay, I explore her body, let her know how gorgeous she is, and listen for every sign of pleasure from her, and yet whenever she gets close she just stops.

I am her first partner, but we both know are care for each other, and I really want her to fully enjoy love making, so I need some advice as to what I’m doing wrong, or what I could do to help her achieve orgasm.

And it’s not size that’s the problem, if you know what I mean; she tells me she’sfully satisfied every time, and last time she was out if breath for 5 minutes, and unable to move from how good it felt, but still no orgasm. She did say she felt pinprick all over her body though.

Any experience and advce will be much appreciated.

Thank you all. :)

When I think of it , men can achieve orgasm so early , but women rarely get it through sex. Can someone find out reason ? I think one reason may be that the one who designed woman body never wanted woman to get satisfied too quickly and reduce the chance of pregnancy, therefore in earlier days when women would have intercourse with multiple men , the chance factor of their remaining pregnant would be high. Well this is best guess I could make ! What are your views ?

my girl can only have one orgasm then it starts to hurt her. I dont know what to do about it. she gets off quick then it hurts her when we keep going so that i can get off. wat can i do about it?

ok so my girlfriend and i r going to try having me fingering her and we will b at my moms house cuz we are both still teenagers…..well question is……when she is going to orgasm what are we supposed 2 do like cuz i dont want mom 2 find….u kno the evidence lol….?? plz only real answers i need real advice…thank u!!

I’m pretty new to sex but my girlfriend isnt.
She was my first and i was her second, but her and here previous boyfriend had sex all the time.
Thats fine and all but when we have sex she doesnt have an orgasm(at least I dont think she does) i hear alot of heavy breathing
could she just no be making noise or am i doing something wrong.
I don’t want to make sex for us awkward by asking about it and i don’t want a fake one either. What should I do?

Been seeing a girl for the past 6months and every time we have sex she always reaches orgasm. Its never happened with all my ex-girls and she says shes never had this before. Does this mean we just have a good sexual connection?, is it that just a phase?, or something else?

Let me know your thoughts…

Cheers

My girlfriend doesnt orgasm when we have sex. I have actually only gotten her off a few times in the past year but I had to use oral and that doesnt work all the time. When we have sex I try to stimulate her clitors with my hand but she just slaps my hand away and tells me to stop. She says it is to sensitive (how do I get her off if I cant touch her there). She claims she enjoys sex, and I know she love me but to be honest when we have sex she doesnt seem like she has her head in the game. She will always talk about thing that has nothing to do with whats going on, and I blame her because I feel that she doesnt orgasm because she doesnt concentrate on trying to have one.

I have lasted up to half an hour in bed and my girlfriend has never had a orgasm. She says she doesn’t care but i would really rather her have one than not. I have tried eating her out and then sex and it still didn’t work. What am I doing wrong?
I have lasted up to half an hour in bed and my girlfriend has never had a orgasm and I have a solid 7 inches?!? She says she doesn’t care but i would really rather her have one than not. What am I doing wrong?
Oh and by the way I am not small either.

weve done it more than 10 times and she just doesnt come. is there something i can do to me her. its it possible that she cant have an orgasm. When we do it she always leaves this cummy looking stuff on me. is that come? if it was i think she would know it right?
i need some tips to help me please her.

i gave her an orgasm once she love it but i just wanna find out how can i give her a more powerful orgasm

It is very difficult for my girlfriend to get an orgasm through sex or *asturbation. The only position that she can get an orgasm is if she’s on top and we go very fast for a long period of time without stopping. Even with this technique she doesn’t get an orgasm most of the time. She can’t get one when she *asturbates unless she uses something on her clit that vibrates. When she does this, everything needs to be perfect… down to the right temperature. If it’s too hot or too cold in the room she can’t get one. It usually takes about 20 minutes of this before she gets one. Does anyone have any advice? Sex positions? *asturbation tips? ANYTHING would help! Also, is this normal? Is it this hard for every girl?

hey, basically i have a girlfriend who i think is great, and we’ve been going out for 5 months. my problem is that when i finger her i can’t bring her to orgasm, but i know that her previous boyfriend gave her that particular pleasure, which makes me feel really inadequate and lacking in confidence. I’ve tried looking at websites and stuff but nothing’s really helping me, i was wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to what i can do? thanks

This past week i believe i got my girlfriend to orgasm for the first time through fingering. She thought she had before but now she believes that she had never in the past and this was her first. She said it was a completely different feeling and that it was much better.

I dont mean to be graphic but i started off just playing with her clit and some rubbing which got good responses like it always does. Later i started the actual penetration but this time she got very tense and kind of "pushed" my fingers out quite a bit. I could really only get them in a very little ways. I kept going however and this was with my palm facing down so id bet that helped. Anyway after a few minutes she started to grab onto me a lot more than usual and made quite a bit of noise. At the point that i think she went off she held her breathe and i felt her muscles kind of push against my fingers about 3 times spaced apart by a good 15 seconds each. She then started to breathe heavily and became oversensitive. Was this an orgasm? Since that night ive weve only tried again once and the same thing happened with the whole "pushing" feeling. Id just like to know if i did well and to see if my girlfriend can tell. =) Thanks, and no trolls this is quite serious, if you dont have an answer dont post.
good, i thought it was. And i did ask her lol, she wasnt completely sure either as it was new to her. Yeah the muscle thing gave it away i think, but it wasnt fast if just felt kind of like the hole like opened up a bit more and pushed my fingers outwards in 15-20 second intervals, and every time that happened she would hold her breathe…any more insight?

i have been going out with my girlfriend for 7 months but i still am not 100% sure when she has had her orgasm or not?

I mean all the stuff we’ve done (everything but sex) the amount of times i’ve fingered her i know that 95% of the time shes probs orgasemed.

What are the "symptoms" of an orgasm?

I am a 26 year old male who just started dating a new girl a little less then 7 months ago and we recently began having sex and she seems to need to be barefoot in order to orgasm. She says she "enjoys the toe curl feeling" I have never experienced this with any other woman and as much as I like her, I am wondering if I should see this as some sort of red flag.

I have been with my girl for a while now and we have tried almost everything and she has not had an orgasm yet and has never had one. Give me some good advice please.

I cant seem to make my girlfriend orgasm, according to her shes just really good at holding it in, but i still want to get her to that point, any pointers? things i can do while we are fooling around? anything?

my girlfriend cant get an orgasm because she doesnt cum.. i mean she gets a lot of plessure she even runs out of breath but still nothing.. she tells me she feels a lot but still not enough what can i do to change that?

everytime i see my girlfriend i finger her but she is just not happy i tried to look up how to get her to have an orgasm but nothing works on her please help

My girldfriend has never really had an orgasm before, even after 2 other serious relationships and now I’m number three. We’ve been together for 6 months, and this is my only serious relationship, I’ve run out of things to do to please her. Like I mean, I’ve tryed everything, except any forms of toys. I just turned 18, and think that that is the route I might have to take. Does anyone have any suggestions about what I can do to help her achieve an orgasm? We are open to trying almost anything, and we have a very open relationship and we both think it might have something to do with the birth control pills she has been taking for almost 3 years now. Any suggestions would be absolutly wonderful. Thanks alot. Oh, and in-case you’re wondering, I have found her G-Spot, and even that doesn’t seem generate anything even after really working her in. I may not be that experienced or even that good, but I really have been trying my damnnest, and nothing seems to work. Thanks again!

No matter what I try she doesn’t orgasm…we’re gonna have sex tomorrow and she says if I can’t make her orgasm then she’s gonna dump me. I love her so much, I desperately need your help!! Any suggestions are very very appreciated! And please no anti-Semitic jokes.

Ive given my girlfriend a clitorl orgasm before, but when we have sex I just can’t get her off. I don’t think my penis is too small but she sometimes can’t even feel me. I can get off but I feel terrible about it and I told her im not going to let myself get off until she does. Its really frusterating for the both of us and i dont know what im suposed to do. Can someone please help us out?

i need some help to help make my girlfriend orgasm. we’ve been together for over a year and i want to spice up our relationship by making her satisfied in bed. can somebody help please?!!!!!

We have been dating for almost 4 months, and we are both virgins. I brought her really close the other day but we had to stop because we were late for something…I want to know how I can giver her an orgasm so we dont have to stop in the middle of something again.
quickly… I know fingering her and or eating her out will do it, but I need something that will work fast. Maybe tips/techniques that will be faster…

im 19 and obviously a guy

me and my girlfriend sometimes have sex and sometimes we just mess around but we always use protection.
i want to know how to give her a great long orgasm though

its a stupid question but if you could answer that would be great

every time she is about to have an orgasm she makes me stop because she thinks she is going to urinate and, i have told her that’s what it is supposed to feel like

Any ideas on how to make her feel safe of ‘letting go’?

This happened just as i was having a orgasm and now my girlfriend is scared to come to the house anymore.. She usually comes over every evening for dinner.. But now my mom caught her eating something else besides her fried pork chops… What should i do ??????

im 19 and obviously a guy

me and my girlfriend sometimes have sex and sometimes we just mess around but we always use protection.
i want to know how to give her a great long orgasm though

its a stupid question but if you could answer that would be great

I fingered my girlfriend for the first time tonight and she said she orgasmed. I only fingered her for like 5-10 minutes, using mainly one finger and sometimes two. She was really wet down there, but she didnt really moan, only heavy breathing and the occasional little noise.

Anyway she said she had an orgasm but dont know if she was telling the truth or not and its really bugging me lol. Can a girl really orgasm in like 5-10 minutes?

she was a virgin and at first it hurt but she got an orgasm on our first time together.. at first i didnt believe her because the other girl i had it with just said it hurt real bad… what my current girlfriend described sounds like an orgasm to me she said it was an exploding feeling that spread through out her body… does that seem normal, i mean she really likes me and all but can that take away the pain of the first time?

Ive tried everything to make my girlfriend orgasm but nothing seems to work. When i finger her she moans and everything and at the end she says it felt great and loved every part of it but i dont know if she has reaches orgasm. Please help!!!!!

problem, Also she is only able to orgasm orally.

Me and my girlfriend have been together for over 6 months. We have had sex numerous times and i have fingered her and licked her "down there" the whole 9 yards, but i just cant get her to climax. She has had 2 orgasm’s with other guys who she has only been with for a short time and i just feel so helpless im trying my hardest and I really need to get her to orgasm. Please i don’t want any crappy answers i really need this, thanks.

my girlfriend rode on my leg to reach orgasm and ‘came’ on my thigh several times. we did not take a shower or anything afterwards and the cum dried on my leg. a day after pimples formed where she previously sat.

are these pimples? they have little white heads to be pimples with no abnormal shape, scarring, or pus.

i have no bumps or pimples or anything out of sorts in my vagina area, and i am prone to have body acne and acne on my face.

could this be by letting the contact of her fluids and my skin cause irritation– or something else?

thanks

Have you any tips or suggestions to make me orgasm easier and/or more wuickly, because we usually go on for a few hours.
Any help would be much appreciated. Thank you

My girlfriend and have been together for almost a year and have been having sex for about 5 months. For whatever reason she can orgasm everytime during oral, but has never been able to from sex. I am about 6 and 1/2 inches long and on a good day have lasted about 10-15 mins so I don’t think its size or me not lasting long enough. She is tall (5′10"). could this have something to do with it? She doesn’t have a problem with not orgasming during sex, but I’m frustrated. Please help. Thanks

I’m a bit far away frm my girlfriends place….We use to call each other and flirt and talk abt sex…and give kisses and have sex thru telephone…..My girlfriend seems to reach peak orgasm without even touching herself…just by hearing me satisfying myself as well as talkin sex…Is it okay?? and is it possible?????

i was just wondering if there is any way to naturally strengthen the muscles in your penis. if you did this it should both enlarge the penis and strengthen orgasm/ sexual pleasure. any ideas?

Well, last week i was with my girlfriend and we decided to have some fun. after kissing and what not i went into her pants, which happens about 3 or 4 times a month. but this time when i was fingering her i did it a lot longer than i have before and i believe i we were working our way really close to her orgasm. but as i continued she said she it felt like she needed to pee. so i stopped for her sake then she said i can continue again.. so i did and the same thing happened another 1 or 2 times again and after that she said she was finished.

i need some help please, preferably a girl who knows what im talking about but i need to know if its something im doing wrong or if the sensation she has to pee is an indication of me doing something wrong too. any tricks or tips to help me get her to orgasm?

please and thank you to all.
=]
So then another thing is should i continue to rub her the same way if she says she has the feeling to pee? if she says that i should just keep going? and she should orgasm then.. right?

Hi guys. I gave my girlfriend her first oral experience this week (eat out). The problem is that after trying 2-3 times, she tells me that she feels an unbelievable sensation, and then suddenly tells me to get off because she feels (her clitoris) "too sensitive" (as if she wants me to continue, but she cant go on).

I tried to not lick it directly after the 1st time. But it always happens. Like she gets to the point where she’s really into it, but then she suddenly starts to push me away and urge me to stop for good.

Does any one know what this happen? It feels sort of frustrating that she seems to be about to orgasm :S

What can I do after me and my girlfriend have sex to keep her happy and give her an orgasm? Like what is the best technique after sex. Sex is pretty much ended when the man orgasms but when I am done I want to keep going on her to make sure that she has one too. What is the best way to do that after sex?
EDIT: I know foreplay and fingering before. But I mean even though I climax before her, I still want to get her to climax too. My question is mainly how can I make her climax after sex and after I orgasm.

I know you can pass std’s through body fluids, but im not so sure about orl sex. If a girl were to give me head, but i did not have a orgasm in her mouth, can i give her chlamydia if i had it.

I don’t know how to make my girlfriend orgasm, and apparently she doesn’t really masturbate so she doesn’t know either. But she says that it’s okay.

It’s been like this for a year. Now she became friends with this guy at her college and he’s known to be excellent in bed with girls. I know my gf won’t cheat, but I can tell she’s been curious and tempted (before she met the guy, she’s always saying stuff like "hmmm i wonder what orgasm feels like"). The guy is always flirting with her too. Do you think my gf would ever leave me for someone who can satisfy her? You know, just unintentional, due to curiosity and what not.
She never ‘expected’ me to find out how, fyi.

I said she’s been okay with it all along. But I know she’s curious, but she’s not hammering me down for not being able to pleasure her. I’m just worried because I know there are probably people out there who can figure her out.

My girlfriend and I have been sexually curious for a while, we’ve been messing around for a few months but I’ve never given her an Orgasm. She’s told me that it feels good, but it’s just not enough, but is it possible to give her an orgasm just through touching?

While I’m on the subject, we’ve also talked about having sex, and she wants to wait till she’s 18 (which isn’t far away, and is legal at the age she is now) so she can get anti-biotics that you can only get if your non-sexually active 18+ (I think it was for like cervical cancer and things like that). Do these drugs really exist or was it just something her mom told her?

Also, I know not having sex is the only 100% way not to have a baby, but if we do decide to make love, she doesn’t believe in birth control, will a condom and spermicide be enough, or is that a big no-no? Or is that good enough? (Please don’t use the "abstinence is the only way" bs, that’s just an opinion and her and I have our own opinion)
Thanks for your input
Just wanted to clarify, since someone isn’t intelligent enough to read the question:
While abstinence may be the only way to have 100% birth control, the question was if in the event of sex, is the amount of protecton sufficient to actually provide any sort of unintended pregnancy.
The opinion part is whether or not abstinence is the right way to live your life. My girlfriend and I have discussed it and believe we are more than ready for that kind of commitment (and are capable of resolving any unexpected outcomes)
So, I’ve asked these quesions not out of naivety of my age, but out of commitment to make the right decision and have enough information to make a good decision.
Thank you to those who gave intelligent output and relevant information!

I gave my GF her first ever orgasm the other day, but about half an hour later, she was tired and by lunch, she had a slight tummy ache and still felt tired. Is this normal.I have been told that it is, but is it?

My girlfriend orgasms like a guy. She will go at it for a little while (about 5-10 mins), orgasm, and then collapse. After laying there for a few mins, she just get off and say that she is done.
She does this all the time.
I thought girls can have multipule orgasms? She says once she orgasms, she looses sexual drive and feels "finished".and no urge to go on for round two.
Is that normal?
Any suggestions in fixing this, or any other similar experiences?

i can get her going pretty good every time just by making circles on the clitoris but after a lil bit she loses it every time. What do i do better or change or do to help her reach a climaxing orgasm.

No matter what I try she doesn’t orgasm…we’re gonna have sex tomorrow and she says if I can’t make her orgasm then she’s gonna dump me. I love her so much, I desperately need your help!! Any suggestions are very very appreciated! And please no anti-Semitic jokes.

I love my girlfriend very much and we have sex at least 4 times a week. She says she cant climax when her legs are apart. As a result all I do is continuously finger ‘do’ her and play with her boobs till she comes.. She does have some great orgasms but she doesn’t think we can use my fingers forever. To make matters worse, I am not that well endowed (5 and a half inches). Not sure if there are any positions that would work for us or what we can do. Shes said that its just a mental block shes got that ’she cant have an orgasm with her legs apart’ but until that block gets outta there, I’m gonna need some help! Please advise!! I really love this girl and want her to enjoy sex to the fullest.. Thanks

She was on top and she didn’t even feel it. It was rather watery with little or no odor– but definitely feces. Is this from loss of control due to orgasm or what?

Im 14 years old and im taking my friend to a school dance she is pretty and hot she has a sexy body and i want to have sex with her because we been going out for three years already and we have decided that this is going to be it but first i have to get ready and make her have an orgasm before we start doing it and do you have any tips to keep it going.Please anwser. : )

I am seeing this woman who is 29. She is horny all the time. Everytime she we make out she get so turned on and wet and tells me not to stop. I know she is enjoying it, but then after she orgasms she can’t stand to be touched. The least sensation even on her arm or check causes her sever abdominal/pelvic pain. She says she enjoys the orgasms tremendously, but I hate to see her in so much pain afterwards. I know it is probably uterine contractions or something, but I wonder if it could be anything more serious. I love to cuddle afterwards but it is hard when you can’t even touch her.
Oh I should add that she said that she has similar pain when she masturbates also but not as severe. Probably because the orgasm is not as intense. The pain occurs whether she orgams from clitoral stimulation alone or intercourse.

just throwing this on here out of curiosity..last night my girlfriend and i had awesome sex, in the act she left a wet spot on my bed close to the size of a soccer ball it was incredible.. just wondering because im pretty sure she didnt have an orgasm (we probably both would have known) my question is should we have kept going?? (it ended shortly after) is the extremely wetness one step closer to the real deal?

She wants to take it slow she said that i can do anything 2 her with clothes on i was wondering how cani get her 2 orgasm wat could i try :\
i tryed dry but it kinda hurts cause i have zippers on all my clothes
nooo ceral ;)

So, my girlfriend recently told me she has never had an orgasm when we had sex. We have been together almost two years and I guess she has been faking it all along. I don’t understand what is wrong. I am very well endowed-almost nine full inches and very thick. She always complements me on the size of my penis so I don’t understand what is wrong. Is it possible she needs an even larger penis?

I guess I am too embarrassed to talk to her about it and I think she feels bad she told me the truth.

What can I do?

Thanks!

When we’re going at it she tells me to stop when she’s close. I want her to orgasm but she won’t allow herself to do it. I don’t how many times ive had to finish myself off.

I’ve been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and we’ve had lots of sex and she says most of the time she is very satisfied and yet i cant make her orgasm please help me it worries me that i cant make her orgasm ….thank you in advanced

She wants to take it slow she said that i can do anything 2 her with clothes on i was wondering how cani get her 2 orgasm wat could i try :\
She doesn’t care wat i do but it has 2 be clothes onn

I have a beautiful girl friend, but she has a medical problem (that her vagina is too dry). It’s not a problem really she uses a special cream (we found answers to this problem on a few sites including here (http://www.bodyandfitness.com/Information/Womenhealth/dryness.htm , But I feel that now that she has seen a doctor and that we talked so much about it, she feels some kind of pressure to orgasm. As a matter of fact, she can’t really act and yales too much when we have sex. I’ve seen on different sites that women having orgasms have contractions of their perineum muscles (see illustrations : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bulbospongiosus_muscle or http://www.francesfarmersrevenge.com/stuff/archive/oldnews5/orgasm.htm or here http://www.18closeup.com/perineum.htm ) I really wanna know if she’s really turned on or not? Do all woman have such contractions? Thanks for your answers.

ok well im 18 and shes 17 and we have been together for about 9 months. we have been having sex for about 4 or 5 months of that time. I can not get her to have an orgasm. ive tried many different positions and nothing works. she told me that some people dont have them untill they are in college or out of college. am i just that bad at it? what can i do to make her have an orgasm.

thanks a lot.

My girlfriend confessed to me that she has never had an orgasm. I didn’t quite know what to tell her but to talk to her girlfriends, but she told me that her girlfriends don’t talk about such things because of religious or cultural reasons. I told her that all women are different and that women are more complicated than guys. Any one have any advice to help my girlfriend out? For the record, if you are going to make jokes, please don’t. There is no need to be rude.

so. she say’s i’m the best sex she’s ever had. BUT.. she has problems reaching a full orgasm. it makes her so upset and i cannot stand to see her upset. i spent almost 2 hours on my hands and knees. getting at her gspot and going as deep as i can. she likes it deep. hah. anyway. what could be wrong ? please help. =/

Do guys always give a woman an orgasm with kisses first?

I have heard so many women complain that they were just getting into it with their guy, and he finished leaving her wanting more.

It may take more foreplay to get a woman going, but after she does get going–she needs so much more than a man does to be truly satisfied.

A woman can sometimes have several orgasms in a row and be even hotter. Can’t say that about a guy, lol.

As for myself personally, I will always make sure a woman has an orgasm from "kisses" down there before intercourse even begins. And doing that for a woman is so intimate. It is the most special kiss a man and a woman can share.

Do other guys do this too?

Also, for the women–do most guys make sure you have an orgasm before intercourse starts?

Ok guys I need your help. this is kinda embarrassing to ask but, ever time my girl friend and I have sex, I can never orgasm. My girl friend always finishes before me! At first I thought it was kinda cool because I could go for a very long time. But now, it’s pissing me off. Even when she does oral it’s hard for me to "bus". She’s gotten me twice. But I don’t know what to do? any suggestions?

Me and my girlfriend have been have had sex a couple of times and after a while throughout each occasion, she said she have this feeling where she had to go pee, although I would keep going thinking that the orgasm was right past that, after a point she would say to stop because the feeling was too strong. I would then press her g-spot with my fingers and she would immediately jerk quickly and ask for me to stop. What’s going on??

I was just wondering. I always feel like I do a good job. Her whole body tenses and like her whole body is just convulsing and toes are curling. How can I tell if I’m actually making her reach her orgasm?
Yah shes usually really blush in the face and her pupils are bigger than normal.

My girlfriend and I have been active for about a month, but recently, she hasn’t been able to reach orgasm, she gets close, but just can’t finish. What could be wrong, is there something that I can do to help her?

We have been dating for almost 4 months, and we are both virgins. I brought her really close the other day but we had to stop because we were late for something…I want to know how I can giver her an orgasm so we dont have to stop in the middle of something again.

When i finger my gf she always seems like she really enjoys it, she moans and tenses, but I don’t know how to tell if she actually has an orgasm from it. Thanks :)

i have only made her orgasm once,and were both a bit frustrated. help would be appreciated. (its not a small penis thing,and we do a lot of foreplay.)

Ok, me and my girlfriend have sex, and it seems like she lasts only about 15 minutes. Then she gets "dry." We do it at a normal pace too. Is it normal for girls to last this short of time; and will it ever change (time to reach orgasm?)

Can somebody please tell me how to ask my girlfriend if she had an orgasm because i don’t know if she has. When i finger her she moans and everything and says it felt great at the end and she loved every part of it but I don’t know if she had an orgasm?

This was the first sexual experience for both of us, and I fingered/ate her out, after what I felt was about a half hour, she had an orgasm. Is this unusual?

I’ve been with my girlfriend for over a year and I have not been able to have an orgasm with her. I can masturbate and have one, but I can’t have one when I’m inside her. Help!

i have a friend who just got married, and she tells me that she is really enjoying the sex and is having multiple orgasms during vaginal sex.. i was quite shocked and told her that she doesn’t know what an orgasm is. lol now i’ve been married for over 12 yrs, and i just recently had my 1st orgasm! now is this really possible?? especially bc she has never had sex b4 her marriage?

My girlfriend says she can have a orgasm just by laying on a pillow or folded blanket, is this possible?

wat do women do when faking an orgasm?
and how could you tell if someone is faking it?

my girlfriend can only get an orgasm when she’s riding me. how can I make her get an orgasm? i tried many ways but it just doesn’t happen. how can i do?

I recently had sex with my girlfriend, She told me that i was better than her past boyfriend which was the only other person she had sex with. I want to find out if she is telling me the truth and if i can actually make her orgasm. Please help! Thankyou in advance. X

I can’t seem to get my girlfriend to have an orgasm. I don’t feel like I should be satisfied unless she is also. Can anyone please give me some insight, anything at all that might help. I’m in my early twenties and have a little bit larger than average penis so I don’t think thats the problem. PLEASE HELP!!!

she says that when she starts to have one it only lasts for like 2 seconds, how do i make her orgasm for long periods of time?

I know it’s possible and we would like to hypnotize each other to orgasm, but I would like a website or ebook or instructional video or something on how to do it. Watching preexisting videos and trying to mimic it ain’t cutting it unfortunately, I require some instruction here.

Thank you ever so much, your time and help is really appreciated
Tina: We do accomplish orgasms the old fashioned way, but I thought it would be a very erotic, fun, and different experience to hypnotize each other to orgasm.

When my girlfriend and I are together, and we are doing foreplay and what not, she can never seem to get me to orgasm. She’s done hand jobs, blow jobs, and everything short of having sex. Is this because I have been masturbating for a long time? (I don’t overly do it either) Could that be the reason why, or is it that she isn’t doing something right to get me off?

If you "do your thing" until you’ve reached really close to the point if orgasm and keep it there at that point for lets say an hour or so does it really enlarge your penis?

my girlfriend sometimes told me she had orgasm but i didn’t feel anything different. i want to feel and know. but how?

Typically after clitoral and g-spot stimulation leading to orgasm, my girlfriend has a fluid that kind of seeps out of her vagina. It has the look and consistency of semen. It is not projectile in any way. Does anyone know what this is or at least experienced it yourself? Please do not answer rudely or say something stupid like ‘your girlfriend’s a hermaphrodite’. Thanks in advance to the people who take this site seriously.
If this helps, she is currently not on birth control but has been in the past.

I herd someone said so, but i don’t believe, so is it true, can a woman get so exited to the point of Orgasm

My gf has never had an orgasm and we’ve worked hard. She describes it as feeling good for a whole building up and then just disappearing as she gets closer and doesn’t feel good any more. Shes felt the same sort of result with other people and it frustrates her and drives her away from having sex. Can anyone give suggestions that have had a similar problem?

Things like delaying man’s orgasm and speeding up the woman’s, staying in the orgasm stage for longer periods.. etc?

I’m a female and I was wondering how long it takes for a woman to come during orgasm and what tecnique would help during masturbation.

I have sort of a big penis, so I’ll never be able to experience the orgasm of, let’s say, a guy with a four-inch penis. I was wondering if a bigger private part would produce greater feelings of pleasure. It seems like there would be more psi (pleasure per square inch) or something.

Everytime we have sex, somtimes I Orgasm before she does and she notices and it turns her off, is there a condom out there for that or what do I do?

I want to know how to give my girlfriend an amazing orgasm, but i don’t know how! I want to make it just as pleasurable for her as it is for me. I need to know how to do it! I don’t want her to get bored. I feel that if i give her one she will be more interested and have more fun. please help!

How can I get my Girlfriend to have an orgasm when I am on top? She can have one when she is on top but I want it to happen for her while I am on top.

Ive been having sex with my girlfriend for a little over a month now and she never has an orgasm when we have sex, but when i do other things to her (oral or using my hand) she has about 2 or three. is there a way i can make her orgasm when we have sex?

  
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