My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 year now an are fully sexually active. She has been with 9 guys in her past and i have been with 16 girls. We are very open with each other with our Fantasy’s. Recently she admitted to me she was curious about a bigger penis, Now she has had guys that were bigger then me but she really didnt feel anything with them. Im of average size im happy with what I have, Im about 7" lil shy just a lil, We got to talking and I asked her what size she wanted, she sayed she wants a penis thats about 2 and a half of her hands which comes out to about 2 inches more then what I am….She claims that its just curiousity and that she doesnt need it…but she did cheat on her last boyfriend with 4 different guys because he wasnt doing it for her in bed…Now is there something i should be worried about. She says im the first guy to ever get her off like she can and she loves having sex with me! Its just those words that keep eating at me! She has had a big penis before but it didnt work for her, she just wants to know what it feels like to a guy with a big penis who knows how to work it….sorry im rambling its late. But my questions being should I full fill her fantasy an let her have this big penis, make it a threesome? If that guy gets her off better then me how am I suppose to feel having sex with her every night? Its that I love the girl an never want to lose! just need some advice ha ha

Well, I have had sex with 10 woman and made 6 of them climax but for some reason with my girlfriend of 4 months I just keep falling short and I don’t know why. I last for usually 45 minutes to a little over an hour practically every session. I know multiple positions, I’m in shape, I’m a good looking guy, I have a 6.75 inch tool if you know what I mean, and I have been looking up ways to make her finish for like 2 months now but to no avail. I’m very confident in my body I know I don’t have the biggest dick or know all the right moves but hell I know a lot and I have been fine with all the other girls I have been with aside from this girl and a few one night stands. The thing is that I really care about this girl more than any of my prior relationships I really just want to make her happy and feel great but for some reason I can’t! During intercourse I know she likes it because she stays VERY wet down there for the entire hour we are having sex but I can never push her over the top….I looked up new positions and I was going to try were she gets in the bathtub with a removable shower head and puts that on her C-spot while shes in my lap and I just enter her from behind. Maybe that will work…any advice is very appreciated. Oh, and shes not the type that just doesn’t finish at all…she has finished 2 times before we started dating…She tells me its not me and that she just hardly ever finishes which is how it has been for her in the past but I’m sure theirs a way I can get to her.

I love my girlfriend with every breathe in my body, and when it comes to having sex, I want to be able to know that she’s enjoying it more than I am…

She says that it hurts when we first start having sex, but after about five mins. she says it starts to feel pleasurable. And to be really honest, I feel like she is saying it to make me feel like im not doing so bad.
She is my first sexual partner, and I hope that she is going to be my only, as I feel she is "the one"

I know that it is all about how she feels as well as how I feel…
How ever, I feel like im not giving her any pleasure what so ever.

When I am playing with her vagina, she says I make her weak in her knees and that she really likes it!

I just want some tips whilst we are actually having sex.

Is there anyone who can help me?

Who knew that sexual experiences could be so confusing?
lol

We were having sex, she’d came twice, and we were approaching the 25 minute mark and it’d been like 8+ minutes since her last orgasm and then I came and at the same time she had two… Do you have any idea how I managed this? Have you ever managed it? Because I’d love to know how to do it again because obviously she said it was the most intense thing she’d felt in her life and she could hardly walk after lol.

Thanks :D

AcharyA.

Then what?
I have feelings for girls, I’ve only been in love with girls, I fantasize about girls but when it comes to sex, when I masterbate or have sex dreams its always with men.
I’ve never kissed a guy in my dream though or shared a intimate moment with a guy in my dreams, only with girls but when it comes to sex its only with guys and my previous girlfriend was very submissive and even though i loved f****** her, at the end of the day it just wasnt enough that she wasnt giving all that back.
So what does this mean for me…have I just not met the right girl yet or am I bisexual?
Thinking of having sex with a guy in real life turns my stomach but its ok in fantasies and dreams.
If you have anything rude to say, dont bother.

Was it a success? Are you able to feel the same when having sex? I am only 4 1/2 inches erect………..
THANKS FOR THE HELP!!!!!!!!!

ok so i have an issue my girlfriend is unable to orgasm… she says what i do feels really good and then all of a sudden she looses complete interest and it starts to hurt … i mean also i never popped her cherry and i don’t think its a issue of size im like 7.9 in hard and i mean its not like skinny either so i mean it hurts at first for her so i know its big enough…

first of all she lost her virginity to me so i know its not like shes stretched out or anything cause shes not… she has gotten fingered by one guy before me and since then we have been together for almost 2 years and having sex for almost 8 months now and shes still never orgasmed or had her cherry pop and she told me that she never popped it with the first BF so is it just that im doing something wrong …..

and about the orgasm thing she gets real nervous when we have sex could that be the reason she gets suddenly turned off and also has never been able to finish????

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months now and he’s very insecure about the size of his penis (the length and girth). I love having sex with him and I’m totally satisfied with his size and performance in bed. I have orgasms almost every time we have sex and with my previous boyfriend of almost three years (who had a very large penis) I never had orgasms when we had sex! I tell my boyfriend this and that I love him and everything about him, just the way he is but it still doesn’t stop his insecurities about his penis size and performance in bed. SO now he is talking about penis enlargement pills! I’ve told him that I do not want him to take them because I think they are dangerous and could lead to other complications, but he Still insist on finding a solution to his "problem." I don’t know what else to do but to support him in his the decision he wants to make because no matter what I say his insecurities won’t go away and it may start affecting our sex life. I just want to know if anyone out there has had any experience with penis enlargement pills such as Vimax or MaxiRex. If so are there any side effects and are the results permanent? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

I am my girlfriend’s first time sexual partner and despite my best efforts she cant seem to get an orgasm, please help!
She’s 18, and I’m 20, we’ve been having sex for a few months, and I try to communicate with her as much as possible. She told me she’s never had an orgasm, and while I think I’ve gotten her veryclose, she seems toreach a point when she’s on the verge of orgasm, but instead goes limp, and tells me to stop.

I have tried oral, finger stimulation, different possitions etc. We always do foreplay, I explore her body, let her know how gorgeous she is, and listen for every sign of pleasure from her, and yet whenever she gets close she just stops.

I am her first partner, but we both know are care for each other, and I really want her to fully enjoy love making, so I need some advice as to what I’m doing wrong, or what I could do to help her achieve orgasm.

And it’s not size that’s the problem, if you know what I mean; she tells me she’sfully satisfied every time, and last time she was out if breath for 5 minutes, and unable to move from how good it felt, but still no orgasm. She did say she felt pinprick all over her body though.

Any experience and advce will be much appreciated.

Thank you all. :)

There othere things that help define a man but this was just a question towards loyalty…if u cheat on ur spouse u cheat on ur kids " Your Family "…
wow this is for the smart people that need things to be spelled out for them …The part where the question says "how many times he could satisfy one women ?" this part means that the man is not cheating not so much that he is having sex with one woman, the man has respect towards his wife his family circle

I am a 26 year old male who just started dating a new girl a little less then 7 months ago and we recently began having sex and she seems to need to be barefoot in order to orgasm. She says she "enjoys the toe curl feeling" I have never experienced this with any other woman and as much as I like her, I am wondering if I should see this as some sort of red flag.

My girlfriend and have been together for almost a year and have been having sex for about 5 months. For whatever reason she can orgasm everytime during oral, but has never been able to from sex. I am about 6 and 1/2 inches long and on a good day have lasted about 10-15 mins so I don’t think its size or me not lasting long enough. She is tall (5′10"). could this have something to do with it? She doesn’t have a problem with not orgasming during sex, but I’m frustrated. Please help. Thanks

Me and my boyfriend are good togather he is everything I want in a man but his penis is extremly small. We tried having sex before and it would not even reach the vagina I am so discouraged I really do like him and care for him I want to be with him but I dont think I will get the satisfaction in the future. I actually think I will end up cheating on him if I stay with him. I dont know what to do. I really dont know how to tell him that is penis is to small for me. Somebody Please HELP!!!!!!
Well my vagina is not to big and he would not know because he can not even reach it to get it in the vagina. He is 24 so I think he has stop growing.
And what if i wanted to have kids in the future what will I do.

My girlfriend and I have been sexually curious for a while, we’ve been messing around for a few months but I’ve never given her an Orgasm. She’s told me that it feels good, but it’s just not enough, but is it possible to give her an orgasm just through touching?

While I’m on the subject, we’ve also talked about having sex, and she wants to wait till she’s 18 (which isn’t far away, and is legal at the age she is now) so she can get anti-biotics that you can only get if your non-sexually active 18+ (I think it was for like cervical cancer and things like that). Do these drugs really exist or was it just something her mom told her?

Also, I know not having sex is the only 100% way not to have a baby, but if we do decide to make love, she doesn’t believe in birth control, will a condom and spermicide be enough, or is that a big no-no? Or is that good enough? (Please don’t use the "abstinence is the only way" bs, that’s just an opinion and her and I have our own opinion)
Thanks for your input
Just wanted to clarify, since someone isn’t intelligent enough to read the question:
While abstinence may be the only way to have 100% birth control, the question was if in the event of sex, is the amount of protecton sufficient to actually provide any sort of unintended pregnancy.
The opinion part is whether or not abstinence is the right way to live your life. My girlfriend and I have discussed it and believe we are more than ready for that kind of commitment (and are capable of resolving any unexpected outcomes)
So, I’ve asked these quesions not out of naivety of my age, but out of commitment to make the right decision and have enough information to make a good decision.
Thank you to those who gave intelligent output and relevant information!

My girlfriend and I have been together for 10 months as of this coming sunday. We are the only people each other has slept with, so we’re still rather naive about a lot of it.

We’ve been having sex for about 7 months now, and it’s been great. I almost always put her pleasure before my own, as that is the way I feel it should be. I always asked her if she climaxed at least twice when we finished, because if not I would perform oral to make it happen.

Yesterday, she said her sister gave her a book called I *heart* Female Orgasm, and upon reading it, she discovered that she had never had an orgasm. Intense pleasure, but not the Big O.

She told me this in an effort to improve our sex, and handed me the book for pointers, but rather than make things better, things are worse. I suddenly have a feeling of inadequecy that’s really bothering me. And getting a book makes it even worse. I just feel now like I’m bad in bed, and to proud to read the book for help.

What should I do?

while having sex with my girlfriend, she repeatedly kept putting her nails into my back causing me to bleed. she kept saying baby harder and as i did she began to scream. and she was out of breath.

Did she finish?

ok well im 18 and shes 17 and we have been together for about 9 months. we have been having sex for about 4 or 5 months of that time. I can not get her to have an orgasm. ive tried many different positions and nothing works. she told me that some people dont have them untill they are in college or out of college. am i just that bad at it? what can i do to make her have an orgasm.

thanks a lot.

My brother is almost 24 years old and invites her over to hang out, but one time I saw condoms in my brother drawer and my sister heard them moaning in the bedroom before. This is getting sick and its bother me too. They are having sex in their and their breaking God’s law. It says to have sex during marriage not outside of it. What do y’all think.

i love my boyfriend, and we have good sex, not FANTASTIC but good, i would love to know how you guys like having sex, like what your favorite positions are, and what you really like the girl to do. please help and be honest. thanks a bunch

AM A BM WOMAN FROM CHENNAI. MY EXPERINCE SHOWS THAT MOST INDIAN MEN ARE UNFAITHFULL IF THEY GET A CHANCE , SO INDIAN WOMEN SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO CHOOSE THEIR OWN SEX PARTNERS

WHY SHOULD ONLY WOMEN BE "DECENT & FAITHFULL" WHILE THE MEN GO ALL AROUND HAVING SEX WITH WHOMSOVER THEY LIKE ?

I kno it was something like that, but in that case:
Is praying in your mind the same as praying the way you are supposed to pray?
Cuz if thinking about sex with some one else is the same as having sex with some one else
Wouldnt thinking about prayer be the same as praying?

Do you understand my Q?

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