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Why is it that a man (or woman) breaking up a couple is called infidelity,but a group – a church,for example – doing it is just business as usual?
My girlfriend of two years broke up with me in July. The reason she said we had to break up was because she had been offered something called a State of Life Discernment at her church. Not being Catholic,I had no idea what that was. I tried to find out but came up empty. All I know is that there are three paths involved – Married Life,Blessed Singleness,and Religious Life. They didn’t tell her what was expected of her when they offered her the discernment nor did they counsel her to talk it over with me. All they would say is that if she went through it,she would have to break up with any boyfriends,spouses,lovers,etc. as it would unfairly influence her decision. I don’t think it’s right what they did,but at the same time I can’t make her come back (nor will I) because she would just hate me.

i want to enlarge my penis but i dont want to use pills pumps creams ect. i want to do it a natural way at home before i have sexual entercourse with my girlfriend is there any way besides trimming hairs to make it bigger at home in any type of way and how do you jelq the proper way? help me please i really need this one

Guys and girls please answer; I am trying to understand this. I have virtually never had a woman come up and talk to me (one or two times in my life, and I go to bars ALOT!) I know that men make the first move more often, but I would think that in my thousands of time I have gone to bars, cafes, restaurants, etc some women would have hit on me if I was even slightly attractive. Not the case though.

I have almost never hit on women, mostly because I don’t know how to do it, but I am desperately lonely and would like to. But the fact that no woman has EVER (except one or two times) hit on me indicates that maybe if I try anything I will just be setting myself up for problems.

I don’t have any physical deformities but I can’t tell if I am attractive or not. Based one what i was telling you it would seem that i am not. I had one girlfriend in my life and she was obsessed with me. No other woman has given me the time of day. Why is this? I am 28 by the way.

Ok this is the thing….I tried the Super LQ Forumla, it didn’t work, I tried VigrX and it didn’t work.

My girlfriend is coming over in about 6 weeks and I haven’t seen her for a little while so I wanna give her a nice surprise ^_^. I’m about 5.75 inches now and wanna get to about 7.25

Anybody know an actual penis enlargement that works. I bought the extender device but it jsut feels weird and I work so many hours and can’t haev it on for what I do at work that often, so I’m lookin for maybe something else with it. I’m willing to work on the stretches and stuff but they take so long to get any results, its like 6 months.

Anybody have any suggestions or know of any actual pills that work that you have all tried out there, or a patch though I’m not sure if they actually work, any suggestions???

Thanks all who answer ^_^

My penis is not a crazy large penis, but when the average is to be 5 3/4inches, My 8 inches is a pretty goood size. Me and my girlfriend have figured out it is the size of her wrist.

Anyways.. Sorry… We can have intercousre, but we have to take it really easier at first.. It hurts her. She says in a good way.. lol, but I know it would make it a lot easier on both of us if we could find an easier way to have intercourse, without worrying about me hurtting her. Once I get all the way in, or as far as I can, it is amazing for both of us, it just makes it hard to start off. And we believe I have tore her once.

Any advice?

Thanks.
Thanks.. lol, and well.. we have lots of foreplay… LOTS.. We can really get into it.

She is 5′1/2", 107 pounds.

We have tried different poistions,

and lots of lube. She really really loves me, and my… yeah. But it would be nice to make it easier.

I know it will get to a point where we wont have to worry, but I just wanted to know if there was any wuicker way.

And yes, I am going to marry her. She is perfect♥

Don’t worry.

my girlfriend recently told me that the size of my penis is becoming an issue when i asked her to marry me.. she suggested penis enlargement surgery.. she said that if i’m not willing to do this for her then she’s going to leave me because she feels that the relationship will end badly.. the doctor told me there’s a chance that my penis may not work after surgery.. i told her about it and asked her if the surgery doesn’t go well and i can’t use my penis then what? she said she’l leave me.. i really love her… are there any other options because i don’t want to lose the one person i really care about…

First off, I know that there are *some* enlargement techniques that actually work. About a year ago I used these hand exercises and believe it or not my junk actually got thicker (larger circumference) within less than a week.

However I never found exercises that were designed to actually *lengthen* your penis, just make it thicker. Recently my girlfriend told me after we had sex that she would prefer if my penis was about 1-2 inches longer, so here I am asking for advice.

Please don’t post any "there is no real penis enlargement" topics just to bash me. I already know how to thicken it, I just need to hear from people who know of hand exercises designed to lengthen it as well.

Thanks so much, and sorry for the explicit topic.

My girlfriend says my penis is to small (4 inches). I’m eighteen and stopped growing. I’ve tried pills and even saw a urologist. He didn’t even check my penis size and called it average. Which is a lie because the average penis is like 6.5 inches. Anyway, he said pills don’t work, and the only way to get my penis bigger is by cutting some ligaments or injecting fat. He said it is a really risky surgery and most men are dissatisfied because their penis points down after. What can I do? My girl is very dissatisfied with my size, and I’ve even tried toys, but she thinks it should be all me. Sometimes she says I’m not a real man. I really hate this, and want to kill myself.

OK Guys I feel very stupid about this and I already regret it and I’ll NEVER do it again. I ask you for your help.
So as a naive 17 year old guy I fell for that penis enlargement thingy. I still don’t know why I did this since my penis is upper average size and so I shouldn’t really do it. Well yesterday I did penis enlargement thingy under the shower. I warmed my penis up with hot water for 5 minutes(for security reasons) and did some stretches, jelqs and pc muscle press. I didn’t do them so hard that it would hurt me, just some slight non painful exercises. I also did hot water warm down for 5 minutes. (Just for the info, I already did those exercises about twice last week and there were no problems after it, just a few cuts on my scrotum from stretchings which healed fast).

Ok so after that I think that I experience some problems… Since I did those exercises yesterday, I can’t get my penis up to full erection as easy as I did before. I have to help myself with left hand to massage the head of my penis to get it to full erection. I can still get my penis to full erection, but it’s much harder now since I have to use both hands. Strange thing is, that when I was with my girlfriend, I got full erection by itself without problem. But If I try to masturbate, I have to use both hands now to get it to full erection.

I don’t feel any numbness or anything. Today I feel just a slight pain in my penis, like that something is healing inside it. Is it possible that my penis is healing? I also noticed just a few red spots on my penis that are very hard to see. Did I do some permanent or just temporary damage? What should I do with my penis now, anything to help the healing? If things don’t get better in 1 week, I’ll visit a doctor. I know that I did a very stupid thing and I already regret it, well I learned my lesson :( Help please, I’m afraid :(

Ok so it’s no secret that one of my friends has a really large penis. He brags about it all the time and he always wears either tight jeans or sweatpants so it’s noticeable. It’s awkward and getting kind of annoying, especially when he comes over to my mine and my girlfriends house. I know my girlfriend has seen his junk through his pants, it’s almost like he wants her to see it. Has anybody been through something like this? How did you handle it?

i’m 15 ,16 in march….i only hit puberty like during the summer …have not got virtually any under arm hair..have pubes.and nt much hair on my legs..my penis is 6" erect at the moment…will this grow bigger…aparently my dad has a big penis,he always braggs and his girlfriend seems to agree..lol(i look alot like him,and have same facial features as him,ilook alot like him any way) … will my penis get any bigger and by how much???

thanks
im 5ft 9..

Women have never controlled sex, but since the mid-90’s, I am beginning to think that they may be getting a tighter grasp on it, like they are with everything else in Humanity!

Are there any Men who understand that there are "NO ADVANTAGES" to Penis enlargement? The only one that benefits is the female!

It has been a growing trend since the mid 90’s for Men to enlarge their penis to fulfill the sexual desires of their lovers. This medical technology has existed for quite some time, but it is fascinating that it became popular around the same time as the rise of 3rd Wave Feminism!

I wouldn’t be surprised if Feminists were conspiring together and these supplements were perilous to Men’s Health. Perhaps they are using them to slowly kill off the entire male population!

Here are the effects of Penis enlargement for both sexes:

Male

- Slower ambulation

- Decreased flexibility

- Clothing more limited

* No increased sexual pleasure

- Health risks
Females

- Capacity to control sex and relationship

- Increased sexual pleasure

- Supreme bliss

I have drawn a plan to have many Cosmetic Enhancements executed on myself in the future, Penis enlargement is not one of them.

I do not have procedures for my girlfriend’s sexual fulfillment, not that nay of my past girlfriends have had any complaints!

Feminists, please don’t give me any predictable answers, my penis is of an average size, and I am content with what I was given.

And if you ask me how I know these things if I haven’t attempted Penis enlargement?

Infomercials………
Bigger doesn’t mean better! Where did you get that notion from a 6 year old child or a Feminist.

I am a male and I would feel violated if my penis were enlarged.

I hold more confidence with smaller genitals!

Power to smaller genitals and less to the Women that hat them!

Suffice to say, other than you partner, who is going to care about this dramatical change?
zxt – Women did nothing to deserve those rights, Men granted you those rights, and they can just as easily take them away – get over it!
aguis152 – your answer is opinionated, thus flawed.

If I had a large penis I would have it reduced in size for my own well-being.

End of story.
Echo – 4-19 – Vaginal tightening does not have as much exposure as Penis enlargement, so I rest my point.

And Black males have proven themselves useful in many trades in which they can outperform white males.

The NBA for example would be nothing without them. While the WNBA is the most hated franchise of all time because Women are athletically limited.

If it were a gymnasium of Black Women, I would very well do just that.

And you just reinforced my point, the Feminist movement is comprised of mere defenseless Women.

End of Story.

Herbal Sex Boosters

Woody Allen’s late 1970s film Love and Death was eerily prophetic, if in name alone, about the Viagra dilemma. The drug enables many men to achieve an erection and regain lost sexual function, but it can also exact a stiff penalty from users. The Food and Drug Administration has reported dozens of deaths among Viagra users. This seems an unnecessarily severe side effect. Concerns about the drug have spurred interest in effective, natural aphrodisiacs without deleterious side effects. Responding to this interest, I set off for the Amazon rain forest in search of sex-enhancing plants. I traveled in the company of a Brazilian shaman named Bernie Peixoto, a man skilled in tribal wisdom and the use of plant medicines. There in the world’s greatest jungle, we encountered two potent sex-boosting plants with a long history of safe use.

Our flight into Brazil put us into the Amazon city of Manaus, where we met with Antonio Matas, the most highly respected herbalist in that area. Antonio shared stories with us about his decades of healing work using rain-forest plants.

Catuaba and Muirapuama: Sex Enhancers?

“What about catuaba and muirapuama?” I inquired. “Are they really effective sex enhancers, or is that just a myth?” He laughed at the question and spread his hands wide open. “There is nothing that compares with catuaba and muirapuama together. I can tell you, I have used these plants with hundreds of people. The old become sexually young again. I have seen impotent men who can have sex for the first time in years. Even healthy couples find that these plants put extra fire in their sex life. These plants are good for men and women.”

I asked Antonio if he used these plants himself. He smiled again. “Sometimes. After all, I’ve been married to the same woman for 43 years.”

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Premature Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation (PE) is the most common sexual dysfunction in men younger than 40 years. Most professionals who treat premature ejaculation define this condition as the occurrence of ejaculation prior to the wishes of both sexual partners. This broad definition thus avoids specifying a precise duration for sexual relations and reaching a climax, which is variable and depends on many factors specific to the individuals engaging in intimate relations. An occasional instance of premature ejaculation might not be cause for concern, but, if the problem occurs with more than 50% of attempted sexual relations, a dysfunctional pattern usually exists for which treatment may be appropriate.

To clarify, a male may reach climax after 8 minutes of sexual intercourse, but this is not premature ejaculation if his partner regularly climaxes in 5 minutes and both are satisfied with the timing. Another male might delay his ejaculation for a maximum of 20 minutes, yet he may consider this premature if his partner, even with foreplay, requires 35 minutes of stimulation before reaching climax. If intercourse is the method of sexual stimulation for the second example and the male climaxes after 20 minutes of intercourse and then loses his erection, satisfying his partner (at least with intercourse), who needs 35 minutes to climax, is impossible.

Because many females are unable to reach climax at all with vaginal intercourse (no matter how prolonged), this situation may actually represent delayed orgasm for the female partner rather than premature ejaculation for the male; the problem can be either or both, depending on the point of view. This highlights the importance of obtaining a thorough sexual history from the patient (and preferably from the couple).

The human sexual response can be divided into 3 phases: desire (libido), excitement (arousal), and orgasm. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition (DSM-IV) classifies sexual disorders into 4 categories: (1) primary, (2) general medical condition–related, (3) substance-induced, and (4) not otherwise specified. Each of the 4 DSM-IV categories has disorders in all 3 sexual phases.

Premature ejaculation may be primary or secondary. Primary applies to individuals who have had the condition since they became capable of functioning sexually (ie, postpuberty). Secondary indicates that the condition began in an individual who previously experienced an acceptable level of ejaculatory control, and, for unknown reasons, he began experiencing premature ejaculation later in life. With secondary premature ejaculation, the problem does not relate to a general medical disorder, and it is usually not related to substance inducement, although, rarely, hyperexcitability might relate to a psychotropic drug and resolves when the drug is withdrawn. Premature ejaculation fits best into the category of not otherwise specified because no one really knows what causes it, although psychological factors are suggested in most cases.

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My girlfriend wants to have an orgasm. We have tried everything. I don’t know what else to try. Please help me.

My girlfriend said the last guy she was with had a bigger penis. I dont know what prompted her to say that but now I feel very insecure. First I feel like I’m not "man enough" for her and then I get a nasty feeling at the pit of my stomach knowing she handled another guy’s penis.
PS:
I never was insecure about my penis. It’s normal but apparently this guy was huge.

i was fingering my girlfriend and things were going good. after some time she started to get the feeling, she would get so close but wouldn’t reach an orgasm. idk what to do and i feel bad that i cant pleasure her, dose any1 have any tips?

So today I was fingering my girlfriend while eating her out, and she seemed to enjoy it A LOT more than usual (more moans, arching back, longer). After a while a noticed her vagina was very very wet all of the sudden (more than usual). By the time we stopped, I noticed a white-like fluid/substance on the ground in a couple spots where her vagina was. So I assume she came. She also says she didn’t have an orgasm, however she has never had one before to tell. When I asked her what that stuff was, she said she didn’t know. Usually she never reacts like how she did today, so I think I might have given her maybe a mini orgasm without her knowing. Is this possible? Did she have one or not? If she came does that mean she had one? Thanks!
She now says it’s discharge and it was nothing. But she’s never done that before while being fingered. Is she right? And if she is right, any tips on making her orgasm?

ok so my girlfriend and me have been having sex for over 5 months and i still haven’t been able to give her an orgasm unless she is on top. She says she never has been able to have one unless she is on top but she says im the best so far pleasing her sexually. So how can i give her an orgasm without me being on top or fingering her because she doesnt like it?

Last night i was talking with my girlfriend and at one point she just stared into my eyes for a like 15 seconds without saying anything, so i stared back. I started getting a stiffy. Then we started talking again but the sucker wouldn’t go soft. And then like 10 minutes later she started staring again so i stared back and then i felt like i was going crazy and orgasmed and ejaculated in my pants. Is that normal if all were doing is talking and looking at each other?

your girlfriend and her man live in the same house.
The boyfriend sees that he is abusive and you will potentially open your friend’s eyes by telling her the truth.
The boyfriend tells you to not come to the house.
Your girlfriend always cover her man!
do you think that the friendship will ever be the same?
It is better to step back! Do u feel the same way?

I can’t remember the name of the movie, but the guy is locked in jail, and during a visit or something his girlfriend comes in and she’s all rubbing up against the window, and he’s like licking the window or something. What is that movie called?! It’s going to drive me insane.

I say (real life) because I have pursued girls on chatting sites… but nothing that "deep" has every developed just chats and nothing more.

It wasn’t ALWAYS this way. In kindergarten I played around with one girl in my class, tickled her, talked with her at nap time… etc…

In 1st grade, I sat next to this one girl everyday at the lunch table. I remember my young self saying "Be my girlfriend!" to her and while a kid or 2 made fun of me in class saying he likes her hahaha, it had no effect on me. My desire was to have her as my friend. I never thought girls had "cooties" and all that. Even in 2nd grade, my best friend told me not to talk to this one girl in my class even though I wanted to.

I had a crush on a girl in nearly every grade – especially this one girl in 5th grade (Though by this time, for whatever reason- I was shy and whatnot)

Well this "shyness" went with me a LONGGG way- It came with me all the way through middle school and all the way into high school. My hygeine was horrible all throughout high school- (I got my act together somewhat in 12th grade) I had greasy hair, never used deodorant, never got into the whole "axe" body spray phase that other guys got into. For whatever reason, I didn’t really start taking consideration of making a serious change until 12th grade.

Admitingly – I might attribute some of this bad hygeine to how my life at home was getting kind of rough- Being forced to move out of my house, moving in with an ill family member, under stress on a daily basis. The bathroom was filthy in my house that I didn’t even want to step into the slimy bathtub at times.

So finally- 18 yrs old and going into college- I get a sense of style- pick up my act, get some nice clothes, and go right into my community college. Well, nothing has changed much in my social life since I’ve began college. (I still live at home btw)- I still have no female friends, and the thing is… at this moment in time- There is NO girl I have my eye on.

I look at everyone in all my classes and there’s no one I really care to talk to. As a result, I often feel isolated in my journey of life, I’m used to being a lone wolf tho and it has it’s advantages like being able to stand on your own two feet, thinking for yourself etc…

The thing is: I know exactly why no one really cares for me, – I’m quiet, I might appear weird looking to some people, I’m just… weird overall. I mean, I could change and conform to be something I’m not in order to make friends, get girlfriends etc. I know it’s very possible.

But I don’t want to. I’m a stern believer in being yourself through thick and thin and never loosing that sense of who you are, why you think the way you do and all that jazz. I just want someone to like me for who I am- I mean I guess it’s true.

I could ramble on some more but I guess you get my point. I guess I’m ugly as they come and I need to suck it up, deal with it and move on I suppose.
And if I’m not "ugly" then why am I in this predicament today?

I have no friends, no female friends, never did, wonder if I ever will.

I don’t have a girlfriend and never married. I’m 36. Maybe I should start going to the gym for bodybuilding and gets to the size of Hulk Hogan or Ronnie Coleman. If I have big guns like 24 inch arm, would that helps attract a woman or make a woman come to me and gets rid of her boyfriend if she had one?

My Girlfriend has told me that she has never had a orgasm in her life not with any guy in the past or anything. I would like to be the first to give her one but I just need to know how to help her get one,. Ive had no problems in the past with girls and giving them orgasms. I could be giving her Oral for extended periods of times and shes having a great time but no orgams and even with intercourse no luck. Can there be a way?

the other day i was at my friends house and her brother didnt know anybody was home so he was having sex with his girlfriend upstairs. and all me and my friend heard was the girl moaning so loud. haha, awkward but funny. but why must all couples be so loud while doing it? Is it possible for them to be quiet?

im tryin to give my girlfriend an orgasm basically, in the past ive given girls orgasms without even trying but dis new one is almost impossible. Im having trouble finding her clitoris and everything, is there like some sort of rule of thumb i need to kno to actually stroke the clitoris?

every time my girlfriend comes over and we make out, that same night i have a dream about her and it bothers me because i cant sleep or constantly wake up. i remember i always think shes with me next to me and if i don’t talk to her she wont like me any more. these only happen the days she comes over. its weird and i cant stop it. any advice on how to avoid or stop these weird sleep experiences? its kind of like a sleep walk without me getting up. it sucks please help.

i feel that women are all the way acting as if they’re at their orgasm, but they actullay dont
How can i make sure that my girlfriend isnt doning it

My boyfriend and I were engadged until 2 years ago. He gave me his old phone. So his girlfriend called me thinking that it was his phone and asked on the machine "I am looking foward to tomorrow night" I was so angry I dumped him. It turned out him and his girlfriend were just going to the mall to buy something for a friend of theirs birthday. Than 2 years later I am pregnant and he calls me and says, "I love u and please dont leave me" I told him I was desperate for him too. Then we were on dates and than I went on vacation. I came back and he calls and asks whats new. I told him "You didnt know before. And now I am scared to go to a date. I am 2 months pregnant." Than now we are married, but he doesnt seem very happy that I am do next month. Does he love me?

The other day, me and my girlfriend were in bed. We decided to play with each other She has never had an orgasm before. But I was fingering her and rubbing her clitoris and she was giving me a handjob under the quilt cover. All of a sudden, she went into her own little world and just kept saying "Faster" Faster" "Harder" etc… She seemed to be having an orgasm. Afterwards, about half an hour later she was feeling tired and lost her appetite towards her dinner. Did I give her her first orgasm?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year now (I’m 19 and shes 17) and we like having sex to make each other feel good and its a good physical way to connect. Although she never complains about not having an orgasm during sex, it makes me feel like I’m doing something wrong. We both have only had sex with one person (eachother) so its not like she was having them before me. I can give her an orgasm during oral sex pretty easy but it just never happens during sex. Is there something I can do or is it a mental thing that she has to overcome? I’m 8 inches and can last a long time, if that answers anything about size or about of time. Thanks for the help!

I want to make dinner for my girlfriend tonight, I would love to make steak. Have this in mind, I have no knowledge when it comes to making dinner, so please help. I’ve seen steak in packages at the grocery store, are those the ones im suppose to buy? how do i marinate? how do i cook it? oven, pan?? how long?and what is the best side for it, potatoes? how do i do that? I just want a good and tasty dinner. Let me know. Thanks

My girlfriend can only have 4 orgasm in a given "sitting," if you will, and then experiences what she describes as "going numb." The "going numb" is actually not numbness, but that tingly feeling a person experiences when their arm or foot is coming out of being asleep. When she starts feeling this, she is no longer able to achieve, so whatever we are doing generally wraps up quickly.

Four orgasms might seem like a fine number to stop at, but we both prefer to keep things fresh, interesting, and non-mundane, so having a limit is an issue. Also foreplay is a big part of our intimacy, so her limit can approach quite quickly, undesirably so… especially considering I like to give more than receive.

If anyone knows why shes experiences this tingling sensation, ways around it etc. (any information at all) would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!

My Mum approached me after I spent the weekend with my girlfriend, and asked me if there was anything I needed to tell her. I came out to her, and she said she’d guessed ages ago, she was just waiting for me to tell her. She was completely fine with it, apart from crying the next day about it. She keeps asking me questions, and although I try and answer them, they make me feel uncomfortable. She makes me feel like an alien, when I’m still the same person. She’s now trying to make me come out to the rest of my family, particularly my Dad, and won’t listen to me when I tell her I’m not ready. What can I do? I just want to be treated how I used to be.

it eats at me daily..

first of all, i cant get over the fact that my girlfriend lost her virginity to one of her exs(a couple of years back) i know full, detailed descriptions of what happened, i know what the guy looks like, the couch that it happened on, the floor that it happened on(it happened twice) and i cant stop thinking about it..i can tell that the guy used her, he would try and get her to all the time (kissing her, asking her, just trying all the time)and finally she gave in one day..well she said that they went for about 2 hours(just an estimate)..well she said that she had an orgasm(i asked her how she knew and she said she could just tell)the second time they did it, she was at his house(and again she didnt want to)she told me that he asked her again but this time when she said no he asked "wat, am i not important enough?" and she said no. he said "but you already let me before" and he also told her to take down her her and when she replied "why?" he said "it gets on my nerves(these are just little details that make me believe he never cared for her)but she eventually let him that day(on the floor) and she said that they went for about 15 minutes(again, an estimate.no orgasm)

well that was about 2 years ago, she was 12, she is now 14..we have had sex THIRTEEN times now and i have yet to make her cum..i dont like to think that he was better than me because it hurts, and she tells me all of the time that I AM better..but i cant put it together because i HAVNT made her cum..and the longest we’ve gone is around an hour(estimate)..we have been together for awhile now and I LOVE HER TO DEATH..and i know i should be able to get over this small thing but i just cant..i cant stop thinking about that..i love her and just want to put it in the past and be able to satisfy her..please if anybody has any answers that are REALLY trying to help, please help me..if you’re going to be rude, then dont bother, please..i just want to know if there is any reasons WHY i cant make her..other than it JUST being me whenever she SWEARS that im better..

(and i know that i SHOULDNT know all of those details, but i had to literally beg them out of her because i was uncomfortable for some reason NOT knowing)

how am i supposed to get a girlfriend with this?!!?!?!

Me and my girlfriend are gonna spend some time together tomorrow. Every time we get together, we end up romantically kissing at least once, should I ask her to have sex or something? I was thinking to ask her if she wants to let me give her her first orgasm, she seems to like the idea herself, but how can I get my girlfriend horny enough? I mean she doesn’t even know what its like to get excited, let alone have an orgasm! How should I explain it to her? And how should I get her horny enough to start liking me touching her etc…? Can you please give a detailed answer if possible. Max Points for best answer!

I have a girlfriend of mine that I have known for years and she really opens up to me, she says she would never marry a guy with a small penis or be in a long time relationship with him, she tells me that marriage is for life and that she is not going to marry someone that is not going to satisfy her in bed but that she would make up any excuse not to hurt his feelings, do girls really do that?

My girlfriend has told me she will never visit my family that lives about 1300 miles away (in the northeast) because that part of the country is too full of a@#holes. My GF and nuclear family had a bad first meeting and my sister insulted her, so I understand how hard it may be for her. But, I have a huge extended Italian family that I love and am proud of, and would love to show off our relationship to them. We have dated for over 2 years and her opinion does not seem to be changing. We may have recently come to a tenuous agreement that I am allowed to visit, but she will never go with me. Does anyone have a suggestion on how to give her the choice to make an effort to meet my family? How long should I wait to ask her to go up north? Should I never ask, and just let her come around on her own?

Hello, I would like to make my philippine girlfriend come for a 3 weeks holiday to Brussels, Belgium and so I would like to know if "Last Minute" type plane tickets exist in the Philippines or other countries with limited means like this one. The objective would be to make her pay her ticket as cheap as possible as she’s not very wealthy. Thanks in advance for your acute answer. Simon T. PS: If you know about it, can you please tell me how "Last Minute" plane tickets work over there ?

My girlfriend can’t have an orgasm. She claims that she has never been able to get off during sex. The only time she can get off is if she masturbates. Is there anything different we can try? I wanted to know if anyone else has encountered this experience and what they did to fix it? I have tried to get her to open up to me and let me know what I can do to help, she finds this to be embarassing. I don’t believe it to be my duration or size. Are there other positions, toys, or lube that we could try? I find this to be frustrating for me considering after sex I am fulfilled, yet she is not… I need some suggestions please.
We have tried oral and she keeps telling me how it tickles and she pushes my head away.
To answer the age question, she is 22.

My girlfriend seems to orgasm very quickly and easily after just a few minutes stimulating her vagina on the outside i.e. on her clit! But not only this she seems to squirt every time without fail and this succession of orgasms and squirts can go on for a long while. She normally needs a few minutes after to relax and regain herself and then the bed sheets need changed. I love it!!! But…

I am confused a little cause I read that female ejaculation is most commonly brought on after G-Spot stimulation and orgasm.

I also start to doubt if what is happening to her is really a [proper] orgasm due to the regular occurrence and the fact that I can still stimulate the clit after each orgasm without it being too sensitive, although the contractions are still there (short but sweet ;-) ) and she does assure me they are orgasms.

Does anyone else have this experience?

So my girlfriend has been off with her family in southern missouri for the past several days. She has been having a rough time with them. How do I make her feel special and important when she comes back…I need some fresh original ideas…thank you sooooo much!!

My girlfriend enjoys having orgasms and I love helping her reach them. One interesting thing is that she kind of shuts down after her orgasm is done. It’s more like a guy I guess… "OK…. I’m done, now get off…" Now it is not really THAT drastic, however we both joke about how it is very similar to that statement. So I guess I am wondering if that is a common experience. We have thought that maybe there are some unconscience thoughts that occur after orgasm that cause the shut down.

So what do you think. Not like we are stressing out over this situation….more like just interested in what others think here…

Please be nice!

Thanks!

Me and my girlfriend are 16 and 18, we have recently been trying to give each other orgasm by touching each other (e.g. hanjobs and fingering etc…) My GF has never had an orgasm, but yesterday, we were trying to make each other come and I think she did. She went onto sort of a trance and wanted me to rub faster and faster and then faster and harder. She seemed to be having an orgasm. Has she had her first orgasm?

me and my boyfriend broke up about 4 days ago and we still talk on the phone like friends. he said that he doesnt want a girlfriend but he still loves me!!! so what things can i do or say to get him to come back to me??? we might go to the movies this weekend if he doesnt have to work!!! i only want honest answers please!!!

As we all know, Christmas is coming up. I want to make my girlfriend something special, but I can’t for the life of me think of anything to do. She is fairly outdoorsy and loves flowers. I know she’ll like anything I give her, but I’d still like to give something memorable, any ideas?

i liked this guy in my class. to make a long story short i asked him out via text meassage… he said he wasnt interested… then he was just using me for he amusement.. he would invite all the guys from the grade over and text me (witout me knowing the guys were there) so he said that he had a girlfriend so i was kinda jelous he sent me a picture of a brunnette 20 year old in her underwear… (were 13) i was like "uhhh shes like 10 years older than you for one and she looks like a porn star" then he started acting like he was offended saying "she used to be slutty then i told her to stop" i said "ohhh.." so then just now i was typing stuff on google and i came across the same exact picture of this woman that he claims to be his "girlfriend" (like that would ever happen) and im sooo mad.. because he made me believe he had a girlfriend.. and come to find out the boys were being little pervs and forwarding this pic of a "hot girl" to eachother and they used it to hurt my feeling… school is in 4 days and im gunna be th laughing stock… i actually liked this loser.. and it hurts

See me and my ex are on the kickin it basis. We were together for a year then we broke up. I still love him and I know he still loves me, but how can I get him to come back to me? We always talk and I’ve asked him if he would ever go back out with me or if he thought that there could be an "US" again and he said he hopes so. We hangout all the time and we do things that couples do, but he doesn’t consider me his girlfriend again. He tells everyone that we are still dating but when I ask him, he says no. I don’t know what to do. I have answered a lot of questions like this but the advice I have given out, doesn’t help me. So if you have anything that you could possibly think of that may help me, please tell me.
We broke up because we didn’t have time for one another. I was always working and was in school and he was working. He isn’t working as much and I’m finished with school. We now have more time for each other and we are hanging out all the time.

My girlfriend seems to orgasm very quickly and easily after just a few minutes stimulating her vagina on the outside i.e. on her clit! But not only this she seems to squirt every time without fail and this succession of orgasms and squirts can go on for a long while. She normally needs a few minutes after to relax and regain herself and then the bed sheets need changed. I love it!!! But…

I am confused a little cause I read that female ejaculation is most commonly brought on after G-Spot stimulation and orgasm.

I also start to doubt if what is happening to her is really a [proper] orgasm due to the regular occurrence and the fact that I can still stimulate the clit after each orgasm without it being too sensitive, although the contractions are still there (short but sweet ;-) ) and she does assure me they are orgasms.

Does anyone else have this experience?

So my girlfriend is bi-polar…she has gone through different medications since she was diagnosed…she is 21 years old…the problem is weve been together for about a month and for some reason she cant reach orgasm when we have sex.. she has told me in the past she hasnt had a problem while on other medication and she thinks it might have something to do with the tegretol… now at first i thought it was just me not being good in bed but ive never had a problem before with any other girl and i dont have a small penis…weve talked about it and the more it seems like it has to do with the medication..we are both not doctors and she never asked her doctor when she started taking the medication if it would affect her that way…also since she started taking this medication she says she hasnt had an orgasm since…which also makes me believe its the medication and not me..weve tried many different sexual things and nothing works..she just cant finish..is anyone familar with this med??

My girlfriend wants to come visit me from U.K for valentine’s. She also wants to go on a vac. for 10 days,but i cant afford it cause we just had a month long vacation in Europe.I understand that this day is very special to her and she is doing this to make me happy, but what do i say to my employer.. Also i cant even afford one cause the previous one has drained almost all my savings.I tried to tell her all this, but she is not ready to listen and is throwing tantrums saying that i dont love her. Now we are not on talking terms and i really want her to understand me cause i love her a lot and i dont want her to be sad ……. please help!

My Girlfriend and I have been having sex for a little over a month now. The problem is that every time we do she winds up having to get herself off after we’re done. I’ve tried everything from straight intercourse to oral, anal, fingering, toys, etc, but nothing works for her except her own touch. I’ve never had problems in the bedroom before, and she has told me that this is the way it’s always been for her. None of her other lovers have ever been able to give her an orgasm either. At first I thought it was just a matter of time, and that as we got more comfortable things would get better. But that hasn’t happened and we’re both getting really frustrated. Tonight we got in a big fight because she didn’t want to have sex, saying "it’s not worth it, you can’t get me off anyway". What can I do???

my girlfriend has never orgasmed before and gets upset with it she said that she just never gets horny and doesnt know what turns her on. when she told me this it was a huge blow to my self esteem but is there anyone out there that has had this same problem and overcome it? and can you give me any pointers that i can pass on to her or try with her?

My girlfriend and I have been getting rather intimate lately. Now, I’m not the first guy she’s had sex with but she claims that she’s never orgasmed in her life.

I’ve had some experience with digital stimulation (fingering), but it’s been a good while since. So, I just need some advice and maybe a few pointers.

I know where her G-Spot is and everything but I’m afraid it’s a matter of technique.

What’s the "proper" or most "effective" technique down there?

My ex and I broke up about 4 weeks ago and he got a girlfriend and it’s bugging me so bad & I want him back so bad. Today he & I hung out all day. Everyone was asking if we were back together. He gave me his jacket & flirted with me, & I did back. We had a deep conversation about what we missed about our relationship & I just can’t take not having him anymore. How do I deal with it or how can I try and tell him that I want him back?

If I’m alone and pleasuring myself I am able to "finish" fairly quickly. However when I am with my girlfriend it feels a lot better but it takes a lot longer too. Sometimes if she’s just giving me oral sex I want to not take all day and have trouble having an orgasm… any tips?

Ok I went down on my girlfriend and she I mad her have a orgasm once before and she said she never came that much. Well i went down on her again and nothing happend help me out

I feel very depressed and blue and just not feeling good because I don’t have a girlfriend on valentine’s day. To be honest, I’ve never had a girlfriend at all in my life and I’ve never dated anybody at all. I’m 19 years old and my life feels very depressing and I can’t stop feeling depressed. I don’t know if it’s because I’m Vietnamese but no girls is interested in me. I’ve once had a crush on this cute Chinese girl back in my high school junior year and some people had to ruin it for me by spreading rumors that i was gay when I’m not. She then walked away from me and never spoked to me again and even changed high schools the next school year. I’ve spent my lunch money buying flowers for her on Valentine’s Day and that is how she treated me. I feel very miserable and depressed because I don’t have a girlfriend and it upsets me when I’m out and I see couples having a great time. People often assumes that I’m gay because I still don’t have a girlfriend at this age, It gets very annoying. Also, Vietnamese new year happens to be on the same day as Valentine’s Day this year and in our culture we must not fight or make arguments on Chinese New Year Day. I’m really afraid I might cause problems tomorrow because of my depression, I’m not even in the mood for Vietnamese New Year because of my depression. I really wished I had a Girlfriend to be with. What should I do to make myself feel better because I don’t have a girlfriend on Valentine’s Day ?? How come people think that I’m gay when I’m not If I don’t have a girlfriend ??? Can anyone please help me out ??? Sometimes I feel like I don’t have any purpose on this world. I feel very depressed and I’m scared I might result doing some things I might regret doing. Please give me some help here I’m begging for your help !!!!

so me and my girlfriend love each other a lot and were planing on marrying each other. we do have fun with each other and we both love doing it to each other but i cant tell if she is orgasming. when i start fingering her she is already wet like really wet, and then when we keep going it starts to get more rough kinda like not as wet then she will get really really wet, more then before is she orgasming

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 year now an are fully sexually active. She has been with 9 guys in her past and i have been with 16 girls. We are very open with each other with our Fantasy’s. Recently she admitted to me she was curious about a bigger penis, Now she has had guys that were bigger then me but she really didnt feel anything with them. Im of average size im happy with what I have, Im about 7" lil shy just a lil, We got to talking and I asked her what size she wanted, she sayed she wants a penis thats about 2 and a half of her hands which comes out to about 2 inches more then what I am….She claims that its just curiousity and that she doesnt need it…but she did cheat on her last boyfriend with 4 different guys because he wasnt doing it for her in bed…Now is there something i should be worried about. She says im the first guy to ever get her off like she can and she loves having sex with me! Its just those words that keep eating at me! She has had a big penis before but it didnt work for her, she just wants to know what it feels like to a guy with a big penis who knows how to work it….sorry im rambling its late. But my questions being should I full fill her fantasy an let her have this big penis, make it a threesome? If that guy gets her off better then me how am I suppose to feel having sex with her every night? Its that I love the girl an never want to lose! just need some advice ha ha

I have a friend and his girlfriend coming over for dinner.?
I dont know what to make..something with chicken, corn on the cob, hot n spicy..any ideas…something cultural too.

Well, I have had sex with 10 woman and made 6 of them climax but for some reason with my girlfriend of 4 months I just keep falling short and I don’t know why. I last for usually 45 minutes to a little over an hour practically every session. I know multiple positions, I’m in shape, I’m a good looking guy, I have a 6.75 inch tool if you know what I mean, and I have been looking up ways to make her finish for like 2 months now but to no avail. I’m very confident in my body I know I don’t have the biggest dick or know all the right moves but hell I know a lot and I have been fine with all the other girls I have been with aside from this girl and a few one night stands. The thing is that I really care about this girl more than any of my prior relationships I really just want to make her happy and feel great but for some reason I can’t! During intercourse I know she likes it because she stays VERY wet down there for the entire hour we are having sex but I can never push her over the top….I looked up new positions and I was going to try were she gets in the bathtub with a removable shower head and puts that on her C-spot while shes in my lap and I just enter her from behind. Maybe that will work…any advice is very appreciated. Oh, and shes not the type that just doesn’t finish at all…she has finished 2 times before we started dating…She tells me its not me and that she just hardly ever finishes which is how it has been for her in the past but I’m sure theirs a way I can get to her.

i just got a busty girlfriend, but realize that she seldom reaches orgasm whenever we make love.

I love my girlfriend with every breathe in my body, and when it comes to having sex, I want to be able to know that she’s enjoying it more than I am…

She says that it hurts when we first start having sex, but after about five mins. she says it starts to feel pleasurable. And to be really honest, I feel like she is saying it to make me feel like im not doing so bad.
She is my first sexual partner, and I hope that she is going to be my only, as I feel she is "the one"

I know that it is all about how she feels as well as how I feel…
How ever, I feel like im not giving her any pleasure what so ever.

When I am playing with her vagina, she says I make her weak in her knees and that she really likes it!

I just want some tips whilst we are actually having sex.

Is there anyone who can help me?

Who knew that sexual experiences could be so confusing?
lol

My Girlfriend has a Big Butt!!!

my girlfriend came off birth control because she didn’t have her monthly dosage so she has to wait for her period before she can start again. we’ve had sex a couple times since she went off it but we’ve been careful and used condoms. but now my brother, father and I have all noticed that she has "the glow" i was wondering if coming off birth control can give this same glow or if i should be worried?

Today i was fingering my girlfriend and she had her first orgasm ever and fainted and when she woke up she couldn’t remember anything is this normal?

My daughter gets very upset because his girlfriend comes along with us to have dinner or maybe a movie. I can understand her because she feels ignored. We ask her to maybe invite a friend or cousin but she does not want to. What can we do to alleviate tension, she sometimes even cries. In front of my son’s girlfriend she will make comments like "why does she have to come". Any suggestions???

Then what?
I have feelings for girls, I’ve only been in love with girls, I fantasize about girls but when it comes to sex, when I masterbate or have sex dreams its always with men.
I’ve never kissed a guy in my dream though or shared a intimate moment with a guy in my dreams, only with girls but when it comes to sex its only with guys and my previous girlfriend was very submissive and even though i loved f****** her, at the end of the day it just wasnt enough that she wasnt giving all that back.
So what does this mean for me…have I just not met the right girl yet or am I bisexual?
Thinking of having sex with a guy in real life turns my stomach but its ok in fantasies and dreams.
If you have anything rude to say, dont bother.

my girlfriend pulled my hair really hard, stopped breathing a bit, and moaned at the highest pitch ive ever heard her before , but she never seemed to release or want to stop. she just wanted to keep going. did she have an orgasm? she said shes pretty sure she did but im not sure.

Okay so i have been asking my girlfriend to come with me to my grandmas every wednesday for over a year and 3 months. my whole family goes every wednesday for dinner (bout 15-18 anyway), and im big on family and she knows it would make me happy, but she refuses to come be cause she says "its to much pressure". she even starts to get a little fiesty now when i ask her to come shes met most of them before at a different family function, but wednesday nights are different its the whole family together? am i in the wrong for getting upset or is she for getting fiesty?

when my girlfriend and i have sex i always try to make sure she enjoys it as much as i but when it gets to the point were she is about to orgasm she screams no and pushes me away , she says she doesnt really understand why it just gets to much for her, i suggested using restraints but she starts to cry if we push it to much, anyone else experienced anything like this

please no horrible comments

Me and my girlfriend have been through a bad patch lately and have just started talking again, we are not properly back together yet but she is coming round my house tomorrow night and I want to make her feel good and want to stay with me the night and not go home, can you help with ideas on how I can make it nice for us?

My girlfriend said when she was having an orgasm she felt something warm. I did not finish inside of her.

When we were done i pulled out and 20 seconds later i finished by myself. I checked the condom to make sure it was ok by blowing it up. Is it possible that she could have gotten pregnant?

I just wanna know how you feel if you cant make your girlfriend come during sex because I have a new boyfriend and we’ve had sex afew times but so far he hasnt been able to make me come and last night he got really pissed offand told me if it carries on this way we’re goin to have to break up because its not fair on me. Im just trying to get an idea of how he felt because he refused to discuss it last night and also, would you break up with a girl if you couldnt make her come? cheers lads xx

I have problems with my dad’s wife, and her two kids. But, because we decided to make the effort to get along, my relationship with both my brother and sister has grown and been very good.

My brother, however, has a girlfriend, who I was once good friends with. When I got engaged, I asked her to be a bridesmaid, and she said yes. We spent A LOT of time together and hung out a lot while my husband was away in basic training.

Well, out of the blue, I couldn’t get in contact with her anymore. Any text or call I tried to make came back saying the number was invalid. Then, my car got wrecked, and I have not gotten a new one yet. So it’s not like I could just go to her house and talk to her.

I saw her once at my dad’s, but her and my brother went into his bedroom, and I had enough sense not to interrupt, and they weren’t out by the time I left.

NONE of my family likes her. My dad HATES her, his wife hates her, my sister is annoyed with her anytime she is near, and even all the grandparents barely tolerate her. I was her only friend for a very long time, because I felt awful that she was so unliked in the family. I had no problems with her. She could just get annoying. I can get past that.

I had my wedding, without her or my brother, because I could not contact them. I sent an invitation to her house. I sent an invitation to my entire immediate family at my dad’s.

Then, I start hearing from friends that she is talking bad about me behind my back. I live in a small town. It’s what happens. Anything you say is heard by the whole town.

So, I make the extra effort and catch her online, and send her an IM. Here’s the convo:

me:hey. i need to talk to you.

her:k.

me:i keep hearing youre mad at me bc you think you didn’t get an invite to my wedding or that i didn’t want you to be a bridesmaid. hun, i sent an invite to you and your mom and kevin. idk, maybe i had the address wrong or something, but i copied it down from the fedex thing with the pics we did in Oklahoma. and i did try to send you texts asking you if you still wanted to be a bridesmaid, but they kept coming back saying invalid number.

her: look not to be mean but no i didnt get an invite it was just so rude when you told me to be a brides mad you cange your colors then you dont tell me when the wedding was and you kno where i was living you could have came to my house if you couldnt get me on the fone but you didnt try so…..idk wat to tell you im hurt and a simple appology isnt goin to cut it. you really hurt my feelings. ive been living at dustins and you saw me at mrs denas house like 3 times since then and you didnt even say a simple sorry or nothing.
ive got to go ive been stayin in the trailer at dustins you want me to forgive you come appoligies to me in person not through a text or im.

me:excuse me, but there is nothing to apologize about. i did nothing out of meaness to you. i only saw you ONE TIME at my dads, and you and dustin went into the bedroom, so i let you be. so you can continue to be bitter about this if you want, but my conscious is clean, bc i know i never did anything wrong or anything that was out of meaness. and by the way, I HAVE NO CAR. so, NO, i could not have come to your house, THANK YOU.

My conscious is clean, but now I’m so angry! I have the right to change my own wedding colors, first of all. That’s a minor thing in this dispute. My main thing is that now I don’t know what to do, because I KNOW she is the reason my brother won’t talk to me anymore, and I have no idea what to do. I’m at my wits end, and I’d love to just beat the hell out of her, but she would win, no doubt.

What do I do!? I can’t talk to her or him!

Whenever my girlfriend and I are trying to get her to reach orgasm we always fall short. Whether it be by fingers or intercourse, it seems as she gets closer and closer to climax she gets louder and louder and wiggles more and more, but it’s as if once she’s just about to she pulls away. Usually she says something along the lines of "it feels too good" or that "she can’t handle it".

Of course we continue until I reach my climax, but this leaves me wondering whether it was something I did wrong and feeling inadequate. Plus it makes me feel selfish, as if I receive of the pleasure while she gets none.

Anybody have any comments//suggestions?

I met a great guy and I am wondering when the time will come to make it exclusive. Is there anything I can say or do to subtly get him to make me his girlfriend?

I was fingering my girlfriend during a movie, and after a while she closed her eyes, pulled her legs together tightly and slowly slid out my finger.
Does this sound like she orgasmed?

Thanks!
Im certain its not that she wanted me to stop, because she got me to finger her again later in the movie.

And come to think of it i think i pulley my finger out:D.
oh haha it wasnt in a theatre, we were at my place:D

I would love to see another man smelling and licking my girlfriend’s feet for a few minutes, which is totally harmless, but she doesn’t want to, she says is too weird, but that’s exactly what makes it hotter, I swear its just that, how can I convince her ?

Is there any way ?? I been thinking about a friend doing that while she is sleeping, but that’s not what I want, I want her to agree on this.

Thank You

I have been with my girlfriend for about 6 months
now, and she can only peak orgasm when I give
her oral. She has had one time in her life when she
had a orgasm during intercourse years ago. She is
in her 40’s and has never had a surgery for female
problems. Can anyone help us out there on what
we could do to help her out with this.
thanks,
Andy and Jill

i nead to go to florda and make my girlfriend come back to newyork with me and stop datting that stuppid asshole girlfriend-steeling drummer dude. but i nead monney to go there. please all my bilion’s of fan’s please start a colecshion for me to go to florda and make her come back to me cause i am perfect and she should allway’s do what i say and i say i changed my mind about her breacking up with me and moveing to florda 3 month’s ago and so that meen’s she is my girlfriend again not that stuppid drummer guys. please help me cause i am perfect and you all love and idolise me.

how can i make girls come to me

i want a girlfriend so bad i can’t wait anymore

heres a pic of me

Yeah I Don't Know

im 15 and im a 9th grader

i’ve waited for 2 years
how do i get girls around me

ok so i have an issue my girlfriend is unable to orgasm… she says what i do feels really good and then all of a sudden she looses complete interest and it starts to hurt … i mean also i never popped her cherry and i don’t think its a issue of size im like 7.9 in hard and i mean its not like skinny either so i mean it hurts at first for her so i know its big enough…

first of all she lost her virginity to me so i know its not like shes stretched out or anything cause shes not… she has gotten fingered by one guy before me and since then we have been together for almost 2 years and having sex for almost 8 months now and shes still never orgasmed or had her cherry pop and she told me that she never popped it with the first BF so is it just that im doing something wrong …..

and about the orgasm thing she gets real nervous when we have sex could that be the reason she gets suddenly turned off and also has never been able to finish????

alright my girlfriend pregnat and her mom always says something about if she travel in a car for long distance it makes the baby come out faster i dont belive is her mom is old school so i was wondering was this just a old school mith thing are is this is a proven fact

again the question is traveling on the road does it make you go in labor earlier?

everytime im talking to my girlfriend we always come to anyways…
or sooo?
how can i actually have a good conversation with her?
or are we not meant to be together?

when we make love i can tell she gets really aroused and starts moaning and what not but then she tells me to stop cuz she cant take it anymore like im making her feel too good. (this doesnt mean we stop making love it just means that i slow down) does that mean i made her orgasm even if theres no female ejaculation? ive been with 2 other women before her but ive never made them come . ive been with my current girlfriend for 8 months now were both 18 and i used to think that at first she did this because she was holding back on me but then again i know i should be more understanding because shes never had an orgasm before and she told me she wouldnt know if she has had one with me or not because im her first and she doesnt know what one is supposed to feel like.
she did tell me she feels like shes gonna pee . in fact thats exactly what came out of her mouth. so i must be on the right path then. =] thanks for your help people.

OK, now I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years now and we are still very in love with each other, although like every couple we have our little bickers. Anyways at the beginning of our sexual relationship (We were both virgins) during sex I could get her to reach her peak and climax through both penetration and oral stimulation. As our relationship has gone one though the ability for her to reach her climax through penetration from me has decreased and has become something that only happens on occasions. However oral stimulation gets her to climax faster and harder than earlier in the relationship. Would this be a big deal to a lot of women? I still get her to climax through oral stimulation about 5-7 times a week on average if not more on some good weeks. But as for getting her to climax through penetration that only happens maybe one time a month. Would many women find this to be a problem? Would this satisfy most women?

My girlfriend is stuck in Atlanta with her family and she needs to relocate. We want to move in together but she needs a new job and i finished school so, i am currently unemployed. I need some guidance as to what can be done with some type of assistance or help or i don’t know. I’m confused and its really heard, she is in a situation where she has to leave and i need some help. please.

Has anyone actually had any luck with this? Please give your expierences/brands. Thanks.
I’m 23. My girlfriend is kinda not very satisified by my current size.

Im getting curious ’bout my sexlife i am continuing to masturbate cause i want my c*ck to be larger. I know I have a girlfriend already but i look at older woman lately and i feel like i want to get seduced by one for a try. I kinda watch porn so i masturbate evry time i see b**bs and big b*tts. I am also curious to find out how to enlarge your penis for junior high. I also have a crush on teacher Ms.Carrol she’s 52 years old and married and i think she is attractive and hot. So how do u get seduced by a woman and and how to flirt with a woman (im 13).

Is my girlfriend’s orgasm normal? we have a Great sex life, always trying new things and new positions, but something has always…bothered me: She does not Contract during her Orgasm.

When asked about this she just replies that " it just feels better when i just relax throughout the whole thing". Ive asked her to try to "Bear Down" during her next orgasm, but i still Did Not feel anything.

I know she isnt faking it by her Flushed Face and Chest, Shortness of Breath, and her increased DONTTOUCHME!!! Sensitivity after her "O".However, there is not any Physical evidence of it at all! Weither it be from Oral, Digital, or Actual Intercourse its always the same; she doesnt tighten, contract or anything.

Are there many women who orgasm like this? or is there somthing that we can do to let Me recieve some pleasure for pleasing Her?

I have a girlfriend on Club Penguin and I never see anymore on the site?What do you think I should do to make her come back?

I can’t give my girlfriend an orgasm anymore. I realized this after my girlfriend started to stop saying things like "Yes!" and all that dirty talk. Though I know that’s not what turns me on about her but ever since she stopped that I can’t give her an orgasm! Maybe it’s… my member? I’m 7 1/4 inches, but I changed my diet to allow more meats and started working out more. So maybe my member gets less blood now? I don’t know… EVERY TIME we have sex I can give her an orgasm. EVERY time. Does anybody have any insight/advice?
I’m more of the "romance over sex" type. Our romance is pretty passionate. And we only turn to sex as a release from all the romancing. Hmmm… Maybe because of the position. I’ll try a different position this time.

i want to make a coupon book for my girlfriend for christmas but im not sure exactly what to put in it. i want to do five coupons at least. some that i came up with is: 1. i make dinner 2. movie night/sleepover at my apartment without the roommates 3. a poem 4. a fancy dinner out at an expensive restaurant. i need one more though, any ideas?

Me and my girlfriend are both virgins, we’ve never had intercource, but we’ve done oral quite a few times, but not too too many, mabe about 5 times to her anyways. So my problem is I cant seem to make her orgasm. Fingering her realllllly gets her going and she seem like she gets to that point, but it never happens. Even with oral she says it feels amazing but I cant seem to make her orgasim, even though we’ve only done it a few times. She normally just stops, or gets so worked up she says she just needs a breather. She told me that when she stops its because it feels best as I finish, but today I did oral on her for about a good 15-20 minutes and she really got into it, bucking, tensening, heavy breathing, it seemed like she was almost there but then it would just kinda stop and then a second or two later it would start up again but never get to an orgasm… is there anything I can do to pleasure her even more than she says I already am?

Hi, I’m very confused lately. It might be obsessive toughts due to a huge lack of confidence or self listening but 3 months ago while I was working, I started to ask myself a million of questions including questions about my sexual orientation. I dug in the past to find the answers and I just couldn’t figure out what was wrong. I did masturbate once in my life while I was thinking about a guy as far as I remember but it wasn’t sexual … it was some kind of challenge-fantasy towards the same sex … I have a girlfriend and I love her to death. I would never break her heart. I quit my job because everyday I would come in start looking at mens in a different way and even check them out. But when I have a good day and I keep myself busy, I don’t think about those things same when I’m with my gf … But lately, I would have weak orgasm … less libido … less confidence … I would find myself stupid to everything I do wrong … it’s unbelievable how low I am :s … I ordered those enlarge-your-penis-pills cuz I feel like I’m not horny enough. My head is a real mess. I’m curious, unsatisfied even tho I got the best I always deserved. I use to be 200pds and girls would push me away. My ex never gave me a lot of pleasure either so maybe I’m sexualy frustrated … I don’t know what’s going on anymore. I use to go to gay clubs with my gay and lesbian friends without being uncomfortable but now just being around my gay friend makes me feel like I need to think I’m gay too … Could it be just a phase ? I’m 21 and pre-matured so I think I’m having my period of questionning. HELP ! I have these weird questions lately uh … I hate hanging around guys …
-I often imagine myself doing it with a guy but I don’t know if I’d feel confortable doing it …
-I’m very paranoid in general

ok to start off me and my girlfriend both lost our virginity to eachother and yes i deff know this for a fact, but everytime we have sex even then she still wont orgasm or if she does its not alot so is there anything i can do about that because weve tried 3 diff. positions me on top, spoon, and her on top… we both agree that her on top gives both of us the most pleasure, but like i said she still wont orgasm or if she does its not alot so what can i do?

How do i make my Girlfriend have the best orgasm possible?

What should i do and when and in what order? Thanks in Advance !

Has any guy out there ever had problems keeping it up/relaxing to enjoy/ coming when making love with serious girlfriend? My boyfriend of one year tries to avoid sex.. he makes jokes about it, but the truth is, he is obviously haveing problems keeping it hard during, and I can tell he is NOT relaxed, even just kissing. Have I made him more nervous by telling him that I need more sex, more romance, and that he is not normal? i didn’t say it mean, but I did say it, because I am frustrated and feel like we cannot bond without making love.when we actually do it, it is a nervous time for both of us.so is that why he now basically avoids it? He s very affectionate, loves to cuddle.but now, no kisses, and no hard-ons.and even if he DOES get hard, he does not innitiate sex! I am getting mad… he acts like that is normal.. or is he just hiding his embarrassment? I know he does not like eye-contact in bed either, but the funny thing s, emotionally/mentally it gets better all the time. WTF

I am my girlfriend’s first time sexual partner and despite my best efforts she cant seem to get an orgasm, please help!
She’s 18, and I’m 20, we’ve been having sex for a few months, and I try to communicate with her as much as possible. She told me she’s never had an orgasm, and while I think I’ve gotten her veryclose, she seems toreach a point when she’s on the verge of orgasm, but instead goes limp, and tells me to stop.

I have tried oral, finger stimulation, different possitions etc. We always do foreplay, I explore her body, let her know how gorgeous she is, and listen for every sign of pleasure from her, and yet whenever she gets close she just stops.

I am her first partner, but we both know are care for each other, and I really want her to fully enjoy love making, so I need some advice as to what I’m doing wrong, or what I could do to help her achieve orgasm.

And it’s not size that’s the problem, if you know what I mean; she tells me she’sfully satisfied every time, and last time she was out if breath for 5 minutes, and unable to move from how good it felt, but still no orgasm. She did say she felt pinprick all over her body though.

Any experience and advce will be much appreciated.

Thank you all. :)

I haven’t dated anyone in ages. I’m a bit autistic… but fully functional. I’m intelligent and good looking. My friend’s say I’m a 7 and one friend said I was a 9 when it comes to looks. How come I can’t find a girlfriend? Because am a bit autistic? It’s not really noticeable.

My girlfriend and i have a loving caring and great relation ship . our sex life is pretty good and i always get plesure from it but she has never orgasmed . she says he ex broke her and she wont be able to do it . at times she thinks she maby can but i need some feed back people .

My girlfriend has always had orgasms in the past. But recently she has stopped having orgasms. She has recently started taking some meds from the doctor called Citalopram the other is called clonazepam. We know they do decrease sex drive as a side effect but would that keep her from having an orgasm? Her sex drive is still there just no orgasm. Please help.

How come my girlfriend wants to hold my hand in public? I don’t want any other girl to see that I have a girlfriend. She asks me to hold her hand so I do. I really do like my girlfriend a lot and find her attractive. I don’t hold her hand in public though. How come my girlfriend wants to hold hands with me in public?

Me and my girlfriend recently started touching each other ‘down there’, but since it’s a new thing for us, we’re only doing it from outside panties/boxers. How can I make her come?

I am 19 years old and never had a girlfriend. I am 100% Straight no doubts about it. I really dont have time for girls or want any of the hassles that come with a girlfriend. But some people think I am gay cuz I dont want a girlfriend. What is wrong with people these days, so I have to have a girlfriend or have sex with a girl or I am gay, that just shows how dumb people are. Not everyone is this single minded like this but alot of people are from my experiences. I think guys pressure there friends to have girlfriends and sex and all that, but I am invulnerable to the effects of peer pressure, so I could care less. But why are so many people like this and so single minded?????????????/
I am just sick of this bullshit. I am sick of my shallow friends and there assumptions too, I am done with friends for now just gonna focus on college and boxing mostly boxing but ya
exactly see what I am saying people like him, I AM NOT GAY AT ALL, is that big enough for ya can ya read it now
I do like girls, just dont have time for them nothing wrong with them

ok so my girlfriend and i r going to try having me fingering her and we will b at my moms house cuz we are both still teenagers…..well question is……when she is going to orgasm what are we supposed 2 do like cuz i dont want mom 2 find….u kno the evidence lol….?? plz only real answers i need real advice…thank u!!

I had ya know last yeAr and I wasn’t going out with by girlfriend yet but she got upset from me doing that but since then I have changed I realized it was stupid but she just thinks of me as one of those in sensitive jerks which I don’t think I am

I’m pretty new to sex but my girlfriend isnt.
She was my first and i was her second, but her and here previous boyfriend had sex all the time.
Thats fine and all but when we have sex she doesnt have an orgasm(at least I dont think she does) i hear alot of heavy breathing
could she just no be making noise or am i doing something wrong.
I don’t want to make sex for us awkward by asking about it and i don’t want a fake one either. What should I do?

I know normally 3 or 4 months into the relationship a couple has sex with each other for the first time.

But, how did the first time you had sex with your girlfriend or boyfriend come about ?

Did you just get really passionate with each other and then you eventually went into the bedroom ?

One evening last week, my girlfriend and I were getting into bed.
Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says, ‘I don’t feel like it, I just want you to hold me.’
I said, ‘WHAT??!! What was that?!’
So she says the words that every boyfriend on the planet dreads to hear…
‘You’re just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man.’
She responded to my puzzled look by saying, ‘Can’t you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?’
Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.
The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big unnamed department store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn’t decide which one to take, so I told her we’d just buy them all.
She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said, ‘Lets get a pair for each outfit.’

We went on to the jewellery department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. Let me tell you… she was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn’t even know how to play tennis.

I think I threw her for a loop when I said, ‘That’s fine, honey.’ She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement.

Smiling with excited anticipation, she finally said, ‘I think this is all dear, let’s go to the cashier.’

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, ‘No honey, I don’t feel like it.’

Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled, ‘WHAT?’

I then said, ‘Honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while.
You’re just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman.’

And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, ‘Why can’t you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?’

Apparently I’m not having sex tonight either… but at least that bitch knows I’m smarter than her.

I am an American citizen ( a woman) and my girlfriend is from India. How can she stay legally with me in America.

My girlfriend and I had a child a few years back. We both have jobs but I make more than half her income. We decided not to put our child in daycare. She wanted to stay home with our child and work at night. Throughout the whole time of doing this she has been resentful of me because I have a career job (but I had this before I met her) and she has to be a waitress at night. But, I think “does she really have too?” No. I told her she could get a day career job if she wants. But she didn’t so we were left with our situation. In making this easier I paid the rent for the last few years, utilities, and the majority of entertainment. Her job was to pay for groceries, phone, and her own bills. She has paid off a lot of her bills/debt with this arrangement.

She is still resentful because she wants to have a joint account, wants me to pay for some of her bills, I should have gotten her health insurance, how could I ask her for money sometimes for little things, I believe that expenses should be shared but fairly. I thought I was being fair. She holds it against me all the time that I was able to save money for a house I decided to buy. She complains and holds things against me that she was working nights and she helped me save the money because I didn’t have to pay daycare, and that she put her career on hold and has nothing to show for it. She complains that I should have shared my money and “how could you let your girlfriend have no health insurance, and not help her pay her bills with all the savings I had”. My explanation is that I am helping her by not getting her to pay much for living expenses, and taking care of most of the entertainment, buying her things she likes, giving her money to help her. Mind you, whenever she needs money I help her out. I also told her to get health insurance and I would reduce her even more paying living expenses. What is wrong with this picture? What am I not doing right and am I being reasonable and fair?
The baby is under my own insurance. I told her to get insurance through her work and I would help her.

My girlfriend doesnt orgasm when we have sex. I have actually only gotten her off a few times in the past year but I had to use oral and that doesnt work all the time. When we have sex I try to stimulate her clitors with my hand but she just slaps my hand away and tells me to stop. She says it is to sensitive (how do I get her off if I cant touch her there). She claims she enjoys sex, and I know she love me but to be honest when we have sex she doesnt seem like she has her head in the game. She will always talk about thing that has nothing to do with whats going on, and I blame her because I feel that she doesnt orgasm because she doesnt concentrate on trying to have one.

my bro takes drug tests at his work and he just kissed his girlfriend who smokes will it come up on his test? he said he could taste the weed when they kissed. and yes he used tongue.

I have lasted up to half an hour in bed and my girlfriend has never had a orgasm. She says she doesn’t care but i would really rather her have one than not. I have tried eating her out and then sex and it still didn’t work. What am I doing wrong?
I have lasted up to half an hour in bed and my girlfriend has never had a orgasm and I have a solid 7 inches?!? She says she doesn’t care but i would really rather her have one than not. What am I doing wrong?
Oh and by the way I am not small either.

I’ve been dating my girlfriend for over 6months. During oral sex, after a certain point she tells me to stop because she can’t take it anymore. She says she becomes too overwhelmed and can’t continue. Any tips? Am i doing something wrong?

I am 19 years old and never had a girlfriend. I am 100% Straight no doubts about it. I really dont have time for girls or want any of the hassles that come with a girlfriend. But some people think I am gay cuz I dont want a girlfriend. What is wrong with people these days, so I have to have a girlfriend or have sex with a girl or I am gay, that just shows how dumb people are. Not everyone is this single minded like this but alot of people are from my experiences. I think guys pressure there friends to have girlfriends and sex and all that, but I am invulnerable to the effects of peer pressure, so I could care less. But why are so many people like this and so single minded????????????
I would rather just be alone, I am all I need I dont need no one else I am an island so to say

It’s been 3 years since I’ve had a girlfriend. I am a nice guy, courteous and polite to women, but never let them walk over me. I make the decisions, take the lead, am firm, and will voice my opinion. I don’t take shit from no one and let people know that. I just don’t act like an asshole, and treat people like shit. I’m confident, independent, and extroverted yet how come I can’t get a girlfriend?

It is very difficult for my girlfriend to get an orgasm through sex or *asturbation. The only position that she can get an orgasm is if she’s on top and we go very fast for a long period of time without stopping. Even with this technique she doesn’t get an orgasm most of the time. She can’t get one when she *asturbates unless she uses something on her clit that vibrates. When she does this, everything needs to be perfect… down to the right temperature. If it’s too hot or too cold in the room she can’t get one. It usually takes about 20 minutes of this before she gets one. Does anyone have any advice? Sex positions? *asturbation tips? ANYTHING would help! Also, is this normal? Is it this hard for every girl?

hey, basically i have a girlfriend who i think is great, and we’ve been going out for 5 months. my problem is that when i finger her i can’t bring her to orgasm, but i know that her previous boyfriend gave her that particular pleasure, which makes me feel really inadequate and lacking in confidence. I’ve tried looking at websites and stuff but nothing’s really helping me, i was wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to what i can do? thanks

This past week i believe i got my girlfriend to orgasm for the first time through fingering. She thought she had before but now she believes that she had never in the past and this was her first. She said it was a completely different feeling and that it was much better.

I dont mean to be graphic but i started off just playing with her clit and some rubbing which got good responses like it always does. Later i started the actual penetration but this time she got very tense and kind of "pushed" my fingers out quite a bit. I could really only get them in a very little ways. I kept going however and this was with my palm facing down so id bet that helped. Anyway after a few minutes she started to grab onto me a lot more than usual and made quite a bit of noise. At the point that i think she went off she held her breathe and i felt her muscles kind of push against my fingers about 3 times spaced apart by a good 15 seconds each. She then started to breathe heavily and became oversensitive. Was this an orgasm? Since that night ive weve only tried again once and the same thing happened with the whole "pushing" feeling. Id just like to know if i did well and to see if my girlfriend can tell. =) Thanks, and no trolls this is quite serious, if you dont have an answer dont post.
good, i thought it was. And i did ask her lol, she wasnt completely sure either as it was new to her. Yeah the muscle thing gave it away i think, but it wasnt fast if just felt kind of like the hole like opened up a bit more and pushed my fingers outwards in 15-20 second intervals, and every time that happened she would hold her breathe…any more insight?

i have been going out with my girlfriend for 7 months but i still am not 100% sure when she has had her orgasm or not?

I mean all the stuff we’ve done (everything but sex) the amount of times i’ve fingered her i know that 95% of the time shes probs orgasemed.

What are the "symptoms" of an orgasm?

It’s been one year after she delivered my first baby. Before she was pregnant, she was really skinny and really hot. I don’t find her hot at all anymore. I’ve been avoiding sex with her unless she is really really really turned on then I have sex with her but I think about someone hotter though. how come my girlfriend still is fat and ugly?

I don’t know why my girlfriend has been doing this for several weeks, we’ve been together for about 2 years now and she hasn’t done anything like this. I’m not complaining but it just feels weird when she and i get intimate and when she decides to give me oral sex she starts making crying sounds like babies and when she starts she starts making giggling sounds. How come she is doing these things when we get intimate ?? Is there something with her ??

I don’t know why my girlfriend has been doing this for several weeks, we’ve been together for about 2 years now and she hasn’t done anything like this. I’m not complaining but it just feels weird when she and i get intimate and when she decides to give me oral sex she starts making crying sounds like babies and when she starts she starts making giggling sounds. How come she is doing these things when we get intimate ?? Is there something with her ??

I cant seem to make my girlfriend orgasm, according to her shes just really good at holding it in, but i still want to get her to that point, any pointers? things i can do while we are fooling around? anything?

How come my girlfriend wants to hold my hand in public? I don’t want any other girl to see that I have a girlfriend. She asks me to hold her hand so I do. I really do like my girlfriend a lot and find her attractive. I don’t hold her hand in public though. How come my girlfriend wants to hold hands with me in public?

It’s been one year after she delivered my first baby. Before she was pregnant, she was really skinny and really hot. I don’t find her hot at all anymore. I’ve been avoiding sex with her unless she is really really really turned on then I have sex with her but I think about someone hotter though. how come my girlfriend still is fat and ugly?

my girlfriend cant get an orgasm because she doesnt cum.. i mean she gets a lot of plessure she even runs out of breath but still nothing.. she tells me she feels a lot but still not enough what can i do to change that?

I really want to give my girlfriend the best hand job ever. what is the best way to do it? What positions do we need to be in? what works and feels the best for you? What is the best way to stimulate her clitoris? I want to make her beg for more. please give me details, I really want to rock her world.

everytime i see my girlfriend i finger her but she is just not happy i tried to look up how to get her to have an orgasm but nothing works on her please help

but come on no girlfriend. I always try to look good and smell .take showers all the time. please help me. I always try to be myself

My girlfriend is now on the pill and she claims that she will not miss a day of taking it. Considering that here and there she MIGHT miss taking it, how often should we have sex where I ejaculate while inside her? We want to be really safe, obviously because we don’t want a baby. (By the way, we’re both 15). We definetely agree to use the pull-out method most of the time, but now since she has birth control, would it hurt to come inside her every so often? Thanks!

i feel that my jealousy is driving my girlfriend away from me. however, i dont understand why. she’s done many many things to give me reasons to pull away, but i only seem to love her the same every day. i never pull away from her. but she doesnt seem to care about me as much, and she seems to be loosing love in me.

can anyone give me tips of things i can do to get her love back? I’ve tried writing songs, singing them to her, writing poems (im a poet), drawing, and she appreciates absolutely NOTHING. idk what to do anymore :’(

I have dated my girlfriend for 3 years now. when we started haveing sex we were each others first. She told me the other day that she disnt know if she is haveing an orgasam, so i figure i havent gave her one. are their any tips or tricks i can use. i’m desperate.

i have a small penis and i was wondering if there was anyway that i could enlarge it my girlfriend even though she says she’s satisfied doesn’t really seem it so i was wondering if anyone knew a way to enlarge my penis without spending lots of money. Oh and another question for girls does size really matter. just wondering

Ive given my girlfriend a clitorl orgasm before, but when we have sex I just can’t get her off. I don’t think my penis is too small but she sometimes can’t even feel me. I can get off but I feel terrible about it and I told her im not going to let myself get off until she does. Its really frusterating for the both of us and i dont know what im suposed to do. Can someone please help us out?

Everytime when i see my beautiful girlfriend in a pair of high heeels i get really horny and start to think about sex and all of that stuffs. I usually go up to her grab her waist and hold her in my arms and next thing you know we we’re in bed. How come i get like this ? What is wrong with me ? I’m not trying to sound perverted i just need some answers.

i need some help to help make my girlfriend orgasm. we’ve been together for over a year and i want to spice up our relationship by making her satisfied in bed. can somebody help please?!!!!!

in san andreas, i have been weaiting 3 hours and my girlfriend, denise, still hasnt come home… i know she didnt dump me cus the heart is still there. is there any way to make her come home?????

Me and my girlfriend are both clean and its our first time having anal sex,could we get any STDS from it but are main concern is what is the fluid that comes out after anal sex?

I need help, I have a girlfriend and she is "fast". How will i get a bigger penis without embarrassing myself? Im 14 yrs old and i have a really small penis. Please help me

im 19 and obviously a guy

me and my girlfriend sometimes have sex and sometimes we just mess around but we always use protection.
i want to know how to give her a great long orgasm though

its a stupid question but if you could answer that would be great

Ok so I really like my girlfriend, and i cant come up with a nickname for her, i want it to be unique, and i want it to say i love you.
her name is hillary

in san andreas, i have been weaiting 3 hours and my girlfriend, denise, still hasnt come home… i know she didnt dump me cus the heart is still there. is there any way to make her come home?????

I am 19 years old and never had a girlfriend. I am 100% Straight no doubts about it. I really dont have time for girls or want any of the hassles that come with a girlfriend. But some people think I am gay cuz I dont want a girlfriend. What is wrong with people these days, so I have to have a girlfriend or have sex with a girl or I am gay, that just shows how dumb people are. Not everyone is this single minded like this but alot of people are from my experiences. I think guys pressure there friends to have girlfriends and sex and all that, but I am invulnerable to the effects of peer pressure, so I could care less. But why are so many people like this and so single minded????????????
I would rather just be alone, I am all I need I dont need no one else I am an island so to say

This happened just as i was having a orgasm and now my girlfriend is scared to come to the house anymore.. She usually comes over every evening for dinner.. But now my mom caught her eating something else besides her fried pork chops… What should i do ??????

im 19 and obviously a guy

me and my girlfriend sometimes have sex and sometimes we just mess around but we always use protection.
i want to know how to give her a great long orgasm though

its a stupid question but if you could answer that would be great

I could have the possibility of moving to Canada and wish to move with my girlfriend from the UK, without leaving her behind what options are available if I only had a work visa? I also believe I need to be on a work visa for two years before I can apply for permanent residence? What options would be available to us both in the long run?

I fingered my girlfriend for the first time tonight and she said she orgasmed. I only fingered her for like 5-10 minutes, using mainly one finger and sometimes two. She was really wet down there, but she didnt really moan, only heavy breathing and the occasional little noise.

Anyway she said she had an orgasm but dont know if she was telling the truth or not and its really bugging me lol. Can a girl really orgasm in like 5-10 minutes?

When my girlfriend reaches to my pen15 and rubs it…still with my jeans on, why is it that i come in 10 seconds?

My girlfriend broke up with me today after two years when I showed her my penis because she said her 8 year old little brother has a bigger penis than me.

I told my friend about my little problem and he said I should tie one end of a rope onto the top of my penis and tie one end of the rope onto the door knob. Then take two steps back, in my case one and shut the door as hard as I can. Does this really make penis bigger?

she was a virgin and at first it hurt but she got an orgasm on our first time together.. at first i didnt believe her because the other girl i had it with just said it hurt real bad… what my current girlfriend described sounds like an orgasm to me she said it was an exploding feeling that spread through out her body… does that seem normal, i mean she really likes me and all but can that take away the pain of the first time?

Ive tried everything to make my girlfriend orgasm but nothing seems to work. When i finger her she moans and everything and at the end she says it felt great and loved every part of it but i dont know if she has reaches orgasm. Please help!!!!!

My girlfriend and I have been together for several months. We are both devout Christians. We took vows of chastity. Prior to us getting together, I noticed her condemnatory attitude towards sex, and that is one of the main things that attracted me to her since I also condemn sex. Now she wants to have sex. I don’t know what to do. That is a sin.
I am mad at her for being a hypocrite and wanting to sin. Should I break up with her?

It seems like I’m meant to be with a woman. How come I always am hooking up with guys? I don’t like having a boyfriend. I like having a girlfriend. I find guys as really hot but it doesn’t make me want to be in a relationship with them. I just want to hook up or do nothing but look. So doesn’t it seem like I am meant to be with a girl? Then why am I always doing this?

how would you take it if your girlfriend didn’t come to your mother’s burial with excuse that his father couldn’t take him there as she didn’t have a car ..?

Me and my girlfriend have been together for over 6 months. We have had sex numerous times and i have fingered her and licked her "down there" the whole 9 yards, but i just cant get her to climax. She has had 2 orgasm’s with other guys who she has only been with for a short time and i just feel so helpless im trying my hardest and I really need to get her to orgasm. Please i don’t want any crappy answers i really need this, thanks.

my girlfriend rode on my leg to reach orgasm and ‘came’ on my thigh several times. we did not take a shower or anything afterwards and the cum dried on my leg. a day after pimples formed where she previously sat.

are these pimples? they have little white heads to be pimples with no abnormal shape, scarring, or pus.

i have no bumps or pimples or anything out of sorts in my vagina area, and i am prone to have body acne and acne on my face.

could this be by letting the contact of her fluids and my skin cause irritation– or something else?

thanks

My girlfriend who lives in Namibia wants to come here in India and this place is very dangerous for foreign women as rape cases against foreign women are increasing.

How do I convince her that I am coming to Namibia soon and she should not put herself at risk ?

My girlfriend and have been together for almost a year and have been having sex for about 5 months. For whatever reason she can orgasm everytime during oral, but has never been able to from sex. I am about 6 and 1/2 inches long and on a good day have lasted about 10-15 mins so I don’t think its size or me not lasting long enough. She is tall (5′10"). could this have something to do with it? She doesn’t have a problem with not orgasming during sex, but I’m frustrated. Please help. Thanks

I’m a bit far away frm my girlfriends place….We use to call each other and flirt and talk abt sex…and give kisses and have sex thru telephone…..My girlfriend seems to reach peak orgasm without even touching herself…just by hearing me satisfying myself as well as talkin sex…Is it okay?? and is it possible?????

Basically I’ve been with my girlfriend for around 17 months and while we’ve had our ups and downs, overall we’re really happy together.

But during that time, there have been problems getting her to orgasm.

I would say that 50% of the time I have managed to get her to orgasm. I achieve this either through using my hands or oral – but it’s fair to say it’s hit and miss.

The problem is I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I read up a lot on it and in my mind at least I am doing the same things but the results are very inconsistent. When we have our good patches, things are great but there are times where no matter how often we try we just can’t get there. Every time we are together I try and get her to orgasm.

Recently though, it has been miss after miss and it’s got to a point where it’s effecting our relationship. We’ve probably had around 4 or 5 disappointing times in a row now, and obviously she is getting frustrated and I just feel like I’m letting her down.

Is there any way to increase the chances of achieving orgasm? I just want to give my girlfriend what she deserves.

Well, last week i was with my girlfriend and we decided to have some fun. after kissing and what not i went into her pants, which happens about 3 or 4 times a month. but this time when i was fingering her i did it a lot longer than i have before and i believe i we were working our way really close to her orgasm. but as i continued she said she it felt like she needed to pee. so i stopped for her sake then she said i can continue again.. so i did and the same thing happened another 1 or 2 times again and after that she said she was finished.

i need some help please, preferably a girl who knows what im talking about but i need to know if its something im doing wrong or if the sensation she has to pee is an indication of me doing something wrong too. any tricks or tips to help me get her to orgasm?

please and thank you to all.
=]
So then another thing is should i continue to rub her the same way if she says she has the feeling to pee? if she says that i should just keep going? and she should orgasm then.. right?

I don’t know why my girlfriend has been doing this for several weeks, we’ve been together for about 2 years now and she hasn’t done anything like this. I’m not complaining but it just feels weird when she and i get intimate and when she decides to give me oral sex she starts making crying sounds like babies and when she starts she starts making giggling sounds. How come she is doing these things when we get intimate ?? Is there something with her ??

Hi guys. I gave my girlfriend her first oral experience this week (eat out). The problem is that after trying 2-3 times, she tells me that she feels an unbelievable sensation, and then suddenly tells me to get off because she feels (her clitoris) "too sensitive" (as if she wants me to continue, but she cant go on).

I tried to not lick it directly after the 1st time. But it always happens. Like she gets to the point where she’s really into it, but then she suddenly starts to push me away and urge me to stop for good.

Does any one know what this happen? It feels sort of frustrating that she seems to be about to orgasm :S

What can I do after me and my girlfriend have sex to keep her happy and give her an orgasm? Like what is the best technique after sex. Sex is pretty much ended when the man orgasms but when I am done I want to keep going on her to make sure that she has one too. What is the best way to do that after sex?
EDIT: I know foreplay and fingering before. But I mean even though I climax before her, I still want to get her to climax too. My question is mainly how can I make her climax after sex and after I orgasm.

I don’t know why my girlfriend has been doing this for several weeks, we’ve been together for about 2 years now and she hasn’t done anything like this. I’m not complaining but it just feels weird when she and i get intimate and when she decides to give me oral sex she starts making crying sounds like babies and when she starts she starts making giggling sounds. How come she is doing these things when we get intimate ?? Is there something with her ??

I don’t know how to make my girlfriend orgasm, and apparently she doesn’t really masturbate so she doesn’t know either. But she says that it’s okay.

It’s been like this for a year. Now she became friends with this guy at her college and he’s known to be excellent in bed with girls. I know my gf won’t cheat, but I can tell she’s been curious and tempted (before she met the guy, she’s always saying stuff like "hmmm i wonder what orgasm feels like"). The guy is always flirting with her too. Do you think my gf would ever leave me for someone who can satisfy her? You know, just unintentional, due to curiosity and what not.
She never ‘expected’ me to find out how, fyi.

I said she’s been okay with it all along. But I know she’s curious, but she’s not hammering me down for not being able to pleasure her. I’m just worried because I know there are probably people out there who can figure her out.

Me n my girlfriend r on a break i know wut to do wen were back together to keep it like dat but How do i get her back sooner den da time dat she said?

My girlfriend and I have been sexually curious for a while, we’ve been messing around for a few months but I’ve never given her an Orgasm. She’s told me that it feels good, but it’s just not enough, but is it possible to give her an orgasm just through touching?

While I’m on the subject, we’ve also talked about having sex, and she wants to wait till she’s 18 (which isn’t far away, and is legal at the age she is now) so she can get anti-biotics that you can only get if your non-sexually active 18+ (I think it was for like cervical cancer and things like that). Do these drugs really exist or was it just something her mom told her?

Also, I know not having sex is the only 100% way not to have a baby, but if we do decide to make love, she doesn’t believe in birth control, will a condom and spermicide be enough, or is that a big no-no? Or is that good enough? (Please don’t use the "abstinence is the only way" bs, that’s just an opinion and her and I have our own opinion)
Thanks for your input
Just wanted to clarify, since someone isn’t intelligent enough to read the question:
While abstinence may be the only way to have 100% birth control, the question was if in the event of sex, is the amount of protecton sufficient to actually provide any sort of unintended pregnancy.
The opinion part is whether or not abstinence is the right way to live your life. My girlfriend and I have discussed it and believe we are more than ready for that kind of commitment (and are capable of resolving any unexpected outcomes)
So, I’ve asked these quesions not out of naivety of my age, but out of commitment to make the right decision and have enough information to make a good decision.
Thank you to those who gave intelligent output and relevant information!

i have a problem. my girlfriend that i have been going out for a year and a half wants to have sex with me. but go didnt give me the biggest penis and im scared that she will leave me for it. what should i do?

me and my girlfriend went to a nightclub. Me and some other girl was dirty dancing (grinding), and my girlfriend saw me and just pulled me and yelled at me. Why did she got mad at me?

My girlfriend orgasms like a guy. She will go at it for a little while (about 5-10 mins), orgasm, and then collapse. After laying there for a few mins, she just get off and say that she is done.
She does this all the time.
I thought girls can have multipule orgasms? She says once she orgasms, she looses sexual drive and feels "finished".and no urge to go on for round two.
Is that normal?
Any suggestions in fixing this, or any other similar experiences?

I had a girlfriend and we met online, we havent met each other personally yet, but I really wish I could see her soon and come over here in the US since I can’t go to their country for my schedule is squeezed up and it wouldn’t be loose not up until 2008 or 2009? Help!
She is from the Philippines.

Ive done everything with my girlfriend but i cant seem to cum when we have sex. I can cum when i masterbate it just doesnt seem to happen when we have sex. I get really close and then nothing. Any suggestions why this is happening would be great. Thanks

My girlfriend and I have been together for 10 months as of this coming sunday. We are the only people each other has slept with, so we’re still rather naive about a lot of it.

We’ve been having sex for about 7 months now, and it’s been great. I almost always put her pleasure before my own, as that is the way I feel it should be. I always asked her if she climaxed at least twice when we finished, because if not I would perform oral to make it happen.

Yesterday, she said her sister gave her a book called I *heart* Female Orgasm, and upon reading it, she discovered that she had never had an orgasm. Intense pleasure, but not the Big O.

She told me this in an effort to improve our sex, and handed me the book for pointers, but rather than make things better, things are worse. I suddenly have a feeling of inadequecy that’s really bothering me. And getting a book makes it even worse. I just feel now like I’m bad in bed, and to proud to read the book for help.

What should I do?

Me and my Girlfriend wanna hang over at my house, But because of her grades, She cant come over. Shes shown Progress, but still with High D’s. Is there any excuse I Can use to get my Girl To Come Over? I REALLY Wanna See her

I love my girlfriend very much and we have sex at least 4 times a week. She says she cant climax when her legs are apart. As a result all I do is continuously finger ‘do’ her and play with her boobs till she comes.. She does have some great orgasms but she doesn’t think we can use my fingers forever. To make matters worse, I am not that well endowed (5 and a half inches). Not sure if there are any positions that would work for us or what we can do. Shes said that its just a mental block shes got that ’she cant have an orgasm with her legs apart’ but until that block gets outta there, I’m gonna need some help! Please advise!! I really love this girl and want her to enjoy sex to the fullest.. Thanks

I want to no when the December issue of girlfriend will come out?
Please help i don’t no when it will come out!

This is a very awkward topic for me to ask about, so please try and help the best you can. I can give myself one perfectly well and everything, but when my girlfriend and I start messing about, she can never give me one and it’s kind of annoying both of us. I’m 17 and when I say messing about I mean just with hands.

Is there any advice you can give me please?
Thanks.
Thanks very much for the responses. :)

My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and our planning a wedding for the spring. But we differ in our opinions about religion. I was raised to be a Presbyterian and havent gone to church since I started dating her because she hates church!I admit I am still working out how I feel about religion living a gay life. I want us to do this together but she is hesitant about going to even a "Gay-Friendly" church? What should I do? I love her so much and want to have children. I want our children to go to church because i feel that is important. Please Help!!

My girlfriend always tells me that I need to try pills to enhance my penis. I am not embarrassed of my penis but my girl friend makes me feel that way. Anything to get my john bigger will be awesome.

I have been going out with my girlfriend for the past 6 months. In that time we’ve had a lot of sex, up to eight times in a week, sometimes three times in one day.
Almost every time we have sex, she gets hot, moany, and squirmish, as if she is really really enjoying it but often she asks me to finish inside her saying that it feels really good (says she likes the feeling of me pulsating). As a result, I’ve only been able to make her come like 6 times since I mostly finish first. Is her request normal? What should I do?

Please advice… (guys and girls…)

My girlfriend comes from an Orthodox Jewish family, originally from Israel, and her parents really dislike that I’m having a relationship with their daughter and they wish I would leave her. I cannot seem to do anything that will make them accept me being with her. They are really against the fact that I’m not Jewish and told me I couldn’t convert just for the sake of being with their daughter. How could I make them come to accept me? What should I do about my situation? Do any Jews have any suggestions for me?
My girlfriend does not want to give up her religion/heritage, but she wants to be with me too.

just throwing this on here out of curiosity..last night my girlfriend and i had awesome sex, in the act she left a wet spot on my bed close to the size of a soccer ball it was incredible.. just wondering because im pretty sure she didnt have an orgasm (we probably both would have known) my question is should we have kept going?? (it ended shortly after) is the extremely wetness one step closer to the real deal?

i need a sad love song to make my girlfriend come back to me

So, my girlfriend recently told me she has never had an orgasm when we had sex. We have been together almost two years and I guess she has been faking it all along. I don’t understand what is wrong. I am very well endowed-almost nine full inches and very thick. She always complements me on the size of my penis so I don’t understand what is wrong. Is it possible she needs an even larger penis?

I guess I am too embarrassed to talk to her about it and I think she feels bad she told me the truth.

What can I do?

Thanks!

Well my ‘girl friend’ and my girlfriend are coming over on saturday to eat dinner and my girlfriend likes spaghetti a lot so we’re going to eat that. But the thing is, I don’t have great manners while eating that so I need some tips on how I can eat spaghetti and not look like a pig and still have girlfriend by the end of the night.

I bought the shirt but my girlfriend really didn’t like it…its just a white shirt with what looks like a whole bunch of converse high tops on it in blue. diamonds in pink. and dollar symbols and wads of cash in green. It came from a very popular store and from the mens section for sure. i don’t have any problem with gay people but i was just asking? my girlfriend said the whole diamond thing is "scene" could you also explain that. thanks

My girlfriend has just recently left me but I am still in love with her and I feel that I have a very good chance of getting back together with her because we are still good friends

My girlfriend and I are both 20 year old virgins, and recently I gave her, her first orgasm in her life. I did it by giving her oral. She told me she could never even give herself one! Is that normal for girls not being about to give themselves orgasms?

I’ve been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and we’ve had lots of sex and she says most of the time she is very satisfied and yet i cant make her orgasm please help me it worries me that i cant make her orgasm ….thank you in advanced

I have a super-sweet, but very tuff and clawed 14 year old cat. My girlfriend has 2 little dogs that torment her cat at her house. She comes to visit, and I just corral my cat, but he’s got a stressed look on his face whenever the dogs are over.
Any tips?
Thanks all. That’s handy. Now, are there tranquillizer options? Natural ones?

I’m 17 a 17 year old male. I’ve only had one girlfriend and I’m very introverted. I literally only have one friend. I’m very shy though as well on top of being introverted. Anyway, I’m 6′5", very intelligent, I play the guitar in a band, and I’m pretty good looking. But I don’t talk to anyone! Wherever I go I just sit by myself in the corner of the room and don’t talk to anyone.

Is there anything I can do to make women come up to me? I know it sounds ridiculous but there’s got to be someway….

I’m good at talking to people when I have to, and I have no problem looking people directly in the eye, I just can’t think of any reasons to go up to any women and I’m afriad of women thinking I’m a creep.

Thanks for the help.
Lila- No I know I’m not scary looking because all my sister’s friends like me and my friend’s (girl) friends all comment how I’m good looking.
Matt- My band is damn good we’re playing in front of a crowd of 3,000 in a week!!!
JustAGuy- You’re probably right.

When my girlfriend and I have sex, it’s great for me, but she doesnt get off like I do. How can I make sex more pleasing for her and what can I do to get her off?

I’m a fairly experienced lesbian and i’ve been dating my girlfriend now for over 6 months. She’s never been with anyone else besides me sexually and neither of us can figure out why she can’t orgasm. We’ve tried strap-ons, vibrators, oral sex, and every different position i can think of and still nothing. Is it a mental issue or is there something physically wrong that should be addressed by a doctor? What can we do to help her reach her first orgasm? Please help, her sanity is at stake.

I’ve never had problems before, but lately, with my current girlfriend, there is no comparison – she is never satisfied. I do know how to do it, but it takes hours to satisfy her! I was trying to talk to her, she just says: "try Again! I am not giving you tips".

im having my girlfriend come over and ide like to make a deliciouse rhubarb crumble for desert and i want to know the ingredience for it does any1 know? many thanx

hey everyone, so my girlfriend’s coming over next weekend and i need some good ideas for a dinner plan. My cooking skills aren’t amazing, but not terrible. Any good, semi-easy ideas you have are appreciated

Thank you!

anyone have positive results from penis enlargement pills? if so wich one, and how much growth? if u havent tried them please dont bother answering, dont need the "waste of money" comments unless you have tried one and it didnt work. thanks
thanks for the rapid feedback, the thing is lenth, im only a little over 6 but very thick, my girlfriend cant even wrap her hand around it, but id love to gain an inch, 2 if possible. year long commitment of exercises and pills doesnt sound worht it tho

At least among females? I have heard it all my life, but I have also heard girlfriend meaning a female one is dating. What is this about and when did it start?

my girlfriend and i have never had sex, but instead we touch each other, so i was fingering her and she finally had an orgasm for the first time, and she started shaking and about 45 minutes later she was still shaking. i know my first orgasm i was shaking for a while too, but no where near 45 minutes. i know female orgasms are a lot stronger, but is this normal?
(i’m 14)

My family is going to Florida in July for my sister’s softball team, so we’re making it into a mini vacation. My parents said I might be able to bring someone, but they said probably not to bringing my girlfriend. We’re both 16 so it is kind of a stretch trying to convince them, so I was wondering if anyone has any advice. Thanks.

my serious girlfriend wants to come to the USA for college and she is from PERU, but she said some about papers for immigration but they only let her stay 6months to a year…is this truee???
i mean they cant make her come right back to PERU if she is trying to go for college all four years…what should we do?????any kind of help or information can be hlpful for us thankssssss

I’m 27years old, and my penis is not even 5cm long when it erects, what can I do to get it bigger, cause my girlfriend lost intrest in me?
My penis is not even 5inches long, and I’m already 27yrs old,. what can use to get it bigger?
My penis is not even 5inches long, and I’m already 27yrs old,. what can use to get it bigger?

I have a girlfriend and we tend to touch each and other things in a very nice and romantic environment (with no penetration).
I tend to estimulate her clitoris and things tend to get very intense. I know time and patiente is essential, so we have no hurrys and just let things flow.
She always gets really really high, like it would happen any moment, she moves and get very crazy untill she sudently gets a peak and just ask me to stop. But it’s not a high with contractions or anything.
I had other girlfriends and it was very easy to see that they were having orgasm. They knowed how to get there and I could feel the contractions and all the extasis going on. The orgasm would take a small time in which they had the contrations.
This girlfriends all touched herself.
Now my girlfriend wants me to do it all. She never touched herself and she doesn’t want to start (which I respect).
What is happening? What should I do for her to discover the world of orgasm?

Hello, Im 17 and im having a problem, i lost my virginity when i was 14. Needless to say i havent had many sexual partners but the problem is i have never been able to come. I have a recent Girlfriend who i love very much and the other night she (Im going to be graphic were all adults here, well most of us lol) was giving me a hand job/bj for about 20-30 minutes and i just couldnt feel anything, didnt even feel close to cumming, so then we attempted to have sex and i must say i didnt feel anything niethter (i had a thin condom on and still couldnt feel anything, i have put my penis in a vagina with out a condom b4 and it felt great but i literly mean put it in and out like 2 times. Ive been looking for answers on the net and cant really find that much appart from i may be too used to masturbation. I do it quite often pretty much everyday (Im going to stop). Also id like to add i do make my gf come. Its frustating for her coz she thinks she is doing somthing wrong. PLEASE HELP!

hi i been with my girlfriend for two and halfe years, but we had a hard life with money ! and i was warking at the factory and also she been doing same jobs every time she works at deffrient places and is was hard for her .she was working at nights and days 12 hours and also weekends , when she was working days shift she has to wake up 4 am and get 2 bus to get to work so i was feeling very bad and feeling sorry for her ! she is pretty and really looking great ! so i was thinking this life is not her life !
so i diccided to tell her you cant do that hard jobs and lets we think about something that be easy for you and sute you .
i told her why you not going to college and learning hairdressing ? she was thinking she cant do it at the begianing but after 2 week she said yes she will do .also she from lithunanian and i am from uk . so we tried to get a course here in uk but it was hard and needed lots money . so we tried at her country and there was cheap so we booked for next six month so she can start the course !
so the rent for the house we used pay both we changed and we rent a room shared with other people .so we can save some money for the course , i was paying everything rent and food and bills so she can save money for her course , fainally she worked hard even weekends and lots over times so she can save some money , and she did .
so time come close for her course it was in june and she lifet me in june for six month .and we use to talk every day on skype everything was normal !but 6 weeks a go she went to USA to finish her course there , but she never told me about this that she going there to finish her course !!!! well i was tring to ring her but never got respond from her ! after that i called her sister and she told me that my girlfriend went to USA to finish her course !! i really upset !!so i emailed my girlfriend and she reply and said that she feel sorry for never told me ! but i was angry first but still told her that i love her and that stuff , as i am really do love her so much !well i send her lots email about 40 emails but i got only 1 emails back !
again i was feeling why she not talking to me and i asked her if she still love me or she got new life and think about something eles ?! she replyed and she was angry and she was saying that she will not back to uk and even her country becouse she hate uk and no one love her ! so i really upset and been crying all time . becose i want her back to me ! she even emailed her sister been saying that she will never back there to her country too ! we dont know why ! also she been saying on the last emails that she will never cheak her mail anymore ! so she can not hear from us at all ! and she said good by to me and she will never forget me !! please help me what shell i do to change her mind and bring her back to my life ???

Do other guys make their girlfriend come a large number of times, and each time soaking the mattress? My girlfriend has had previous relationships, and she says she has not ever had this much pleasure in her life…………..

My girlfriend is trying to become a model and she has made it into the top ten people for emu shoes. they make a shoe similiar to ugg boots here in the u.s. if she wins she will receive a 1 year modeling contract with EMU, she will be THE face of EMU,she will win a trip to australia, and be in their magazines, amongst other prizes that could be critical for her career. please help her win this by going to
www.emu-ridge.com/
weekly_contestants.html
press JAZZMEN then press VOTE..now the picture that is up is the picture that EMU picked. we sent 3 different ones in and they picked it, so its not the best, and doesn’t even begin to compare to her.dont judge just vote..thanks :)

My girlfriend confessed to me that she has never had an orgasm. I didn’t quite know what to tell her but to talk to her girlfriends, but she told me that her girlfriends don’t talk about such things because of religious or cultural reasons. I told her that all women are different and that women are more complicated than guys. Any one have any advice to help my girlfriend out? For the record, if you are going to make jokes, please don’t. There is no need to be rude.

My girlfriend said I have a small penis so I lied and told the cops that she abused her child. How can I get her in more trouble?

me and my girlfriend have been together for two years and she and i were virgins when we got together so niether of us knows if she orgasms during sex or foreplay. can someone enlighten me?

My girlfriend tells me she enjoys the sex with me, but has made that remark a few times. It bothers me, but I am not sure how much is it suppossed to get to me.

It’s been one year after she delivered my first baby. Before she was pregnant, she was really skinny and really hot. I don’t find her hot at all anymore. I’ve been avoiding sex with her unless she is really really really turned on then I have sex with her but I think about someone hotter though. how come my girlfriend still is fat and ugly?

Hi,
I’m a US Soldier stationed at Camp Castle,Korea and Im planning on seeing my girlfriend we have been together for 1 year and Im taking leave where I’am now. I wanted to know if it would be possible for her to come from the phillippines to come see me? She does have a passport but someone was telling me that I need to buy a visa? She does not plan on staying long about 15 days if I can get more leave 30.

Me and my girlfriend have been have had sex a couple of times and after a while throughout each occasion, she said she have this feeling where she had to go pee, although I would keep going thinking that the orgasm was right past that, after a point she would say to stop because the feeling was too strong. I would then press her g-spot with my fingers and she would immediately jerk quickly and ask for me to stop. What’s going on??

My girlfriend’s birthday is coming up, and I told her I would make her dinner. I am a college kid, so I don’t have much cooking skills. It needs to be vegetarian, as well. What should I make?

My girlfriend and I have been active for about a month, but recently, she hasn’t been able to reach orgasm, she gets close, but just can’t finish. What could be wrong, is there something that I can do to help her?

Me and my girlfriend have been sexually active for some time now. We used to, well just go at it all the time. And some things in our relationship got kinda hard. And after all that stuff happened then she kinda slowed stuf down.. And now that she did that Sex has been more difacult. Well I’m not pleasing her as much as I used to and that wories me. I just want to please her real well.

Thanks.

How come my girlfriend wants to hold my hand in public? I don’t want any other girl to see that I have a girlfriend. She asks me to hold her hand so I do. I really do like my girlfriend a lot and find her attractive. I don’t hold her hand in public though. How come my girlfriend wants to hold hands with me in public?

My girlfriend and I have added something new to our relationship, but we only perform it intermittenly. We like anal, but she can only do it like once a week–strangely she comes really well that way, but can only take it once a week. I’m not entirely huge, but I’m not small either. When will she "loosen up" and be able to take it more regularly. We’ve only been doing it "back there" for about a month.

My girlfriend recently left me because I was rude in front of her family. Her ex-husband was like this all of the time and I reminded her sister of him. That made her scared and she said she couldn’t date me anymore because I was now affecting her family. I told her a few days after we broke up that I knew what was causing me to behave the way I did and can control it because I now know; she said that she needed some time to think about it.

A friend of mine says she knows someone who can make a person come back to you within three days. She said that I need to be sure, though, because she will always be in love with me. This is what I want; she is the one that I want to be with for the rest of my life. She told me a week before we broke up that she wanted to get engaged in 6 months, once we both took care of some business with our individual lives (real estate, etc)

I am not trying to harm anyone. Has anyone had experiences with magic being used to have a person come back to you?

So i am out and proud. And my girlfriend wants to be. I dont know how to help her. I dont want her to go through what i had to. But, i want to help her come out. So any advise on how i could help her do it the right way.(well there is no right way) But, the better way.

Ok, me and my girlfriend have sex, and it seems like she lasts only about 15 minutes. Then she gets "dry." We do it at a normal pace too. Is it normal for girls to last this short of time; and will it ever change (time to reach orgasm?)

If there is though can you metion people who have done the process and it actually succeeded please because my girlfriend is pressuring me a little bit and i think shes getting suspicious

I was born in Mexico but I currently live in the US. My girlfriend currently lives in the Philippines. I want to go to Mexico and live there and we want to start a new life down there. I just dont know how hard or difficult it will be to get a VISA for her. I mean, it is Mexico…they have a problem with people leaving the country, it can’t be that hard to get a VISA to live there, right?–please I really need help on this. I am workin and savin my money. with that Money i will get tickets to go to Mexico, then from there fly to the Philippines and get her to come with me to Mexico. Please help me…I love this girl and I will do anything for her. Thank you all for the help!
Please help me with this dilemma….wat might be easier …for me to bring her to Mexico or for me to go to the Philippines?—

Can somebody please tell me how to ask my girlfriend if she had an orgasm because i don’t know if she has. When i finger her she moans and everything and says it felt great at the end and she loved every part of it but I don’t know if she had an orgasm?

heyss everyone :)

well my girlfriend her birthday coming up, and im still struggling to bought her a present. im thinking on my mind which i should create own birthday gift for her ( my own hand made lol)

but don’t really know what should i make for her ..maybe a birthday cake?

..Any ideas anyone?? that will help full :)

thank’s

How do I get my girlfriend to have a squirting orgasm?

My girlfriend and I are both 21, she is from Brazil, and I am from the UK. We both want to live in the UK, however, neither of us is ready to get married, and so we want to know what options she has to come and live permanently with me in the UK until we are ready to marry. We are both unqualified but want to study (however she cant afford the UK tuition fees).

i have 2 girlfriends. One is quite fair and the other one is darker.. when i sexually fondle my white girlfriend, she responds average. But when i do the same to my dark girlfriend, she moans and gets wet really soon. we even have sex a lot more.. I asked her why? she responded that darker women are sexually more sensitive.. I find this little weird….
Answer my question and not rate my character that im weird etc I think gays and lesbians are also weird. But its their choice.. its none of ur business how many women i sleep with… Just answer my question.!

My parents think that I think that my girlfriend is the only point in the world. A lot of my friends that there girlfriends come to there house but my mom and dad would die before that happens and how can I make my girlfriends parents like me more. Plz help me

Would you like it if your girlfriend was experimental and openly into porn etc? Or would you prefer her to have only eyes and thoughts for you?

I first started to notice this phenomenon in high school when all of my friends started getting girlfriends. I never felt the urge to get a girlfriend, because I felt the hassle would be to large for the reward. Like I am sexually attracted to women but I would never want to be with a woman.

What does that make me?

I’ve been with my girlfriend for over a year and I have not been able to have an orgasm with her. I can masturbate and have one, but I can’t have one when I’m inside her. Help!

I’m goin into the Air Force and if I choose active duty, I would like to get stationed near home, but I know I may not. My girlfriend supports me, but I don’t want to leave her if I’m out of state. We are not married, but we plan to get married soon. If I get stationed out of state and we haven’t been married yet, can she come with me? Or do we have to be married?

My girlfriend says she can have a orgasm just by laying on a pillow or folded blanket, is this possible?

Well u know how much media effects everything but i wanna know whats true. i know theres all these hot guys on tv with 6 packs and not an ounce of fat on em and stuff right?

well i thought thats the only thing girls are attractd to. im not fat but im not skinny either, just right in the middle. i dont have a hardcore 6 pac or anything but my g/f is very sexually attracted to me and i get self conscious about my weight although it doesnt seem to bother her at all.

so what really makes a guy sexually attractive? im 6ft 220lbs 34 pant size and large shirt, 19yrs
Yes, my girlfriend has told me she loves my broad shoulders so your right about that haha

I want my girlfriend to come to my birthday party but her Mom says no.
I need help on what she should say so she might have a better chance of coming! Someone please help!

me and my girlfriend plan to take our relationship to the final level.this is my first time.i want advice how can i satisfy her best.i want her to remem ber this experience forever.
this is not her first time i think.

my girlfriend can only get an orgasm when she’s riding me. how can I make her get an orgasm? i tried many ways but it just doesn’t happen. how can i do?

I want to surprise my Argentine girlfriend with a ticket to come visit me in the USA. SHe is currently a Student in Argentina. She would stay for no longer than 30 days. Can she get a visa on arrival? if not what steps would i have to take to ensure a smooth passage?

I can’t seem to get my girlfriend to have an orgasm. I don’t feel like I should be satisfied unless she is also. Can anyone please give me some insight, anything at all that might help. I’m in my early twenties and have a little bit larger than average penis so I don’t think thats the problem. PLEASE HELP!!!

My girlfriend has always told me that being kidnapped and held as a sex slave is one of her greatest fantasies. Sounds great in your mind right? It’s a little hard to do in reality. She wants it to be realistic, but I don’t want to hurt her. How the heck am I going to do this practially? All ideas welcome.

my dads girlfriend and me are really close
but she keeps leaving us
and now she is getting a house that is way to expensive for her
and my daddy really loves her and she loves him
how do i convince her to come back she says she wants to be here but everytime she comes back she leaves out of nowhere!

When my girlfriend and I are together, and we are doing foreplay and what not, she can never seem to get me to orgasm. She’s done hand jobs, blow jobs, and everything short of having sex. Is this because I have been masturbating for a long time? (I don’t overly do it either) Could that be the reason why, or is it that she isn’t doing something right to get me off?

my girlfriend sometimes told me she had orgasm but i didn’t feel anything different. i want to feel and know. but how?

recently i broakoff with my girlfriend we talk on the phone a lot but havent seen each other for past seven months i miss her and want her back we keep making up and breaking of please help me

Typically after clitoral and g-spot stimulation leading to orgasm, my girlfriend has a fluid that kind of seeps out of her vagina. It has the look and consistency of semen. It is not projectile in any way. Does anyone know what this is or at least experienced it yourself? Please do not answer rudely or say something stupid like ‘your girlfriend’s a hermaphrodite’. Thanks in advance to the people who take this site seriously.
If this helps, she is currently not on birth control but has been in the past.

My girlfriend is a citizen of Bosnia and herzegovina. I want her to come to the United States to meet my family. It is really hard for Herzegovinan citizens to get Visas to the US. Almost always denied. So with that in mind is the only way to get her here through a fiance visa? What if she comes on that visa and we dont marry how long can she stay before they would make her leave? It seems silly to me that I cant have my foreign girlfriend come here to meet my family, so someone any advice would be great.

I don’t think shes ever had a proper one off me, or im never sure if she has, because i’ve never heard her moan or anything. She likes sex a lot but it seems to be relaxed, never jumping around screaming orgasmic sex. I saw a question 2 minutes ago about some girl who cant help screaming whilst shes having sex, and I want my girlfriend to be able to do that :(

Any tips please ?

I have seen video clips of women having an orgasm and squirting a long ways. When my girlfriend has an orgasm, she get really wet but she doesn’t squrt. Is there a technique I can use or is it the girl?

My girlfriend thinks she might have it, and yes we are sexually active. However she refuses to go into the doctor because she would need to bring her parents with her and she won’t go if the doctors tell her parents she has to be having sex to get this. Please help!

Ok, my girlfriend and I have great sex, but I haven’t seen her in a while and when I do I want to make her orgasim/come like she never has before. What can I do, any tricks? Or any tips? Please Help I would appreciate it. :-)

On my 18th birthday my girlfriend and I are going to have sex(she’s 20, so the idea of sex with a minor makes her uncomfortable). It’s my first time but it’s not hers. I don’t have the strongest sex drive, so honestly I’m more concerned with making it enjoyable for her than for me. I’ve read a few articles on female orgasm, and many of the said I should take care with foreplay and that it would take around 20 minutes. Does this mean that there should be 20 minutes of foreplay, 20 minutes of intercourse, or 20 minutes of them both combined? 20 minutes of intercourse sounds grueling, but I want to do my best to please her sexually. Any advice?

So, I like my girlfriend a lot, but she’s way to shy. She gets nervous when I try to hold hands, wont accept anything I give to her, and is to shy to kiss me. I don’t want to dump her or anything, I just want her to feel more comfortable around me. What should I do?

I want to know how to give my girlfriend an amazing orgasm, but i don’t know how! I want to make it just as pleasurable for her as it is for me. I need to know how to do it! I don’t want her to get bored. I feel that if i give her one she will be more interested and have more fun. please help!

How can I get my Girlfriend to have an orgasm when I am on top? She can have one when she is on top but I want it to happen for her while I am on top.

  
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