How come woman seem to get less mature as they get older?
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I’m reading all the time from teenage girls and woman in their early twenties how much they like nice guys and will ask out a guy. They say they aren’t interested in his money or personality is more important. How come this attitude changes when they get into their late twenties and thirtys. They’ll go for any guy over 6′ and a big pay check and will never make the first move.
the older they get the more complicated the game playing gets.
you think I’m wrong? just look who the questions are coming from.
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I’m going to first say that your experience might just be not having met the right woman yet. That said, I don’t think your question is silly or misinformed at all– regardless of what other posters have said.
I think it’s biology–interestingly you said late twenties & thirties, when female biology is raging for pregancy and children. Add to that the student loan debts they face, and the friends of theirs that are already married and living comfortably on two incomes, and you’re bound to meet some women that, although they make a decent income, would love to meet someone more financially "comfortable" than they could ever dream of becoming on their own. BTW I’m almost 34, don’t want children necessarily, but I am having those hormone swings and I’m saddled with student loans. I’m exactly like the women you describe, except I don’t think it’s immaturity. I’m just a little pickier these days, and thinking about the long term. Also, when I was in my twenties, I hung out with people in their early twenties and NONE of us had money. True, at that time I was probably more open to starting a relationship with a starving artist because he had great ideas and could rant about philosophy, but at this stage in my life, I need someone with more stability. Yes, that includes financial stability.
no i actually think this goes for men. not woman.
No, thats just your experiance. Ask the question differently and find out how many agree with you.
listen sonny…i’m 80 and very mature.. wanna call me???
Wow never thought of that before…
I don’t know where you are from ,but for your information, That is very much wrong.
I really don’t know why that happens.. But I think a guy’s personality is the priority,,, not the cash in their wallets..
Haha okay, first off where the heck are you getting all this information? Because it’s pretty much BS. I for one, don’t like men with large sums of money. Id take a poor man who is intelligent, good looking and has a nice personality over an ugly millionaire. Sorry but money doesnt mean a thing to me when it comes to dating.
Most men mature less, you know some don’t mature until they’re 70 years old. There are a lot who mature young though too, it just depends on the person.
because were influenced by men like YOU!!!!
I think it depends on the woman. I know that as we get older and see our options shrinking we are less picky. It may appear as if we just value looks and money but I don’t think that’s always the case.
Yeah…..you have this azz-backwards!
The young ones want the $$ and looks, where us 40’s women have a comfort in ourselves. We don’t NEED your money because we have our own. We don’t even need MEN, but sometimes it’s nice to have them around.
Your lil young chickies are flat out lying if they say your paycheck doesn’t matter!
Probably because some women chose the guy with the personality over looks or cash when young and after the marriage didn’t work out, they are thinking their expectations were all wrong, if the personality didn’t work, why not try the materialistic things this time?
I would have to say that as a woman gets older she becomes a little wiser to the world around her. It’s not that they choose money over a good personality or just want a man that has money..it’s that alot of times they want the whole package. Sure they want a nice guy that makes them laugh..but not out of a cardboard box. It doesn’t have to be a mansion or 1 million bucks but a steady job is important and shows responsibility. As far as making the first moves…they’ve learned that men like a challenge and the chase.They don’t normally want a woman to chase them.They want a woman that has been "won".Not a woman that chases the men she likes.
Are you sure $ is not important for women in 20s? As far as I am concern many DO look into stable career & some money when come into choosing a guy… even for a fling or stable, women still look into that criteria. Though, older women 30s be changing when it comes into paycheck… with women getting more independent, this $ criteria tends to loosen & other caring chracteristics come into demand…