come or orgasm during sex?

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when my partner and i have sex, he comes after about 40 mins. if he goes for longer it starts to hurt me abit. but 40 mins is usually his average. anyway, he always says he wishes he could make me come. i have never orgasmed/come during sex, and i think it could be because i dont know the differance.
is there a differance between when a woman comes and when she orgasms, or is it the same thing. i feel realy silly not knowing. he gets upset when he cant make me come but i have never comed so its not his fault right?
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"coming" is a term for "have an orgasm"
many women have difficulty having orgasms during intercourse – there are ways to learn to do that
having intercourse longer is not necessarily the best way to give a woman an orgasm, but to spend a looooong time in foreplay, usign hands and mouths on her genitals, especially clitoral area – before penetration is better
Have you ever masturbated? Can you make yourself come/orgasm?
The more you learn about how your body works and how to give yourself an orgasm, the easier you can teach your partner how to help you do it
Most effective ways is through manual or oral stimulation of the clitoris
Check out these sites and hope you figure out how to do it
http://www.sexinfo101.com/kb_mastlad.shtml
http://www.sexinfo101.com/ic_femaleorgasms.shtml
http://www.iankerner.com/scf.html
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There is no difference coming is having an orgasm. Next time you have sex, try having him do it from behind while you play with your clit…this should do the trick.
it is actually two different things. Not all girls ’squirt’. Like for example men can have an orgasm without ejaculating fluid.
My boyfriend gets upset about it too… And your right its not his fault at all. Have him try clitoral stimulation
allot of it is mental. i have had several partners before i met my husband. i have only has orgasims with him. you just have to relax…….. dont worry how you look, and dont let your mind wonder. he needs to go down on you. when you orgasim you will know. there was on time i sprayed. but only once. idk how that happend lol. good luck